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Advice please?

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Emilyjane11 · 27/10/2014 20:29

Hi ladies,

I am in my second cycle ttc, my first cycle was 28 days on the dot, which is what it was like before BC, i am currently 3 days late but having cramps on an off for past week or so. I have a high cervix and watery cm, sorry if too much info.

Apart from that I have my had any other symptoms, not done a test yet as only bought one tonight. Anyone experience this and been pregnant?

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loopylou1984 · 09/11/2014 09:19

Bfns weren't wrong; af arrive last night. Feeling a bit sad but mostly relieved that I know now what's going on. X

loopylou1984 · 07/11/2014 17:57

Cmo - I don't know what to think...

Surely all these bfns can't be wrong? But yet still there is that teeny glimmer of hope.

Bored of waiting now!

cmo123 · 07/11/2014 15:10

Wow! That's longer than mine was I fort 38 was long you must be going crazy but there's still a good chance you are now tho. Good luck :)

loopylou1984 · 06/11/2014 17:57

I was asked 3 times today if I was 'going to be next to have a baby' - just wish I knew the answer! Lol.
Still no af, cycle day 40....

cmo123 · 05/11/2014 16:47

Always the way! Everyone Is pregnant atm or there's babies everywere I look!
Good luck keep us posted x

loopylou1984 · 05/11/2014 13:58

No they didn't, I shouldn't have said is done one myself then they might have.
Had the worst period cramps last night so thought my wait was going to be over, but nothing...

And to make matters worse someone at work has just announced she's 12 weeks pg and it had happened far quicker than she thought!

cmo123 · 05/11/2014 09:37

Really!! How annoying did they do a urine test wen u was there ?

loopylou1984 · 04/11/2014 19:15

Still no af and drs said I have to wait until 3 weeks late before a blood test.
So, I'm still in limbo Hmm

cmo123 · 04/11/2014 08:17

Keep us updated :) x

loopylou1984 · 03/11/2014 21:48

Tomorrow will be 38.
No have never missed one, and the latest ice been is 32.
Crampy feelings have increased today so I think af may show her face tomorrow. I have a drs apt tomorrow too so I'm sure that's enough to make her arrive!

cmo123 · 03/11/2014 10:40

Aww hope u find out soon!! :( what day of ur cycle are u on now? I came on at day 38. Have u eva been late or missed on before ? X

loopylou1984 · 03/11/2014 08:23

Just a quick update. Can't get drs appointment today and still no af or bfp... Still waiting and it's starting to get me down ??

loopylou1984 · 01/11/2014 17:25

Yes, I'm planning too.
A little but not sure I would notice if I wasn't symptom spotting.
Going to enjoy a 'sober' night out and try and forget about things until Monday.
Thank you for your comments, I will update you Smile

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Emilyjane11 · 01/11/2014 16:58

I would suggest maybe going to docs next week if you still haven't come on and see if they can do a blood test. Are you still cramping?

Thanks :)

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loopylou1984 · 01/11/2014 16:23

I don't know. Just feel like I'm in limbo at the moment. Going out tonight, but can't have a drink now because I still don't know!

Glad you're feeling okay, fingers crossed it stays that way and the time to your first scan goes quickly! X

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Emilyjane11 · 01/11/2014 16:10

Well I had cramping for 5 days before my missed period and didn't for one minute think I was pregnant. You may be one of those women that tests don't show positive for. The only symptom i had was cramping and was ony a day late when I tested. Im bloody knackered but apart from that im feeling okay. It feels amazing I just can't wait till im 12 weeks so I can stop worrying x

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loopylou1984 · 01/11/2014 14:06

*wasn't particularly stressed

loopylou1984 · 01/11/2014 13:58

I'm fairly sure I ovulated around the 11th/12th as I was using opks hence thinking I would come on on the 25th... I suppose it's possible I mis read the test though.
I was particularly stressed as was fairly sure af was going to start due to the cramping, so a little disappointed but not stressed.
As far as symptoms go, I had cramping for almost 2 weeks from the weekend before af was due, although that seems to have stopped now.
I've been having a little nausea the last few days, but it could just be in my head because I'm thinking about it so much!

How are you feeling? X

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Emilyjane11 · 01/11/2014 13:39

Yeah only use cheapy onea a get a digi to confirm it if it's a faint positive. Only reasons you could be late is if you ovulated way later than you thought which has happened to me before and I just DTD every day until my period came just to cover all basis. Or it's stress or worry about not coming on that's delaying it. Have you got any symptoms? X

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loopylou1984 · 01/11/2014 10:14

Superdrug own. I don't want to spend loads on a digi one really as I'm kind of expecting negatives now. X

cmo123 · 01/11/2014 10:10

Hmm :/ Frastrating isn't it!! Wat test did u use this time ? X

loopylou1984 · 01/11/2014 07:49

Just to update you, tested this morning with fmu and still negative. Day 35 now Hmm
I don't know what's going on.
Based on when I ovulated this is ridiculous - but surely the test would show positive by now if I was pg?

cmo123 · 31/10/2014 17:26

That was exsacly same as me 3 negatives an 11 days late in the end then come on!! Neva been this late either but hopefully ur be lucky an get a positive an not come on like me lol x

loopylou1984 · 31/10/2014 17:10

Day 34. Just tested and got another negative? Surely it should be showing positive by now at 6 days late if I was pg? So confused, NEVER been this late before! X

loopylou1984 · 31/10/2014 12:27

Sorry to hear that cmo- as you as at least you know. The waiting is the worst. X