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Conception

When's the best time to get pregnant? Use our interactive ovulation calculator to work out when you're most fertile and most likely to conceive.

Pregoween is getting nearer, come on bfp's clearer and clearer!

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Treaclepie19 · 20/10/2014 20:36

Cheesy title I know.
All aboard for the final stretch! :)

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spinningirl10 · 22/10/2014 21:50

Treacle and Katy, sorry af has turned up for you bothThanks I'm sure I'll see you on the Nov bus soon.

Choccy, I'm so pleased the blood has turned brown, hopefully that's a good sign and is little bean is snuggling in. Take it easyThanks

EnglishGirlsReturned · 22/10/2014 21:50

Sorry AF has arrived Treacle, treat yourself to a glass of wine.
Choccy - stay positive hun, brown is not bad. Keep your chin up lovely. Will send a little prayer up for you Smile
MaGrat- you've normally got between 12-36 hours I think after a positive OPK.
Big hugs Katy - TTC is hard, don't let a possible short lp worry you, plenty of people get pg with a short one. As Choccy said - b6 is supposed to be good for lengthening it.

Dozygirl · 22/10/2014 21:50

I get spotting 2 date before AF arrives. Disnt use to get it pre pill. I wasn't on anything at all when I came off pill in April because we weren't actively ttc until August. I still had spotting then so it musnt be from vitamins.

Also feel worried about it because I hadn't had it before pill but u read lots of stories about ppl getting bfps even tho they spot before a period. I can't see the harm in going to a doctors and asking them to check things out even if u haven't been trying for a year. If there's an obvious problem in regards ttc then they do start tests earlier, it's only if u have no sign of anything that they wait the year.

SunbathingCat · 22/10/2014 21:49

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MaGratgarlik1983 · 22/10/2014 21:46

Sorry Katy, crossed post. Big hugs.

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Choccywoccydodah · 22/10/2014 21:41

Katy, sorry to but in. I had a short LP of about 9-10 days, spotting from 7 days. I had that for 2 months after I came off the pill. Then I started b6 50mg every morning cd1-ov then upped it to 100mg after ov. I caught the first month? Every month I've not tried (3 in the last year), I've gone back to the 9-10 days with spotting as I've not taken the b6. Might be worth a shot for you. Apologies if this has already been suggested :)
It didn't affect my ov being late, if anything it made it earlier.

MaGratgarlik1983 · 22/10/2014 21:34

Sorry for all the rubbish news today!

Well I'm on CD46 and lots of ewcm so I did an opk and was a really strong positive! So we DTD yesterday morning, tried tonight but didn't quite happen, so do you think we'll be ok if we try in the morning then maybe once on the weekend? How long after the pos opk do you ovulate? Thanks!

Katybear123 · 22/10/2014 21:34

Hi cariad, sunbathing and purple thank u so much for ur responses. It's very tough now, not made better today by that witch af showing her face!!!!!! Only got to cd26 I think today counts as spotting but still therefore only a 9-10 luteral phase. Spent a lot of time sobbing with hubbie tonight and trying to see if this is a luteral phase defect. We have googled and googled and its v confusing and conflicted. Not sure what to do worried to take anything that might mess up cycles more, and suspect gp will do nothing as only been trying 6 months and was on pill for 17 yrs. feel very blue today

TerrysNo2 · 22/10/2014 21:33

Brown is Ok choccy keep up the positive attitude and think happy thoughts!! oh and sticky ones Grin

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Choccywoccydodah · 22/10/2014 21:28

Sorry to gate crash again. It's gone brown again tonight so hoping that's a good thing. Going to be a long week!
Good luck all of you x

Treaclepie19 · 22/10/2014 21:25

Definitely is af. Ugh :(
I really hope those of you still to test get your bfp's but I will miss you!

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Frolicacid · 22/10/2014 21:08

Just popping in to say how sorry I am for all the crap news today Thanks

spinningirl10 · 22/10/2014 21:05

Lucie, that's great, thanks for sharing

Well the acupuncture lady (the one that I really wanted to see) phoned me this evening. We had quite a long chat about what's going on with me and how long we've been trying. Anyway I have my first appointment on Nov 18th, I know it's a few weeks away but she's really busy, shes been trained by Zita West which is quite exciting, fx it works for me. Nov 4th is my referral appointment to the fertility place at the hospital so at least we can get some tests done and see if everything's working as it should be. Oh and I also have to take temp charts to acupuncture so I will continue with them.

Dozygirl · 22/10/2014 20:34

Yes lucie thanks for sharing that. Your journey has been a tough one. Hope u get ur BFP soon.

EnglishGirlsReturned · 22/10/2014 20:30

Lucie my acupuncturist said pretty much the same thing about temps. although plenty of people get their bfp with not so consistent temps, they obviously look at it from an ideal world/whole body point of view. To me it kind of makes sense. So far this cycle my temps have definitely been more consistent than in previous cycles, so she must be doing something right.

That little FERTILTIY thing is really good... reminds us that it actually takes quite a lot to get pregnant and a positive mind definitely helps.

MrsExtraOrdinary · 22/10/2014 20:27

What a sad day today has been for so many of you.

Treacle I'm sorry if af is on the way.

Chandlers I think the decision you have made is a very positive one. And your plan for the absolute immediate future sounds great.

We've had another lady fall off the an thread today too.

I think let's write today off and wake up tomorrow with some bfps! There's still time in pregtober!

Dozygirl · 22/10/2014 20:15

Sorry for all the sad news on the bus today. Hugs all round. chandlers sorry for not getting the outcome u wanted from the meds. Love the positive attitude. Enjoy your time in Thailand, sounds like a once in a lifetime opportunity and now u can really enjoy it and enjoy a child free zone because u will get your children soon enough I'm sure of it.

It's my dp birthday and he's stuck in court for work. I wanted to make a baby tonight (as I do every night). Not had a positive opk but I'm sure it most be coming soon. At least I hope it is. Think I'm defo out of the October bus now tho as I've still not ov'd so there isn't enough days left in the month. My cycle is normally 29 days tho so I don't know why I've not ov'd yet. Frustrated.

TerrysNo2 · 22/10/2014 20:03

did = for!

TerrysNo2 · 22/10/2014 20:02

that's a great post Lucie thanks did sharing Smile

lucieloos · 22/10/2014 19:53

Just had an interesting acupuncture session which I thought i would share incase it helps anyone else.
I showed her some of the temp charts I have done previously. They almost always show good strong ovulation but then always have a big dip around 7/8 dpo before going back up quite high for a couple of days before tailing off again when AF is due. She said ideally the temps should stay up during the luteal phase and be quite consistent and so could possibly indicate a drop in progesterone. She wants me to continue temping for my full cycle this time around which I wasn't going to do so she can take a look at it. She also wants me to temp for the whole of the first half of my next cycle which again I never bother doing, would only normally start a few days before ovulation. She said this part of the cycle the temps should again remain quite consistent without too many up and downs.

She has recommended that after af has finished to start using a hot water bottle every night up until ovulation and also doing gentle stomach massaging to stimulate blood flow. She also mentioned progesterone cream which you can buy online although said to wait until next cycle for that as she wants to look at the rest of my temps for this cycle first. I'm not sure I do have a problem with progesterone as when I saw the consultant last week she said that I didn't need the day 21 progesterone test as I would normally be spotting for a few days before AF if I did have low progesterone but I don't think the cream does any harm so I am thinking of giving that a try next month. A little boost can't hurt surely.

She could see I was a bit down in the dumps this week just as it seems like a long journey and absolutely nothing has happened at all for us. Not even a sniff of a pregnancy. Anyway she told me this little thing that she had devised with the letters from the word 'fertility'

F - Food (lots of protein, seeds, nuts in first half of cycle and warming foods in second half)
E - Exercise
R - Relaxation (getting enough sleep and time to chill out)
T - Thoughts ( thinking positive thoughts instead of negative)
I - Imagination (imagining the various stages of cycle as you are going through them so picturing the egg being released, then it being fertilised etc)
L - Laughter (laughter is the best medicine of all. Watching funny films or anything that makes you laugh)
I - Inner Voice (banish that inner voice that tells you negative things. Like my temp has gone down, it's never going to happen)
T - Thank You (Say thank you for all the good things you have and remember them. A lovely house, husband, friends, family etc)
Y - YES ( Yes I will be a mum. Yes it will happen and again picture that)

Hope it's of some use anyway, I thought it was helpful Smile

mzzzf · 22/10/2014 19:47

Oh and congrats to Flowerbomb! Yay! Grin

My actual AF is due anytime between 28-31st English at the very least I'm going to hold out until Sunday.

furtivefeline · 22/10/2014 18:39

I really hope the spotting doesn't progress Choccy. Fx for you, must be so worrying.

Congrats to flowerbomb - hope all goes well for you.

And fx to spinning and everyone else in limbo waiting for AF/BFP

AF not here yet but am looking ahead to next cycle already and have decided to give temping a go as well as starting soy! Always good to have something lined up for next time.

EnglishGirlsReturned · 22/10/2014 18:23

what a shit day!!Choccy i'm keeping everything crossed for you that it's just your little bean getting nice and comfy.

I too have a poas phobia Mzzzf! Hate seeing a bfn, would much rather af just arrive!