Oh Autumn that's crap but, as others have said, don't run away. Tears, tantrums, rants and raves are all ok here. Clearly I'm talking about the angry type rave rather than the whistle and glow stick one 
Cd9 here, nothing exciting happening yet, still no smiley on my ov tests yet. But poor DH might be coming down with man flu so I'll be keeping my fingers crossed that we can still DTD when needed. Maybe snot can be used as lube....