Let's get Pregvember off with a bang! November BFP bus (thread 2)

Woke up to a high temp, so took some inspiration from cariad and had a bit of morning action! DH was too sleepy to remember his cold. It took a bit of effort - I am so not a morning person! Fx the temp stays high now and I can relax knowing I've tried my best!
If I did ovulate in the past 24 hours or so, that is around 4 days earlier than usual and probably thanks to the soy.
I hope everyone has a great day - winter has arrived here, it's freezing and there is snow on the mountains.

Sorry af arrived blueberry, but glad you get to stay on the bus with us for round 2.

for Treacle. So sorry everything is getting you down at the moment. You sound a bit burnt out by it all so maybe taking a month to recharge will help.

toots crying sounds like it could be a symptom! Fx!

Good luck with your ov dance ladies - I'm picturing something somewhere between A Chorus Line and Beyonce! With feather boas, and special appearance by frolicdog

Morning

Blueberry, sorry af arrived but pleased you get to stay here with us

Treacle, sorry you're feeling down

Mzzzf, pleased the scan was ok and showed everything to be ok.

Toots, hopefully the crying is a symptom for you.

Frolic, hope ov keeps away until you have both recovered.

Thanks ladies. Just so you know I used clear blue opk this month and got no flashing smilies but a solid one on day 12 so dtd cd12-14 but still had loads of ewcm until day 17 so I guess sering as though I had a really long cycle for me I ovd late. This month dh and I will dtd loads regardless of what the opk says!

Thanks toots, you don't sound preachy :)

Sorry you had a wobble and glad DH helped!
Sounds like it could all be good signs though!

Blueberry! Trooper! Get on the bus and start singing the song and walking frolic dog whilst waving sparklers!

Sunbathing- how are you feeling?
Treacle- you are doing so well to remain positive 90% of the time- allow yourself luxury of space and time to feel shitty- it helps rather than trapping it inside. Sorry if I sound preachy:( meant with good intention.

Mrse- loving the fact you were trumped by the wise & loving family guessing!!

Am bit weirded out right now- just in bed post crying about the fact given my health bad luck so far( broke back am fine but have pain always but you sometimes need to suck it up and get on with life) ,cervix entroprian, flu, molar teeth drama, dodgy smears results etc etc( told you drama!)) questioning will I cope with pgcy but dh proved he was fab and gave me a hug, tea and a choc.( inhaled it- nom)

The weird bit is I never ever cry- no matter what and this week I have sobbed during David Attenborough life story( baby goslings, baby whales, baby seals) because it was awfully sad or cute. Literally sobbing. Sobbed reading a daily Mail article, cried as I forgot to bring my work pad home to work to do
Extra work( 11 hour day in office then 2
More at home this eve) cried when I got home as was tired, cried when my kittens/ cats were cute this eve too. Ugh. So now am a puffy sobbing pile of sodden emotion- and dh will not dtd so I can relax and sleep- which then made me cry more! Is this normal????

Sadly no real bfp symptoms- ovia is saying testing 13th....

I did
Manage to scoff the gifted malteser bar in 15 secs earlier? Perhaps symptom is choc monster.
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Not expecting joy for my weigh in at slimming worlD in Wednesday which means I might cry......ugh.

What is happening to me!!???

I'm joining your ov dance, I got a faint line on my OPK today which usually preceeds a +ve so fx for tomorrow. DH and I trying to DTD every night until ov +1 and I don't know how long we can sustain this for!!!

Oh, I meant to say before... MrsE I am so pleased about your family's reaction, it sounds lovely and I'm happy you've not got to worry about that anymore so just enjoy your PG now!

That's what im thinking too cariad.
My hearts not in it this month.
Thank you x

Poor Treacle. I really hope you get upduffed this month. But if you don't, the way I'm looking at it is that there are definitely worse times of year than late November/ early December to take a break from ttc.

cariad, spinning & pikz - stay over there with your ovulation dance. My temps not up, so god knows what yesterday's positive opk was. Today's weren't quite as strong. DH still has a horrible cold and I have cystitis so ovulation can stay away from this house for a couple of days. Frolicdog is on the case, snoring loudly between us in bed to make sure a safe distance is observed!

Sorry about af blueberry. Glad you are staying on this bus - it wouldn't be the same without you.

Thanks ladies.

Haha sunbathing I'm sure he felt as much of a connection as I did ;)
Or not, as he has a girlfriend, is a celebrity and is 17 years older than me...

cariad sorry you're feeling the same.
It makes me not want to try, feel like i can't be bothered with the disappointment and then if i do get pregnant, the worry.

Hey ladies. Hope all is grand. Missed so much chatting from you guys over the weekend. We had a relatively late Oktoberfest party to go to, which ended up being rather drunken. But it's good to have these blow-outs to let off steam once in a while though! Very hungover Sunday but now all raring to go for the DTDathon.

Sorry AF got you blueberry

I had my internal scan today, surprisingly all is ok . And the doctor could see a follicle maturing so I need to jump on DH in the next few days, keep my fingers crossed and then symptom spot furiously!

Tell you what though, those internal dildoscans are not pretty at all. I was very English about it all, no eye contact and completely didn't acknowledge that a total stranger was messing about with my fanny!

Waves at Sunbathing.

Sorry AF got you Blueberry, but I am glad you get to stay on this bus.

How rubbish Treacle. If it's any consolation I'm feeling pretty similar right now. We've decided not to ttc next cycle if this one isn't successful (as I'm too scared of being diagnosed with an ectopic again over Christmas, mainly because I'm worried the medical care wouldn't be as good), and the prospect of starting the new year without a BFP is making me feel blue. Really hope you manage to ov this month. Hang on in there.

hey ladies i get to stay on this bus now!!

XBlueberry88x 26 ttc 1 cycle 20 :( cycle 2 on clomid bfp due 30th November

I'm just fed up sunbathing :( got no passion for anything.
Except Noel Fielding ;)

Its weird normally get cramps few hours before I didnt even feel it went to the toilet and there she was what a bitch!!

So sorry blueberry :(

:( temps have been majorly up and down.
They generally are though. Just a little more extreme this month.

Work is just rubbish. Fed up of people being bitchy and digging at me all the time. Nothing I do is ever good enough even though I work constantly.

We're being observed a lot this term and having a mini ofsted.
Just fed up.

Aw no blueberry I'm really sorry.

If it's fresh red blood then I think this is CD1 for you.

I once got AF at about 11.30pm but had already been to bed/sleep so had a similar dilemma!

Oh no Treacle don't give up!

What's happening with your temps?

And work?

well ladies im out for definite AF has arrived.

Trying to work out if this is cd 1 even though AF started so late. I need to take clomid cd 2.

Can I be in on the ov dance too please? I'm stone cold over here, feel like nothing's happening!