Let's get Pregvember off with a bang! November BFP bus (thread 2)

I don't reckon I'll ov this month. Temps are crazy.
Might have a break from ttc at this rate. Really fed up of being unhappy with ttc, work and everything else. We will see.

Yay, cycle triplets! Friday 14th Iwant? ooooh that's far, I like it!
I'm temping though, so I know I'll definitely find out if I'm out as that's how I knew for sure even before the witch showed up last month! Perhaps I'll stop, just to prevent obsessing too much. Gulp.

broody and mademoiselle I'm 3dpo too! Hoping I can hod out testing til next Friday... we'll see. No IC in the house now! Only FRER from then on, so don't want to pee away the pennies!

Have had really sore nipples since ov, that's how I know I ov'd when I did - had the exact same last month for 2 days after ov. At least this month have something to compare it to. Miraculously I am not actually thinking about it too much at the moment we'll see how long that lasts and feel quite calm about it all. Last month I was crazy-baby-lady so hoping that has kicked it out of me a bit! :)

Nettle, sorry af's arrived, good luck with your interview.

Cariad, yes come and join the ov dance, I've lit the fire and I've got my Pom poms out, fx it works

broody , cycle twin!! When will you test? I'm having a long cycle (ovd on cd23) so not too sure when to test, but hoping I can be strong enough not to test early.
I couldn't stand the smell of fried stuff today... SYMPTOM! (Yup, I did say I'm 3 dpo...)

Glad your hospital appointment went well Spinning. Please can I join you and Pikz for the ov dance?!?!?! Really want a peak tomorrow.

Delighted that family E have taken the news so well MrsE - that must be a huge burden lifted.

Hope your body waits until you're back before ov'ing Bluesky. But as Terrys says, just dtd when you can. Perhaps if Spinning, Pikz and I manage to perfect the ov dance, you can find a way of doing it in reverse to make ov stay way for another few days. In any event, I suspect Frolicdog has the answer!

It's been a busy couple of days broody! Welcome back

Thanks for the stats lucie

Sorry AF got you nettle and best of luck for the interview!

More new stats..sorry for AF nettle

BFP:
ThePurplegiraffe

Any news?
Allatonce99, ttc# ?, cycle ?, BFP due 31 October-1st November
Twilight, 32, ttc#1, cycle 1 (since last mc), bfp due 2nd November
XBlueberry88x, 26, ttc#1, cycle 19, BFP due 3rd November

No news yet:
Sherbet38, ttc#1, cycle 4, BFP due 4th November
Mistywillow17, 33, ttc#1, cycle 7, BFP due 5th November
Joey0805, 32, TTC#1, cycle 2, BFP due 5th November
Generalbrownie, ttc#1 cycle 6, bfp due 5th november
Dozygirl, ttc#1, cycle 4, BFP due 6th November
Nordicmom, 39, ttc #3 , cycle 10/11( lost count ), BFP due 6th-9th November
iamevan, 35, ttc#2, cycle 6, BFP due 7th November
MaGratgarlik1983, 31, ttc#1, cycle 4, BFP due 7th November
Huffs123, 32, Cycle #1, bfp due 7th November
Aprilray, 33, ttc#1, cycle 11, BFP due 8th November
Knittedmittens, 30, TTC #3 (after twins), cycle 7 (mc in August). BFP due 8th November
MaMaPo, 36, TTC #2, cycle 6, BFP due 8th November.
Northgoingzax, 32, TTC#2 cycle 2 AF/BFP due 8th November
Beansprout30, ttc#1, cycle 4 (after 5 months off) BFP due 11th November
Jessica, 29, ttc#1, cycle 3, bfp due 11th November (ish)
SueBridehead, 31, ttc#1, cycle 4, BFP due around November 11th.
MishushB, 33, ttc#2, cycle 6, BFP due 11th November
Mumwannabe82, ttc# ?, cycle ?, BFP due 12th November
Sakura03, 36, ttc#1, cycle ?, BFP due 12th November
Wanttobeamummyin2015, ttc #1, cycle 2, BFP due 12th November
Orangeisthenewbanana, 34, ttc #2, cycle 3, bfp due approx 13th November?
Stowfrenchy, ttc#2, cycle ?, BFP due 14th November
Broodylicious, 35, ttc#2, cycle 4, BFP due 14th November
Butterflycats, 29, ttc#1, cycle 3, BFP due 14th November
TheProofIsInThePudding, 29, ttc#1, cycle 2, BFP due 14th November
rubyrubes13, 31 ttc #1 cycle 4, BFP due 14 November
Toots, 31, ttc #1 ,cycle 1, BFP due 14th November
SoapSudBub 30 ttc #1 cycle 7, BFP due 14th November
Pikz, ttc #2, cycle 11, BFP due 15th November
Quietlyhopeful81, 32, ttc #2, cycle 3, bfp due 15th November
Toothachereturns, 36, ttc #3, cycle 5 (2 months off after a cp) BFP due 16 November
Ohlordyplordy, 34, ttc#1, cycle 5 (cp cycle 4) BFP due 16-18 November
Blueskygirl30, 30yrs, TTC#1, cycle 6, BFP due 17th November
Treaclepie19, 24, ttc #1, cycle 10 ( mc cycle 4 ), BFP due 17th November
Beauticiannotmagician81, 33,ttc#4, cycle 1, BFP 17th November
Victoria401, 34, ttc#1, cycle 24, bfp due 17th/18th November
Secretreveleater 35, ttc#4, cycle 2 (1 really since no dtd in actual cycle 1!) BFP due 18th November
Spinningirl10, ttc#3, cycle 17, bfp due Nov 18th.
MissMrsMummy, age 30, TTC #1, cycle 1, bfp due 18th November
Natalie1989xo, ttc#3, mc Sept, cycle 5, BFP due around 18-22nd November
CoffeeOne, 31, ttc #2, cycle 4, BFP due 19th November
Terrysno2 33, TTC#3, cycle 3 (after ep) BFP due 19th November
Cariad2014, 32, ttc#1, Cycle 6, BFP due 19th November
Frolicacid, 34, ttc #1, cycle 3, BFP due 20th November
Rosebud2015 30, ttc#1, cycle 1, BFP due 20th November
Ninjabeer, 35, ttc #1, cycle 4, bfp due 20th November
Lucieloos, 35, TTC#1, cycle 9, bfp due 21st November
Boosk, TTC #1, cycle 3, BFP due 21st November
gennibugs, ttc#1, cycle 12, bfp due 23 November
Mzzzf, 33, ttc#1, cycle 5, BFP due 23rd November
Bovneydazzler, 30, TTC #2, cycle 9, BFP maybe 25th November
Jcandy, 30, ttc #1 cycle 3, bfp due 25th November
Nutelladipper, Ttc #3, cycle 2, BFP due 25th November
Illiria, 31, ttc #1, cycle 8, due 25th November
sm2012, 35, ttc#3, cycle 3, BFP due 25th November
Isabeau1980, 34, TTC#1, Cycle 4, BFP 25th November to 1st December
Angelaham, 34, ttc 1, cycle 5, BFP due around 27th November
MrsGingerbread, 32, ttc#1, cycle 9 (mcs 3 and 4), BFP due 29th November
Middles809, 31, ttc#1, cycle 1, BFP due 30th November
Blue500, ttc#1, cycle 3, BFP due 30th November

Imgoingforatwix, 31, ttc#2, cycle 1, bfp due?
Justdrive, ttc #2, cycle ?, BFP due?
Alien11, ttc#2 cycle 3, BFP due?
Whatamuddleduck, 32, ttc#1, cycle 4, BFP due?
cth1982, 32, ttc#1, cycle 11, BFP due ??
Pixie1985 29, ttc #1, cycle 2 (this time, in total about 15 lol!) BFP due ??
Ainat266, 27, ttc#1, cycle 1, BFP due?
Lilwelshyrs, 27, ttc #1, cycle 1? BFP due November...?
Kirstywa1, Ttc#1 cycle 1, BFP due ??
Seafoam, ttc# ?, cycle ? BFP due late November
Gemsparkle84, 30, TTC# 1, cycle 4, BFP due ? November

AF Arrived:
Nettle86

There's so much I've not read on this thread, I've only missed you guys for two days

victoria, the nurse at my doc said they always used to say mid cycle was best for a smear but nowadays, they say as long as you don't have AF, any time is fine.

Really pleased that familyE took your news well mrse. And hilarious they were on to you and making bets!

Sorry to those feeling down or not getting support and generally feeling under pressure/stressed out with the whole ttc business. It's so hard but really it's only ourselves that are pressuring us to get upduffed, no one else, so try to relax and enjoy plenty of fun with your dh/dp's and see how it ends up. Easier said than done, I know I'm a total hypocrite btw, 3dpo and everything is a symptom!

bluesky I would just TTC when you can and hope for the best, sperm can live for up to 7 days and the egg lasts for 24 hours so a short TTC break in the midst shouldn't rule you out.

nettle enjoy the relative TTC calm that is AF, and have more than a few

I don't even like salmon that much and DH is currently cooking up a salmon teriyaki feast! The TTC lengths we will go to

bluesky sorry you're feing down. This ttc malarkey isn't easy and when life gets in the way of your fertile window its so frustrating. All u can do is DTD when u can and hope for the best. Life has to continue unfortunately. X

Awww sorry about that nettle. Do u normally have shorter or longer cycles? Ur right about not being abLe to second guess tho. I want to go back to the innocent days when I never paid attention lol.

Hi ladies-looks lime AF has got me at last a 32 day cycle unheard of for me but I guess you can never second guess your body! Got a job interview next week so something to look forward too...

spinning that song is in my head now! So catchy!

I'm also on Cd11 with not even a hint of a line! BORING! We have only DTD once this cycle and it was too early anyway.

bluesky what a shame about your trip but hopefully you might ov a bit late and then you can catch the egg when you get hime!

spinning thanks for that song... I'm so going to accidentally sing it out loud!!

MrsE, I'm cd11, usually get my positive today but it's whiter than white!

Blue, sorry you're away and feeling down but wed eve could be perfect timing if you get your positive tomorrow.

Victoria, I would do as Genni suggests and book it for between af and ov.

Victoria I had my smear last cycle on cd12 and ov'd cd 13. The nurse didn't bat an eyelid when I said ttc, she just carried on.

Victoria I went two months ago and booked it in for after AF! before ov. Like Genni said and that was fine, definitely better to get it done.

You're right Genni I guess there's still a chance, as long as it doesn't happen today. And either way there's nothing I can do about it now.

Victoria I had mine last month. I went after AF had cleared off and before I ov'd. The nurse said that was fine. maybe do that?

bluesky that sounds so frustrating. However remember that even with a positive opk you still might have 24-36 hours after that to ov so you may catch it?

spinning got that song in my head now!

Book one - smears are important

Its such a pain having a tiny window of opportunity isn't it. Why do all other mammal/bird species have young every spring without all this worry?!

Question ladies... I've had a letter saying I need to go for a smear test after 21st Nov. I will be into my next cycle by then and they like it done mid cycle don't they? Do I book one or leave it?!

Good evening ladies,

I've been lurking at the back of the bus this month trying to keep up with your chat. I'm sorry for those of you who are having a hard time. I'm glad your appointment went well spinning, interesting about the conception mulitvits, I might have to start taking them but the one month I took pregnacare my AF was 9 days late and I can't help but think that they caused it.

I'm feeling really down today, I was meant to be on leave this week and thought it would work out really well. I took soy cd4-8 and had a good feeling about this month. We DTD Thursday night last week, cd9 and I'm now cd13 and have lots of EWCM today. The problem is that I was asked to do by trip out of the country, I left on Friday and won't be back until Wednesday morning. I'm not statistically due to ovulate until Wednesday or Thursday but I'm worried that the soy will have brought forwards my ovulation and I'm going to have screwed up and missed it this month. I'm so annoyed at myself, we needed the extra money so I took the trip but I didn't have time to think about the consequences at the time. My opk this arvo was quite dark but definitely not positive but I think I'll get the positive tomorrow and I know we won't be able to DTD until Wednesday evening at the earliest.

Sorry, that was all about me, I'm just feeling really down about missing out on another month through my own fault.

What cd are you now spinning in relation to that?