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Let's get Pregvember off with a bang! November BFP bus (thread 2)

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Aprilray · 31/10/2014 22:17

Time for some fireworks!!

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xBlueberry88x · 08/11/2014 09:55

ps Cariad feel free to message me if you need a chat :)

Blue500 · 08/11/2014 09:54

Oh Cariad never apologise for a me me me post - this is the place to vent.
Sorry to hear your sad news. It always seems the way that we're the ones missing from the club. Chin up and I hope things improve x

xBlueberry88x · 08/11/2014 09:54

Morning Ladies,

Work on Saturday sucks its always quiet and boring lol

Frolic Interesting to hear how much difference there is from external cm to internal cm.

Stow Pregnacare made me 7 days late never taking that again!

Terrys your going to be knackered lol

Spinning I to think that the soy might not be for you I have heard that if you have a regular cycle its can mess it up

Knitted Sorry about AF!

MrsE How are you getting on?

Orange Sorry to hear about your friend

Sorry for the BFNs they were a little early though!

Cariad I know the feeling ive lost a lot of 'friends' because we havent got kids yet its just not fair! Its the main reason I havent told everyone were ttc (I only told my mum after we had been to first appointment with gyane doc) I just feel like a failure. I know its very hard but you have to try not let it consume you, depression is something ive been fighting a lot recently but it will not help while ttc. Ive been trying to take some time for myself recently and enjoy myself a bit.

Think Af is finally buggering off its been so easy this month only had one heavy day hopefully they stay that way or I get a BFP lol

TheProofIsInThePudding · 08/11/2014 09:52

Cariad do your friends know about the ectopic and TTC? They might not realise that you are upset if you haven't talked about it with them.

You're not a failure. It's just one of those things. You will get your family one day through whatever route and I'm sure it will be worth waiting for. Thanks

Orangeisthenewbanana · 08/11/2014 09:49

Cariad Thanks Flowers

Blue500 · 08/11/2014 09:49

Morning ladies just catching up on the last few days.
Sorry for all the bfn's but hopefully they're too early. Your never out until af arrives! And sorry for those that af has caught. Roll on the next cycle Smile

I'm packing for my sunny hols tomorrow - conceive plus and opk's are already in the suitcase! Lots of dtd next week for sure. Grin

TheProofIsInThePudding · 08/11/2014 09:46

Ladies! Put the sticks down, hands in the air and step away from the bathroom! Don't leave me to POAS all by myself on Friday!

I don't think I've got any particularly convincing symptoms so far, although I was in bed really early last night and I'm usually a night owl. I suspect it was because of a busy week though!

Cariad2014 · 08/11/2014 09:36

Morning ladies. Sorry about the BFN April Flowers

Loving the chart Frolic

Sorry ov is proving to be elusive Spinning - hope you get a positive opk very soon.

Got baby bombed last night by my best friend over dinner. I am utterly delighted for her, but the news was also tinged with sadness as her baby is due a day after the EDD for my ectopic. Sad The news also means that DH and I are the only couple within my close group of friends who don't have kids/ aren't expecting. I've already noticed that we haven't been invited to gatherings involving our friends with children and I can only imagine this getting worse. Feel like a complete failure. It's as though everyone else has been granted access to this exclusive members only club, and DH and I have made it as far as the cloakroom twice before being denied entry.

Sorry for the me me me post. I'm going to try and be more positive - I promise.

Aprilray · 08/11/2014 09:30

Thanks ladies, you're all lovely.
I'm off to catch a train soon. Staying over at a friends and traveling back tomorrow so really hope AF holds off until Monday. Think I will allow myself a glass or 2 of Wine this evening.

Hope you all have lovely weekends Smile

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victoria401 · 08/11/2014 09:26

Sorry for all the bfn this morning :-(

Spots and a cold sore today :-( symptom?!

Only joking 3dpo lol! Happy Saturday x

Orangeisthenewbanana · 08/11/2014 09:22

Sorry you're not feeling hopeful April. Hang on in there Thanks

Agree with frolic, those don't count as bfn's as it's far too early! Grin. I simply can't keep any in the house or I'd get through about 3 a day! I need some sort of secure box to keep my new POAS in, with a Krypton Factor style puzzle required to open it!

On second thoughts, maybe not first thing in the mornings when I'm hopping about, desperate for a wee! Confused

spinningirl10 · 08/11/2014 09:18

Ooh frolic I love your chart, what a fab ov dip and then a big rise. Wish mine was that clearConfused

April, sorry for the bfn and thinking af's on her way. Hope your evening out is better than expected Thanks

spinningirl10 · 08/11/2014 09:16

Here it is frolic
fertilityfriend.com/home/47fd92/

lucieloos · 08/11/2014 09:14

Ohh sorry April Hmm

StowFrenchy · 08/11/2014 09:12

Sorry April I had that last month., it really sucks. Lots of big hugs!!! Thanks

Aprilray · 08/11/2014 09:07

Thanks ladies but it's not looking good here. Couldn't resist and POAS last night after a 2.5 hr hold and BFN. Then woke up early needing the loo and temp had plummeted to 36.18 so didn't bother testing again. Woke up later than usual and temp was 36.77 Confused have terrible lower back pain and AF cramping so expect she will show her ugly face in a day or two. Feel a bit silly for getting my hopes up. Off out tonight, my heart isn't really in it but hopefully will cheer me up.

Sorry AF arrived Knitted. Good luck for next cycle.
Soap 9dpo is very early - FX it turns into a BFP.

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Frolicacid · 08/11/2014 09:00

Arrghhh! Here is is!

Let's get Pregvember off with a bang! November BFP bus (thread 2)
Frolicacid · 08/11/2014 08:59

Here is my chart (with the migrane/Valium peak removed)

Frolicacid · 08/11/2014 08:57

Morning all!
I'm not going to say sorry for bfn's because you are way too early! Step away from the sticks ladies!

Can you post your chart again spinning? I'm almost as obsessed with yours as I am with mine!

My temp is still high, so I think I'm believing the early ov. I've been awake on and off since 4am - SYMPTOM anyone?!

wanttobeamummyin2015 · 08/11/2014 08:55

Morning all! 8dpo here... Cold easing off but still blocked nose. Was weird cos only felt actually unwell for one evening, have cold but feel fine! Just blocked up nose etc. symptom? trying I hold out testing il fri 14th when I will be 14dpp bit DH wants me to wait until Sunday which is day after af due. Don't think I can wait hat long though! Sorry for the bfns let's hope it is jut too early

toothachereturns · 08/11/2014 08:47

BFN of course! Hmm I will be a good tooth and refrain from anymore poas action until at least Wednesday 13dpo!

StowFrenchy · 08/11/2014 08:44

soap yes - join the 14th POAS party., loads of us are due BFPS on that day! You can do it! ;)
tooth any news?

spinningirl10 · 08/11/2014 08:37

Soap, sorry you get a bfn, fx it's just too early......hope you enjoy your evening out.

SoapSudBub · 08/11/2014 08:30

Felt like a kid at Christmas waking up this morning haha! But alas a bfn from me, I'm only 9dpo so probably to early to tell even if it has happened. I think I will now try to wait until the 14th before I test again if AF hasn't arrived by then! Good luck tooth I hope you get better news!

spinningirl10 · 08/11/2014 08:27

Knitted sorry af arrivedThanks

Orange, sorry to hear your friends news and well done you for holding off poas!

Broody, fx for you when you poas.

MrsE, I hope I do get my positive soon but I'm thinking that maybe I won't ov. Thank goodness for ic opk's or I'd be broke!!

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