November bus opening doors- all aboard for BFPs!!!

Oh dear spinning, I completely understand the familiarity of the buses and that's why I just can't leave. I'm a bit of an over thinker myself. Would it help to explain a bit more about the argument. Why's he not keen on your new job? Don't feel you have to, but we've all been chatting long enough to have a vested interest in getting you through this

MrsE, I'm thinking I'll take it from tomorrow cd5 but maybe not at all if things haven't improved with dp.

He's a really deep thinker, he doesn't shout, he just goes off and retreats into himself and thinks and thinks for hours on end. I had a brief conversation with him this morning and he's said some things that have raised questions about our relationship I feel exhausted, ds is back this morning and at work with me. Trying to carry on as normal and not bawl my eyes out. I'm sure this is more a discussion for the relationships thread but I feel happier here with you and I don't want my relationship with dp dissected over there, I just want my fabulous dp back

Broody my first month using preseed I got my bfp but then I've also used it for 6 months since and nothing.

I'm on half term, going to be working every day though as we're having lots of monitoring and things after the holiday.

Hello!

7dpo here and no symptoms. Which I thought was really dull. Until I realised that of course a lack of symptoms is itself a ...SYMPTOM ;)

Not long now until the November bus gets motoring. Woo!

Morning all. Happy Monday! Our schools were off last week so it's back today for them. No packed out parks or soft play for me and dd, hoorah! Next holidays are Christmas

spinning, any movement on your dh situation? Hope you're friends again soon xx

Cd12 here. Not dtd as yet this cycle because dh has been working lates, no clear positive opk yet and I don't want to get into the shagathon too early and it all become tiresome/for a purpose (which obvs it is for a purpose but ykwim) Considering buying conceive plus today but wonder if it'll just be a waste of money. How many of you use it/have used it and like to attribute a bfp to it? I had a dream about it last night and so I feel as though I should try it this cycle for some reason! I so want a bfp this year - like everyone else on this thread, I know!

Hi everyone I've just been kicked off the pregtober bus so I'm hoping there is still a seat available for me here.

Jcandy 30 ttc #1 cycle 3 bfp due 25th November

Ahh! Just read up thread a bit. Congratulations spinning! Hope you can get everything sorted soon with your DP

Morning lovely ladies CD17 here and had noticed more cm the last few days. Positive on IC opk last night, and a flashy smiley yesterday followed by a solid smiley on CB today .

Dtd last night and have already abandoned my plan of eod in favour of having another go tonight. If all the tests were positive from yesterday afternoon, I'm figuring Tuesday night will be too late? Is it pineapple juice for drinking after ov? May give that a go too after the next few days.

Have a lovely day all!

Morning.

Congrats on the job Spinning. Hope DP gets out of the grump soon so you can talk it through.

Have just paid £18 for 5 days internet on holiday in deepest Devon because there is not a jot of phone signal and I can't cope without it

Feeling the pain of the non-sleeping kids MrsE and Broody. Twinbies treated me to multiple mid-night wake ups and a super early start last night. Shouldn't complain because they are normally pretty good, I guess it's just the excitement of being on hols.

DH came with us (whole family are here) for the weekend, but had to leave yesterday to work today. We DTD on CD 4, 7, 9, 11, 12 and 13, and I usually O on 13 so would have liked one more shot yesterday but hoping that was enough!!

Hope everyone has a good Monday :)

Spinning think I'd go for as late as possible with the soy.

Well done in getting the job spinning x
Hopefully you and oh will be back on track soon x

Morning

Haha Terry

Cd4 here, af should tail off today and I have to decide when to take soy, today or tomorrow.

Hope all you teachers are enjoying half term.

Hello all, how's the symptom spotting?

Cd13 here and got a high today and yesterday on cbfm. Some ewcm today too so I think we'd better retire to bed... Never used cbfm before so I'm interested to see whether it gives me a peak reading tomorrow, which is when I would expect it.

Almost ready to get this bus in gear! Who'll be the first BFP?

Just popping on to say hi. CD5 here so not much to report (oh and I decided not to take the soy this month so really nothing happening atm) DH been away for 5 days and getting back tomorrow, it was booked months ago so lucky timing hey!

Congrats on the job Spinning, talk to DH and then work out what you want. Don't let TTC stop you doing it, if I still have to run...

Congratulations on the job spinning, great news, well done. I hope your dp gets over his strop and is able to be pleased for you.

Victoria welcome, it certainly sounds like you have more than earned your bfp. fx for you

Night everyone

That's been my last three years sunbathing - worrying, fretting, dr googling everything from babies moving too much/not enough, indigestion in pregnancy (bleurgh), birthing strategies (owww), colic (for once, not horse related but just as annoying!), successful breastfeeding, how the fuck to get baby to sleep through.... It really is fabulous though. Best job ever!!! You. Will. Love. It

mrse, v reassuring that all yours have had issues of some sort with sleep. Lol at your little hurdler Apparently my nephew was like that so my sister had to remove the gate sharpish!

thank you spinningirl10 baby dust to you all xxxx

LinseyD, congratulations on your bfp

You want the Ante Natal boards really, go to topics, becoming a parent and then ante-natal clubs....there's a due in July thread there with some other ladies who have just got their bfp......wishing you a healthy and happy 9 months

3-4 dpo for me today and no major symptoms so far. Congratulations Lynsaed and also to Spinning for the job news!

We managed to BD a few times over ov so FX!!

Victoria that procedure worked really well for me in the past. I really hope it does for you.

I'm very late but can I please join you all? Stats are:

Twilight, 32, ttc#1, 4 mc, cycle 1 (since last mc), bfp due 2nd Nov.

I poas today - at 7dpo - I think I have gone over to the bad place?! It was bfn unsurprisingly. It was in response to sore breasts today which is a bit exciting although I can't remember if this happens when not pregnant and merely symptom spotting too

Well broody if Im honest they've all had their rubbish moments with sleeping. They've all slept with me at different times,eldest ds was a complete disaster. He wouldn't sleep at all. But he was sorted by the time he was 3. Dd cured ds's multitude of problems. He just loved her to pieces from the outset. So they shared a room and that worked. Dc3 was so determined to get out of his room he jumped a dog gate at 18 months. Dc4 was pretty good but was a sucker for lullabys. In fact dc4 and 5 are sharing a room now and I did start singing the other night and dc4 fell asleep sooner than dc5. He still loves a bit of Martha's Harbour. I do know in my heart of hearts dc5 won't wAnt to be sleeping with me when he's 16. But if we could just get a few good sleeps in it would really help.

hi ladies can i join your thread just got a positive this morning very shocked going doctors tomorrow anyone know what happens after that xxx

Thanks wanttobeamummy,spinning and xblueberry - nothing to worry about then, that's good to know!