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November bus opening doors- all aboard for BFPs!!!

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IamEvan · 14/09/2014 16:55

I know its waaay early for a November bus to set off but AF arrived today kicking me off the September bus and with DH away next month the October bus is not an option. Anyone fancy joining me in the long wait? I don't expect much action on this thread for a few weeks but it would be nice to have some company. My stats are below:

iamevan, 35, TTC#2, cycle 6, BFP due 7th November

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spinningirl10 · 25/10/2014 17:15

Sorry the comment for Dozy was for tooth!! Think the wines gone to my headGrin

Dozy, sorry you think you might have missed your chance, it's hard when that happens. Fx you have some swimmers there ready for the egg, it really does only take oneWink

spinningirl10 · 25/10/2014 17:14

Mzzzf, sorry af arrived Thanks

Genni, so pleased you've had a chat with dh and feeling happier. I find it easier when af arrives and the torture of not knowing is gone. Not sure easier is the right word but I'm sure ykwimGrin

Dozy, good to hear dh will be home in time for your fertile time. Hopefully you'll soon be joining your friend with a bfpGrin

I was having a lovely day, went to the gym, had a phone call for a second interview for a job I applied for and went to lunch with my friend Grin unfortunately I've now fallen out with dp and I won't see him until tomorrow evening so I'm feeling sad and pretty pissed off with him!!!! I even have a glass of wine and it's only 5.15!!!

spinningirl10 · 25/10/2014 17:05

Omg Blueberry, only read back as far as your comment but that's disgusting that someone threatened you!!!!! I hope you've reported him! I would have cried, clomid or not! What a horrid man.
Hope you're ok Thanks

Dozygirl · 25/10/2014 17:00

Feeling a bit blue now. Because I doubled up on testing x2 opks a day I think I caught my positive earlier so I've now had three days of positive but only dtd once. Not feeling hopeful now. Why does life get in the way? There was no way I was gonna fit in dtd yesterday but that was probably the best chance I had. This sucks. Such a small slimmer of chance all month and its so frigging easy to miss it :(

flowerbombVR · 25/10/2014 16:40

Well thank you very much spinning :)

It's a bit more comfy on the bus with you lot x someone has created a due in July thread which is practically inactive!
Autumn Beans galore I say Grin

wanttobeamummyin2015 · 25/10/2014 16:20

Pregvember is off to a good start in the wanttobe household. CD 9 - already having nearly positive OPKs and dtd twice already! Here's to a dtd-athon and many bfps ahead of us!

toothachereturns · 25/10/2014 15:52

Dc2.... Not dd2. Lol.... She's only 6 weeks pg so def don't know if it's a dd yet!

toothachereturns · 25/10/2014 15:51

Hello to the newbies and wave to all the familiar names (sorry to see you all still on the busHmm).
CD 9 here and DH is away until tomorrow night. He's very much looking forward to returning just as my fertile phase is due to start. Grin
if Im upduffed this month it would be ideal as I'd finish work right before School hols at end of June. No childcare fees! >high five<
Sigh...... Not feeling optimistic though.
My best friend just announced she's pg with dd2 after 1st month ttc and only DTD once last month!! Really pleased for her, she's 40 next yr so felt the pressure. But very Envy with envy.

ninjabeer · 25/10/2014 15:42

Hello ladies, newbie hopping on the bus. Be gentle with me it's my first time! Blush

Stats 35 ttc #1 cycle 4 bfp due Nov 20th think I've got that right.

Have been trying in ernest for the last few months using opks temping conceive plus and soft cups. Am on cycle day 3 and coming out the other side of pmt rage, AF's arrival a day earlier than expected and the teary blues of realising that this baby making lark is harder than it looks. Spent so long trying not to get up duffed you would think it was easy? !

Anyway have vowed to be a goddess of positivity this month so hoping the Pregvember bus is a lucky one and that you guys will help me stay sane.

Waiting for AF to naff off so in the meantime I'll be at the back of the bus with a glass of vino. Wine

mzzzf · 25/10/2014 14:40

Oh I'm also going to give conceive plus a bash this cycle too!

mzzzf · 25/10/2014 14:40

Ola amigos! I've been unceremoniously pushed from the last bus so cycle 5 will begin in earnest once AF naffs off!

Please add me to the list when we're ready for the off:
Mzzzf, 33, ttc#1, cycle 5, BFP bloody week better be due 23rd Nov

Joey0805 · 25/10/2014 13:12

I'm 3DPO (it's CD21 today) and now keeping fx that I have a decent luteal phase this month, last month was only 9 days but then I didn't ovulate until CD21... We did loads of DTD when my CBFM started giving me high readings (on Cd8) which was waaaayy too early so we ran out of steam then managed on CD13, 15, 17 (peak), 18 (peak) so I'm hoping that was enough!!!

Orangeisthenewbanana · 25/10/2014 13:11

toots I'm with you! 4 days of negative OPK'S here and although I'm not expecting to ov until Wednesday onwards, I can feel myself worrying if this is going to be a long cycle Sad Don't know whether to start dtd just in case, but also don't want to start too soon in case we're knackered by the time I do ov Confused. Too much to think about! Must. Stop.

I won't!

Dozygirl · 25/10/2014 12:35

There should be an option on the ovia app for 'tried to have sex' lol. Then I'd feel happier seeing my attempts on the chart rather than just nothing. Was unsuccessful this morning but gave it our best shot. I'm hoping that at least one lonely little spermie was released in some prejizz and is making its way up there lol. Cervix feels firmer today tho so I reckon my chances are over. I kinda regret not trying temping this month like I said I would. Maybe next time.

Dozygirl · 25/10/2014 12:31

Yeah I've heard it can do that. I'm just generally emotional lol. I'll cry at anything :)

xBlueberry88x · 25/10/2014 12:19

Dozy Im thinking maybe the clomid has made me over emotional I dont normally cry like that....an hour later and I could still cry at the drop of a hat its weird

Dozygirl · 25/10/2014 12:17

Sounds awful blueberry hope the last hour goes quick and then u can escape home for some snuggles. Threatening ppl can be do terrifying. It's not nice at all. Thanks

xBlueberry88x · 25/10/2014 12:00

My god so im a letting agent had to do a check out today which usually means telling people they have left it untidy or dirty and that I have to mark it down.

Did this today and the couple flipped and the guy threatened me!

I responded my crying like a little girl and have barely managed to stop symptom Ive got an hour left of work and ive got to try not to cry lol

Treaclepie19 · 25/10/2014 11:52

Glad you're feeling happier genni :)
Isn't it funny the difference once af comes. I actually forgot to take my temp today. Turned off my alarm and went back to sleep :p

Dozygirl · 25/10/2014 11:07

1dpo according to ff. had a wave of sickness yesterday, crazy head has already started symptom spotting and I'd probably not even bloody ovulated at that point! This is gonna be a long tww.

Yey for the positive attitude genni. I'm not feeling hopeful this month as only managed to dtd on Thursday with my first positive opk. Worked 13 hours yesterday then went out getting drunk for DP birrhday so there was no chance of dtd last night. Really really wanted to tho so that we were following the SMEP :( anyone else feel they should dtd literally constantly just to make sure there is millions of sperm waiting to catch the egg??!! I want to be doing it morning afternoon and night otherwise I feel like it won't work lol.

Welcome to the newbies to the buses. Grin

wanttobeamummyin2015 · 25/10/2014 10:26

toots my bfp due 14 nov, I haven't had pos opk yet but am having near positives. Weird tho as cd 9 today and I ov'd cd16 last month!

Quietlyhopeful81 · 25/10/2014 10:21

Agreed Blueberry! It should be banned for being cruel and unfair lol. Wooooooo for a week off for you next week though! I'm not a big fan of how time crawls at work sometimes but flies when you have time off. Hope today speeds by for you :)

xBlueberry88x · 25/10/2014 10:11

Morning Genni Glad you had a good chat with DH I can never have a good chat with my dp hes such a muppet lol

Quietly Its just un natural to work on a weekend lol...Ive only got to work 4 hours but it was so hard getting up lol week off after this though woooo

Quietlyhopeful81 · 25/10/2014 10:08

Blueberry, I regularly feel like I can't be bothered to do anything when in work on a Saturday. I'm lucky enough to have this one off and am waiting for the OH to finish playing golf so we can spend it doing something fun. :)

gennibugs · 25/10/2014 10:05

Morning all.
This is the bus to be on! I can feel it!
DH and I had a brilliant chat last night about ttc and I feel so positive. He so just great.
Hope everyone has a great day! With lots ofWine if need be Smile