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November bus opening doors- all aboard for BFPs!!!

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IamEvan · 14/09/2014 16:55

I know its waaay early for a November bus to set off but AF arrived today kicking me off the September bus and with DH away next month the October bus is not an option. Anyone fancy joining me in the long wait? I don't expect much action on this thread for a few weeks but it would be nice to have some company. My stats are below:

iamevan, 35, TTC#2, cycle 6, BFP due 7th November

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Beansprout30 · 10/10/2014 17:59

Thanks for the stats April, nice to see some of you ladies are similar age to me ttc #1 exciting :)

Dozygirl · 10/10/2014 12:52

Haha where did u get them from??

I don't even know what cd I am this month because my period kept coming and going so wasnt sure when cd1 actually was. ill just go off opk this month and await period 12 days after a positive one.

MrsGingerbread · 10/10/2014 12:35

I seem to have accidentally bought epo meant for horses. Well that's the only assumption I can make going by the size of them. Wow!

Cd4 here, how dull. This is the most boring bit of the cycle definitely. Hoping af will sod off soon!

How is everyone else?

Dozygirl · 10/10/2014 12:35

Oh gosh rosebud let's hope he still does have Trojan sperm! Lol that's funny. I wish my DP had Trojan sperm. No luck so far I think they're lazy but I'm Prob just worrying over nothing. Good luck!

RoseBud2015 · 10/10/2014 11:25

Butterfly Dozygirl We haven't started ttc yet- still waiting for my first post-pill AF but Husband insists that as soon as we are ready to ttc I will fall straight away because he has (in his words) "Trojan sperm!!!"

His ex-partner fell instantly with both of their children so now he's convinced that the same will happen with us!! Makes it quite stressful in itself because what he forgets is he was 12 years younger then and didn't have a Wife with PCOS!!! Bless his enthusiasm though!

Dozygirl · 10/10/2014 08:20

And yes butterfly it is so much more stressful than u think isn't it!! Even though u know it doesn't happen for most people straight away u still hope you'll be the lucky one that it does and it's heartbreaking everytime AF arrives.

Dozygirl · 10/10/2014 08:18

Thanks for the stats april. I'll soon be entering the dtd marathon time hopefully. Just hope dp is more up for it this month lol. Told him last night he should be having regular 'alone time' while we're not dtd to keep it all flowing and ready for when we start dtd. He just thought I was joking but I was being serious.

butterflycats · 10/10/2014 07:34

Perhaps I should also say I'm 29, but will be 30 v v soon, before November arrives!!!

butterflycats · 10/10/2014 07:32

aprilmay bfp for me will be 14th November (damn 37 day cycles where I am blatantly not ovulating!!!)
I'm not expecting much this month, I've got a lot on!

This TTC is way more stressful than I realised!!!

LP20140 · 10/10/2014 07:31

Hi April. I'm glad your results are good and I am crossing my fingers for you!! I'm well thanks, 9 and a half weeks now, got my scan on the 30th.

Best of luck xx

Aprilray · 09/10/2014 21:04

A stats list for you lovely ladies;

Allatonce99, ttc# ?, cycle ?, BFP due 31 October-1st November
Dozygirl, ttc#1, cycle 4, BFP due end of Oct or 1st November
MrsGingerbread, 32, ttc#1, cycle 8 (mcs 3 and 4), BFP due 1st November
EnglishGirlsReturned - ttc#1, cycle 13/14, BFP due 3rd November
XBlueberry88x 26 ttc#1 cycle 19, BFP due 3rd November
ProbablyMe, 40, ttc #5, cycle 5, BFP due 4th November
ThePurplegiraffe, 36, ttc#2, cycle 4 (mc cycle 2), BFP due 4th November
Sherbet38, ttc#1, cycle 4, BFP due 4th Nov
Mistywillow17, 33, ttc#1, cycle 7, BFP due 5th November
Wanttobeamummyin2015 23 ttc #1 cycle 1, BFP due 6th November
iamevan, 35, ttc#2, cycle 6, BFP due 7th November
Aprilray, 33, ttc#1, cycle 11, BFP due 8th November
Beansprout30, ttc#1, cycle 4 (after 5 months off) BFP due 11th November
Secretreveleater 35, ttc#4, cycle 2 (1 really since no dtd in actual cycle 1!) BFP due 18th November
Natalie1989xo, ttc#3, mc Sept, cycle 5, BFP due around 18-22nd November
Rosebud2015 30, ttc#1, cycle 1, BFP due 20th November
Victoria401, 34 ttc#1 cycle 24 (!) BFP due 26th November
Butterflycats, ttc#1, cycle 3, BFP due ??
Imgoingforatwix, 31, ttc#2, no cycles yet....
MaGratgarlik1983, 31, ttc#1, cycle 4 (counting September) BFP due ??
Justdrive, ttc #2, cycle ?, BFP due ??
Alien11, ttc#2 cycle 3, BFP due ??
FlowerbombVR 36, ttc #4, cycle #1 (after mc) BFP due?
Whatamuddleduck, 32, ttc#1, cycle 4, BFP due ??
cth1982, 32 ttc#1 cycle 11, BFP due ??
Joey0805, ttc #?, cycle ?, BFP due ??

Now we just need November to arrive!

Let me know if I've made any mistakes.

Sherbet38 · 09/10/2014 20:00

Hi all

Can I claim an early seat please? I was kicked off the October the bus when AF arrived 4 days late, what a tease! My stats are Sherbet38 ttc#1, cycle 4,bfp due 4th Nov. I'm going to try IC opks this month. I used the CB ones last month but didn't get a positive, may have ov'd late. FX for everyone Smile

Thepurplegiraffe · 09/10/2014 19:36

Hi all
I have been kicked off the October bus so will be joining you if that's ok.
My stats are ThePurplegiraffe, 36, ttc#2, cycle 4 (mc cycle 2), bfp due 4th Nov.
It all seems like a very long wait right now!

xBlueberry88x · 09/10/2014 16:23

Welcome Ladies,

glad its getting a bit busier in here although id rather you all had your BFPS!!

butterflycats · 09/10/2014 15:56

Well I'm joining you guys.... TTC1 cycle 3, haven't got a clue when BFP will be due yet :(

CTH1982 it sounds like your GP hasn't looked at the new NICE guidelines for infertility referral.... you don't have to wait 1 year if there is an obvious cause for your infertility, like PCOS! I'd go back, take a copy of the guidelines, but the bit you need is:

Offer an earlier referral (before 1 year) for specialist consultation to discuss the options for attempting conception, further assessment and appropriate treatment where:
-the woman is 36 years or over
or
-there is a known clinical cause of infertility or a history of predisposing factors for infertility.

secretreveleater · 09/10/2014 14:34

Hi everybody. I'm going to grab a seat because although af isn't due for another week and a bit, me and the OH haven't managed more than a quick snog this cycle. I'm usually an optimist but even I can't be hopeful for a bfp with those efforts!
Never mind . Another cycle, another chance.
I will be using opks for November's cycle which I've never tried before so fx.
Good luck to all Smile
secretreveleater 35 ttc#4 cycle 2 (1 really I suppose since no dtd in actual cycle 1!) Bfp due 18th Nov.

flowerbombVR · 09/10/2014 10:25

Hi ladies
Can I join yous here?

Unsure when I will be due bfp, had mc end of last month so waiting on my body to 'right' itself!

Stats anyway - 36, ttc #4, cycle #1 (after mc), bfp due?

Good luck everyone x

Aprilray · 09/10/2014 10:00

Hi LP!! I'm ok, disappointed to still be trying but had tests done this month and all looking good so hopefully it is just a matter of time. How are you?

I am officially on this bus now as AF arrived yesterday afternoon. Will do a stats list this evening.

LP20140 · 08/10/2014 20:48

Hello! I was just having a look through threads for familiar names and found April here, hiya! Hope you're doing well and keeping positive xx

alien11 · 08/10/2014 19:33

Hi blueberry no I'm not taking any supplements just folic acid

MrsGingerbread · 08/10/2014 17:52

beansprout of course I don't mind you asking! Mine is 9-10 days too.

This was my first cycle on 100mg b6 so I can see if it was a fluke or not! 50mg made no difference at all!

xBlueberry88x · 08/10/2014 16:57

April I completely agree!!

Welcome Alien Sorry your bodies messing with you!! I was 3 days late this month and im very rarely late so I know how it feels.
Have you been taking any new supplements? I was 7 days late once due to pregnacare

alien11 · 08/10/2014 15:59

Hi can I join the bus please? Ttc#2 cycle 3 currently wondering what my body is doing as no AF and bfn on tests!

Aprilray · 08/10/2014 14:10

Hi Blueberry Smile
It is! I hate the start of each cycle...you've put in all that hard work and then it's back to square one with ages to wait until it gets exciting again. Sucks.

xBlueberry88x · 08/10/2014 13:16

Hi April Sorry your joining us!

Its a bit quiet over here