ttc after mc- the best shit place to be! #2

Awesome Xmas pressie envious. Congratulations

Hope everyone's surviving today OK.

Huge congrats envious!! What a fantastic Christmas present

congrats to all with BFPs.

Just checking in, I'm exhausted/emotional and will read through properly once I get a moment to myself.

envious that's wonderful!!!

Congratulations Envious. What a fabulous Christmas present Here's to a very happy and healthy pregnancy.

Congratulations . Happy Christmas!!

Congratulations llama!! What a lovely Christmas gift for you!

Happy Christmas friends. Hope you're all doing ok today. This Christmas isn't what any of us expected but I guess it is what it is. Hope you are all with loved ones. xx

Chink Chink. Mulled wine here.

Brandy time.
Cheers ladies.
Thank you all for being there for me through the worst 7 months of my life.I wish us all the best in the new year xxxxxxxxx

Sorry you're without your family mrsB, that's really tough.

I feel bad for ruining my family's and DH's family's Christmasses. It's hard to enjoy the day with a miserable daughter/sister in the corner. Especially when we had literally only told them the news a day or two ago. We had had a private early scan so that we would have more info when telling the families. The size of the baby was fine, and there was a strong heartbeat but the sac was small. Even though the clinic didn't flag it we knew the small sac meant an increased risk. Ironic that the early scan made us more anxious rather than less!

Hope all you ladies have a lovely Christmas day despite the tough year in 2014. Look forward to getting to know you all over the next while.

A-ha! Now I get it newera/sebs!! Doesn't take much to confuse me See you on the posifrickentivity board...

Sorry to all the new joiners MrsFaz, Molly and MrsB. I hope you find this thread as supportive as I have.

AlltheQueens - your last post brought years to my eyes. This thread has been hugely supportive - I don't know where I'd be without you ladies. I would be delighted to join you in your drinks party this evening, although I fear that I'm too far away and might not get there in time!

I shall also be raising a toast to our little seeds this evening.

Ladies, thank you so much. I really appreciate all the hugs and support xxx
At dh's parents atm.
Going to toast Little Seed with brandy tonight x

Just lurking for now ladies, not quite ready to dip my toe in - a bit too raw and emotional for Christmas, but I've heard how wonderful you all are.
Pregnancy #1 - diagnosed MMC at 7 weeks. Have decided to have an ERPC on 31st - happy freakin new year.
Think DH and I are all cried out for now - time to have some quiet space and reset.
So hard with my family all in Australia, when all I want right now is my mum.

Scared, upset, confused, but hopeful we can get a BFP soon enough when this is all over. Just praying everything stays in until the surgery, can not deal with much else right now.
Shall scroll through the posts and update when and as I can. Deep breaths and take each day at a time.

Christ must use the bloody preview message function. Just popped on to give treacle a hug. I'll go now.

I'm not keeping up at the moment ladies but just piped on to send tracks a hug. I'll catch up soon.

mollym sorry you're going through mc today. There is a lot of practical advice on the miscarriage section of mn with what to expect and how to manage things. As haribo said it's different for everyone.

treacle hugs

I still have brown stringy stuff. I googled it and wish I hadnt! If its not settled in a few days I'll go to gp in the NY. Normal swab results so I guess its wtf cycle mark 2.

Broody I've confused everyone as I have been here all along under the username NewEraNewMindset. I wanted to get rid if sebsmummy as I associated it with infertility and miscarriage. Now in pregnant again I have bought it back so if I miscarry again I can get rid of it again and not taint my new name.

Makes sense to me lol. Anyway I'm good right now!!!

treacle just popping on to say I'm thinking of you.

To everyone else, I will raise a glass this evening for all our little seeds.
Before I open the wine and commence wrapping I just wanted to thank each and every one of you for all the advice, support, hugs, sympathy and at times smiles over the last year. I wish I could invite you all for a Christmas drink this evening.

Congratulations to the new bfps and here's hoping that will be us all soon. I'm feeling really teary today but you ladies have been a life line in some very dark times and it's a privilege to have had this kind of support.

Cheers

sebs, how are you? I was thinking of you the other day and hoping all is ok with you xx

treacle, definitely a good idea to keep busy today but do allow yourself to grieve. Say a prayer, raise a glass, whatever you want to do to remember your littlie. Much love xx

Thanks a million Haribo, really kind of you to share your experience. I plan to work my way through the thread to hear everyone else's stories once I feel a bit better. Head's a bit woozy at the mo

After I passed the main clots/main stuff I bled for about 2 weeks, very much like a light period but they do say it can be up to 4 weeks xx

Thanks ladies!! Just reading this post really really helped .... Don't really know anyone that has miscarried and ALL my mates are pregnant so seems unfair to talk to them about it! I had a good cry last night talking to my mum so got it all out! The EPAU gave me a week off work so I plan on RELAXING!!

Think the emotions were worse because I also had biopsies done on a breast lump last week and results were due today .... Just had the phone call today to say all negative so at least one bit of good news x