Pregoween is getting nearer, come on bfp's clearer and clearer!

Thank you ladies. It's a really awful feeling to have been so happy and for it to turn around so quickly.
In a way we can take something positive, as we know that we did the first bit right. The odds of cp are so high that it doesn't necessarily mean there's an underlying problem.
biscuit I'm so sorry for your loss, I may see you on the mc thread but need to get my head around it first I think.
Best of luck for the poas party tomorrow x

Sorry to all those that have been caught by AF and those who have had losses hugs and offerings of wine and chocolate.

FF has confirmed OV at cd14, day after we dtd as he was going away for work weekend conference, so my stats are officially

Illiria, 31, ttc #1, cycle 7, bfp due 31st October

Have had a word with DP and despite my initial wish to have a month off we have agreed to not not try next month so no temping or sticks just dtd in the right time frame. It will be cycle 8.

Ah thank you English.....ooh with a July 3rd due date I could definitely straddle the June bus as well and so could you Treacle nothing like getting ahead of oneself!

Somesort I'm so sorry, I was really hoping this was going to have a positive outcome for you. I hope that when you feel ready you can find someone that can help you. Take care and hope to see back on the ttc conceive buses before too long

Enormous hugs OhLordy and SomeSort. It feels so unfair.

I really hope you manage to find the right consultant on the NHS SomeSort - keeping everything crossed for you. I'm also on a TTC break at the moment (post ectopic) so suspect I may be joining you on the January TTC bus.

As others have said, I would also wholeheartedly recommend the TTC after a MC thread. Everyone is lovely and so supportive.

So sorry ohlordy and somesort what terrible news for you both

Gosh somesort I wonder if that's something a cancer charity might be able to assist with funding? It seems silly allowing you to have embryos all ready if no one will assist you to use them. So sorry you're going through a crappy time.

what a crappy crap day on here. I'm so sorry somesort Enjoy a very large tonight.

So sorry Biscuit. I was so hopeful for you. I don't know what to say other than I hope you get some answers when you are ready. You obviously have no trouble conceiving which is something if not much help right now. Take care of yourself.

I'm ok. Well, I'm not, but I'm more ok than I was last month. I'll be ok tomorrow. I need to try and find a doctor in the north-west that specialises in fertility post-cancer treatment, who'll see me as an NHS patient.

I have five embryos on ice, but no funds to use them (it would cost roughly £5000), but there's no point going down that road until I know whether it's a problem with my uterus or whether the eggs are too poor quality to develop. Lots of things to find out.

I'm so sorry ohlordy and somesort hugs to you both

Oh Biscuit , again, I'm so sorry! What a horrible day of bad news. Sending you both big hugs.

for OhLordy.

I'm out too. Oddly enough my temp went back up a bit this morning, but I started bleeding properly and the line is so faint on a FRER that it's barely there. I made it two more days than last month which is something, but it's still hugely disappointing.

The positive side is I might be able to get my GP to refer me to someone now I've had two chemical pregnancies in a row and given my history. DH and I already made the decision that if it didn't go well, we'd take a break from trying until after Christmas, so I might not go to the GP right away.

I wish everyone so much luck. I might be back on the buses next year, who knows?

*Spinning I've also just put your dates in a calculator based on ovulation date and it gave you an edd of 3rd July

I'm really sorry Lordy

Spinning, I'm not sure it would really matter. Just a long time to wait for 1st scan, which would then probably date you further along than you are.

So so sorry Ohlordy, hope you are at home getting some tlc. I second the recommendation for the ttc after an mc. I found myself there recently and they are a lovely supportive group.

ohlordy I am so sorry.

terry fx AF stays away.

blue I hope your blood test shows ov. My scan showed no ov but my blood test showed I did ov. FX the same for you.

I am excited for all you poasers tomorrow. I think I will try to hold out til the weekend, I'm not feeling hopeful and don't want waste a frer. I could use an ic but I don't trust the wretched things!

Terry, I know we should wait, why do we do it to ourselves month after month! Especially when we're temping. We really should learn to wait and watch the temps and only test if af doesn't arrive. Sounds good in theory but in practice.......

Omg Treacle......I was looking at my nails earlier and thinking how smooth and nice they were looking!!!! You do realise that could be down to the crack epo

Terry, no I'm not sure on due date, I got that from putting in a 28day cycle which this obviously isn't! I'm hopeless, I've just put my rubbish out for the morning and just realised I'm an evening early with it!!

I'm so sorry to hear that ohlordy Big hugs