Let's get Pregvember off with a bang! November BFP bus (thread 2)

Good morning! My inlaws are staying tonight so I didn't want to POAS tomorrow morning so did it today, BFN. I won't leave the bus until AF arrives but I'm not holding out any hope. I used FMU, with the preg test from my advanced CBFM (not a FRER), am 13 DPO but CD 31 so this is already a long cycle for me. No symptoms of AF coming which is a bit annoying - no cramps, no sore boobs, cervix is quite high and I still have creamy CM (sorry for the tmi ladies).

Oooh it's hard isn't it! Always on my mind anyway if I'm honest!! Will let you ladies know if I find anything out!

Oh actually I've just realised you have guests. If it's constantly on your mind it may spoil your weekend. Perhaps test after the weekend.

MaGrat I would poas tomorrow. It won't affect the outcome either way. You are likely to worry if its a BFP whenever you test. Fingers crossed for a BFP and a happy & healthy pregnancy

NOt sure when to POAS really...in a way I want to tomorrow but not sure as last time we found out early then we had a CP...and we have guests visiting at the weeekend. Might try and hold out til next week if I can!

Wow this thread moves fast.

Lucie thank you for the stats.

Sorry to those that have had AF. Fingers crossed for next month.

Spinning I'm sure you will ov just later than usual.

Toots that doesn't sound good at all. Hope you are feeling better. A perfect reason for putting your feet up and relaxing.

Cd19 here and day 5 of flashing smilies. To be honest we haven't really dtd enough this month. Ill jump on DH tonight. I must be ov really late unless I've missed it.

MaGrat, it's sounding very promising for you, will you poas tomorrow?

Morning ladies! 12 or 13 dpo here and symptoms so far include white lotiony cm, sore bbs, constant weeing, hot flushed face and neck (more so at night though), still getting over this horrible cold and cough combo so that's thrown me a bit re: other symptoms! So tired but again that could be down to this bug. Which I am not taking any meds for grrr! Feel a bit dizzy sometimes and I keep muddling up words and spacing out...but that could just be me...ooh and tmi alert but it's a bit hard to go if you know what I mean!

Blue- good luck jumping - do these men realise how lucky they are to get so much action!

Genni- fx for you!

Spinning - fx you ov this week- keep - little bit of dtd incase that egg is tardy!

Come eggys- can't see on phone who mentioned being flirty but eggys if now is the time to be easy and available and down right slutty .. Be a naughty flirt with allllll the sperm that come across your path.

Sorry for being self indulgent- just all a bit confused! Am cd20 but not sure if I ov'd last week- had a week of flashing smileys but no solid one and the instructions said to stop if none came- still dtd every other day - to keep dh from thinking I am just using him as a procreation donor only. which I am

I think you'll ov spinning, but still probably too early at the mo.

Gosh toots hope you are ok? sounds like you need a good rest!

bluesky fx you can catch that egg on Thursday. It sounds like you travel a lot for your job!

spinning I'm sure you will ov but if you don't it could also just be an annovulatory cycle. Which is really frustrating I know. perhaps you'll just get a super strong line suddenly due to the soy!

Oh toots, I crossed with your post. Fainting on the tube doesn't sound good. I hope you're feeling better, sounds like you definitely need to take some time out for yourself today. Where are you in your cycle?

Morning everyone,

Sorry AF got you blueberry but it's great you've got another shot this month.

Treacle, massive hugs coming your way. It must be really horrible working with bitchy people the whole time, but at least you know that you're a better person than any of them.

Spinning hopefully as you took your soy in the later category it has just delayed ov slightly and you'll get a super strong egg come through any day now.

Frolic good effort on the morning sesh. I might have to take inspiration and jump DH before he knows what's hit him Thursday morning in case there's still an egg hanging around waiting for some sperm to chat her up.

Thank you everyone for your positive thoughts, my temp is still down today so I haven't ovulated yet, I'll jump DH tomorrow night anyway and see what happens. If it doesn't happen by christmas then that does mean I get to drink as much amaretto and mulled wine as is humanly possible, ooooh and plum brandy too.

Toots, goodness I hope you're feeling ok now. Where are you in your cycle?

Genni, yay for the renewed enthusiasm, hope you catch the egg this month
I'm not feeling very positive, I'm going to keep peeing on opks until the end of the week and then probably give up for this cycle. I haven't had any cm so if that arrives it will be a good sign.

Well that was awkward... Just passed out on the commute to work- standing on the tube -just drank my coffee ( no pg yet- caffeine is my vice I refuse to let go!) and then got sweaty and hot and then my legs no longer wanted to do their job- boom! Woke up in a nice mans lap. Shameful!felt ok drank my water and refused to let them pull a stop cable- people like me irritate me! Plodding to work now - with more coffee but think the tears and fainting are not symptoms - not only are we only Cycle 1 - I gave us 12 months- I actually think I am just exhausted from working so much and not resting at weekends. How do the ladies here cope with dc , work and constant ttc? Mrs e- how do you remain sane with your brood!

Welsh mountains def beat South London - the hills are alive etc wtc.

I think this eve I will finish early at 6.30 and choreograph the ov dance. My cats are keen too. Do we have any ballroom dancers or just baby dancing going on?

Any one due to ( actually really no cheating and doing it early) poas today? The Lucie stats list is sooo long probability dictates from bfps!

Morning all.

still no ov here. I've been feeling a bit jaded this cycle, I almost can't be bothered to dtd - sort of have a "it hasn't worked for 12 cycles so why should it now attitude". But I've woken up today determined to give it a good go this month. I haven't ov so it's not too late. project dtd starts tonight! And DH is primed and ready to go lol

april fx for you. High temps is a good sign for sure.

spinning I think taking soy later has delayed your ov. I think you will ov this month.

blue sorry AF got you. But you get a second bash at pregvember

treacle it sounds like you've got too much on you poor thing. It's hard to stay positive. I've struggled this cycle too - we put so much into the past 2 cycles with no luck so kind of feeling what's the point. I think it being the end of year doesn't help as we put all sorts of unrealistic pressures on ourselves to get a bfp by Xmas etc. Perhaps a break for a cycle might do you good? Hope you are feeling a little brighter today.

Sorry if I've forgotten anyone else - on my phone so can't check back!

I do indeed miss the mountains and the proximity to the coast Frolic- London can't offer either of those! Hope you weren't too late for work.

Wow Frolic, snow on the mountains already! We rarely get snow here, we get excited about a few snowflakes

The snowy mountains are beautiful cariad. I was thinking of you when I wrote that - I bet you miss it. I really love the first winer snow reminding me that christmas is on it's way. I love this time of year.

Morning dtd has wiped me out - I.'me going to be so late for work!

Cariad, yay for your cbfm peak, pleased the ov dance worked for you.

April, ooh high temp is fab, fx for you

Of my street - not do my street! Must remember to proofread my posts before pressing send

Sorry ov is still eluding you Spinning. Perhaps if the ov dance worked for me today it can be your turn tomorrow?

Morning all. The ov dance seems to be working at this end, and woke up to a CBFM peak, so hoping to ov tomorrow. Did it work for you Spinning?

Good work on the morning dtd session Frolic. Sounds as though you may well have ov'd - woop woop! High five to the soy (aka Frolicdog for inducing an earlier ov). Loving the image of snowy Welsh mountains. Sadly, the view do my street in South London isn't quite the same!

High temp sounds promising April. Fx this is your month.

Yay for ovulation frolic and early dtd

MrsE, I'm using ic's which I always use and as the line gets dark I use a cb smiley. There has been no hint of a second line at all for the past few days. I'm wondering if I won't ov, don't think I shall be taking them next cycle.

How's it looking in cd12 spinning, is that opks? Or cb ov smily sticks? Before the soy what day did you usually ov? Because taking it later should involve a later stronger ov in theory. Perhaps if no luck this month chuck the soy of the nearest cliff. It's not for everyone. It's just finding the balance that suits you best. It may not suit you.