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The Pregvember bus- With Frolic dog as our mascot and ov dance lessons we can all get our BFPs (Thread 3)

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xBlueberry88x · 09/11/2014 12:12

Come on ladies we can make this the bus where we all graduate with BFPs!!

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gennibugs · 16/11/2014 09:40

Morning all

another temp dip today so things not looking hopeful. Sad

victoria missmrs and Terry hope AF stays away and good fortune comes your way!!!

TerrysNo3 · 16/11/2014 09:36

Nutella I know what you mean, it doesn't make sense that you can have loads of unprotected sex and not get pregnant. What else can we do?!? Grin

Victoria and MissMrs fx AF stays away from you both!

nutelladipper · 16/11/2014 09:24

Thanks victoria we've had such a good month timing wise I'm just feeling crap that it could all of been a waste of effort. X

victoria401 · 16/11/2014 09:00

I've heard that people get bad guts before their bfp nutella! Fx

More on and off cramps this morning. Might have had some spotting on tp but could have been shadow as was semi dark and I had slitty eyes! Gonna put a liner on today just in case. And keep myself busy! Need to do a good shop, a wash and cleaning. Joy, don't you just love weekends?!

Got this odd vision in my head of all these little pots of pee hidden behind stuff in the bathroom! Good luck to anyone dipping sticks in them later!

Frolicacid · 16/11/2014 08:54

Good morning!

Diy sounds good bluesky. We probably should have been doing some jobs rather than walking yesterday. I hope the spotting has stopped for you.

That's a long cycle toots. Good job you spotted the late ovulation and didn't miss it. You must have dtd lots in recent weeks. I hope you aren't too tired Wink

Welcome haribo. Sorry about your mmc. I hope it's a short bus journey for you. Also welcome rose. Come and talk to us, everyone is lovely and there is great support and advice. I hope your cycle sorts itself out quickly.

I hope AF has staying away terry. I feel a bit better after going ahead and testing with a frer yesterday, despite bfn. I'm sure a BFP would have shown up by now so I guess I know I'm out. At least I won't be disappointed when AF does arrive - I just want it to hurry up now so we can get on with the next cycle. Fx for you, whatever you decide to do.

We had a lovely meal at our favourite Italian last night. I drank wine for the first time in 4 weeks so was quite merry. It was fab. And I don't feel hungover this morning either!

I hope everyone has a better day today. We have blue sky and sunshine to enjoy again.

nutelladipper · 16/11/2014 08:49

Hey All, I'm 6dpo today and have awful d&v last night/today. All I'm worrying about is whether it affects implantation. Anyone know?

MissMrsMummy · 16/11/2014 08:39

coffee have you poas yet? Fx for you

MissMrsMummy · 16/11/2014 08:22

rose sorry to hear you are in limbo. Hope your cycle kick starts soon.

terrys I feel the same, don't know if I want to test now. I am in bed and don't want to get up in case gravity brings AF on! I do need a wee though so maybe I'll save it and test later if no AF? When is your AF due? Mines today.

RoseBud2015 · 16/11/2014 08:14

Hi all

I've been more of a listener than a talker on this bus..... quietly waiting for my first proper AF to turn up after stopping BC in September but nothing! Sad I'm on cd53 now so decided to poas just to be sure before I hop off and bfn Sad
Officially haven't even managed to get to cycle one yet cos was waiting for AF before TTC properly. Grrr

Anyhow good luck with the rest of your journies and I promise to be less of a lurker and more talkative on the next bus!

fififolle · 16/11/2014 08:06

Welcome Haribo wishing you all the very best for a shiny BFP this cycle. I keep reading that we're meant to be super fertile after MC. Our 2015 babies will be later than planned but just as perfect xx

TerrysNo3 · 16/11/2014 07:56

coffee any news?

I have a pot of pee under my sink and now I just have to buy a test but I don't know if I want to! Despite my PMA this month I am fairly sure that this is not my month but in a way I'd quite like up put myself out of misery by just knowing.

What do you ladies think?

angelaham · 16/11/2014 07:25

Bluesky sorry to hear af could be on her way but fingers crossed she don't turn up,

Sorry to hear about your MC, just so unfair but hoping this is your lucky month ,

Terry stamp those feet as hard as you can and ward of the witch x

angelaham · 16/11/2014 07:20

Toots hope that you have managed to dye and catch that egg, fingers crossed for you x

CoffeeOne · 16/11/2014 01:06

I think Wine and Cake are needed all round here tonight.

I'll be poas in the morning but not at all hopeful.

TerrysNo3 · 16/11/2014 00:50

hello haribo! so sorry about your MMC, that is just crappy. I've heard lots of people conceive on their wtf cycle so I'm keeping my fx for you!

So it sounds like our Poas-party for tomorrow is going to be a pretty shit party. Aside from the fact I don't have any sticks, my cm has virtually disappeared, my temp is rubbish and I felt nauseas and weepy tonight (classic AF symptoms for me) so I'm not going to be attending either. Crappy crap crap. I honestly feel like stamping my feet right now

MissMrsMummy · 15/11/2014 23:35

Welcome haribo! Sorry to hear about your mmc. That must be so difficult. But well done for wanting to keep going.

HariboBrenshnio · 15/11/2014 23:05

Hi everyone, can I join you? Will go back and read the thread!

I had a mmc just over two weeks ago at 9+1 weeks. We're devestated but desperate to get back on the TTC bus! We started DTD Thursday and have agreed to do it every other day through the WTF cycle to see if we can catch the egg.

I was pretty regular before and would have ovulated yesterday had I not mc. I was lucky to catch on my first cycle of trying with the baby we lost so hopefully we're able to do something similar. I also have a 13 month DS.

Fingers crossed to those POAS soon, hand holding for those currently on the longest two week wait ever and sorry to those who AF has caught.

Waves to the ladies who I 'met' on the September thread. Mrs E I haven't read the thread, is everything okay with you?
Sorry to see those on the TTC after MC thread here too xx

MissMrsMummy · 15/11/2014 23:00

victoria and bluesky sounds like we have had similar evenings Sad hope you are ok.

Blueskygirl30 · 15/11/2014 22:31

Hmmm, a tiny bit more spotting for me tonight, feeling a bit down now. Just had a little cry about the high likelihood of AF arriving again. To make myself feel better I've had a glass of alcohol a couple of chocolates and I've totally over indulged in ice cream....it's not really helped.

Victoria hugs, I hope your drink and chocolate have helped you.

victoria401 · 15/11/2014 21:24

DIY is good bluesky! Hope u get some answers to your spotting and its not early af :-(

Wow late ov toots hope u caught it!

More cramps this evening, feeling depressed. Just poured myself a drink after a week with none and stuffing my face with choc. Sigh.

xBlueberry88x · 15/11/2014 21:16

I feel sorry for my dp Toots but he tell him in advance which week we have to up our game and we cant waste the clomid we only get 6 months.
Sorry your cycle is so messed up I dont think you missed the boat id dtd tonight and tomorrow just to make sure!

frolic lots of wine sounds like a good plan

kissing not everyone gets symptoms so fx for you

Bluesky hopefully af doesnt show up early.

I've done 2 opks today looks like I'll get the positive tomorrow which is annoying as might not be able to dtd monday grrr

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tootsroots · 15/11/2014 20:40

ops pressed send and not Flowers and congrats to those with bfps and positive vibes to those with af, she is a persistent bitch.

tootsroots · 15/11/2014 20:39

Spinning, pleased the soy free cycle feels ok. .

Angela, i have learnt body over Apps wins. Hope DH was seduced by you this eve ;)

Blueberry, omg those widows sounds stressful, well done on being calmer today! Loving the DTD schedule, v impressed with your DP stamina.

tooth, hope your bf is holding up - that sounded scary. Poor lady. It proves how hard ttc.

I was supposed to be testing this weekend as CD31, but when i did it was bfn. So then i noted the extreme EWCM i had yesterday and today, sorry TMI, but thought AF had come it was so damp down there .Turns out what i thought was real EWCM 2 weeks ago really wasn't, it was merely watery. So i did a OPK last night and twice today and WOW the line is so dark compared to the control line. So i think i have just now at CD31 just ov'd. Stupid post pill cycle is messed up. Managed to make DH dtd last night but think i missed the boat. So.. on 2ww Again. Totalling 4WW. To be honest am all over the place and still ill with a bad chest infection ( after my virus bronchitis) so i think will write this cycle off to be practice and try again next month. Hopefully. If my cycle settles. If not then Jan. hey ho. Sorry me me me (again) the confusion is making me so down and i have not one single person to tell except DH who is out getting drunk with the boys.

FX for those still in the wait,

Cariad2014 · 15/11/2014 20:31

Spinning - I will definitely hop onto the December bus for the ride! Hoping for a sack-full of BFPs so that I can perfect my cheerleading skills!

spinningirl10 · 15/11/2014 19:51

Quietly, sorry af arrived Thanks

Frolic, enjoy your meal and wine.

Kissing, lots of ladies get a bfp without any symptoms.

Tooth, sorry to hear about your friend, sad newsThanks

Cariad, I hope we still see you around on the dec bus. I really hope the new year brings your sticky bfpThanks