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The Pregvember bus- With Frolic dog as our mascot and ov dance lessons we can all get our BFPs (Thread 3)

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xBlueberry88x · 09/11/2014 12:12

Come on ladies we can make this the bus where we all graduate with BFPs!!

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xBlueberry88x · 09/11/2014 14:05

lucie your poor friend I couldnt imagine ever starting again and im 26. I was only single for 6 months after my previous partner and we were together for 5 years and engaged and it devastated me when he ran off with someone he worked with.
My dp now refuses to marry me which will always worry me but we've been together 6 years in may so I guess he loves me lol

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wanttobeamummyin2015 · 09/11/2014 13:53

Hopping aboard!

Oh dear, that sounds strange with af spinning. Hopefully you can get cracking on next month though without the soy.

9dpo... no symptoms so convinced I shall be out by the end of the week. nothing to do with the fact that i poas this morning after seeing broody's bfp and got an ebfn (extra-big-fat-negative)

angelaham · 09/11/2014 13:50

Sorry to hear AF has got you spinning, think the best thing to do is stop the soy and give your body a break from it, maybe continue with any conception its that you might be taking as just go from there, i know its been a really short cycle which means you get to have another go shortly, put your feet up and indulge in something naughty, and be cosy on the sofa, my cycles have been all over place each month, i am trying vitamin b complex to see if that helps in any way, il keep you posted and that could be another route too x

MrsExtraOrdinary · 09/11/2014 13:37

Gosh spinning 17 days? That's crazy short. I agree completely throw the soy in the bin. I think if it was me I'd have a month off all extra sups. Just give your body a rest. The good news i guess at least it was 17 days and not 47 days and you'll soon be into the next cycle. Has soy done that to anyone else? I know a few were trying it? Confused

middles809 · 09/11/2014 13:36

I agree lucieloos! I was single for a very long time before I met my OH. Never thought I'd be in this position now. I'm actually very happy thinking that if we aren't fortunate enough to have kids and I had to share my life with one other person then I know it's him.

Hopefully we'l be parents soon though.

broodylicious · 09/11/2014 13:33

Oh spinning, so sorry to hear AF got you xx

broodylicious · 09/11/2014 13:26

Thanks for the new thread blueberry. May it bring you good luck :)

lucieloos · 09/11/2014 13:24

A friend told me today that she has split up with the guy she has been seeing for a couple of years, she is nearly 38 and now having to start over which must be really hard as I know she would like children someday. It just made me realise how lucky I am. I remember going through the whole dating game for years and how hard it was but now I am happily married and have a lovely dh. Whilst all this ttc might be hard work it just reminded me of how lucky I am to be in a position to actually be ttc even if it doesn't happen straight away or we have to seek assistance, at least we are in a position to be doing something. Just sat here in the sun having a little moment and thought I would share lol.

lucieloos · 09/11/2014 13:13

Really sorry AF arrived spinning Hmm I really think that you did ovulate just really early this cycle which is why you missed the opk, it can happen apparently. If you look at your chart the second half is really similar to the one of your cycle before in that you have 2 dips (although this cycle they weren't as big as the cycle before) and then 3 days after your second dip af arrives. I definitely think give the soy a miss from now on. I am also finding that my cycle has settled a lot more this month since stopping the epo. My acupuncturist has recommended agnus castus/vitex which is meant to help balance cycles and hormones so that could be something to look into once things have settled down a bit ThanksThanks

lucieloos · 09/11/2014 13:08

Thanks for new thread blueberry, getting comfy in my seat!

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xBlueberry88x · 09/11/2014 13:04

victoria lol stop symptom spotting!!

MrsE lol I had a vision of Robin Williams in patch adams with the red ball on his nose

Spinning That really does suck im so sorry eat lots of cake!!

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Cariad2014 · 09/11/2014 13:04

Sorry AF arrived Spinning - that's utterly rubbish. Thanks Keeping everything crossed that your cycles return to normal next time.

spinningirl10 · 09/11/2014 13:01

Haha love the new thread title thanks BlueberryGrin and hope it's brings you luck as the thread starter!

Well af is here in full flow......that's one fucked up cycle with af arriving on cd17!! No more soy for me, I just have everything crossed that normal cycle returns for me.

Treaclepie19 · 09/11/2014 12:42

Hiya all :)

MrsExtraOrdinary · 09/11/2014 12:32

Blueberry I can't get enough of them! It's the gorgeous smell! Yes I admit I'm wearing them on my nose too Grin

victoria401 · 09/11/2014 12:31

Thanks for the thread blueberry, may it bring you luck! X

4dpo, must stop symptom spotting!

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xBlueberry88x · 09/11/2014 12:25

ahaha still craving satsumas then MrsE least its a healthy craving I bet mine will be something gluten in that I cant have!

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MrsExtraOrdinary · 09/11/2014 12:23

You will definitely be graduating soon blueberry, I can feel it in my waters! >Satsuma anyone?

Quietlyhopeful81 · 09/11/2014 12:19

Settling in to my seat.

7dpo for me today. Haven't caught up on everyones news yet, but congrats to the bfps and sorry to everyone who got caught by af!

Cariad2014 · 09/11/2014 12:18

Thanks for the new thread Blueberry. Loving the reference to Frolicdog in the title.

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