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Anyone else still waiting?

344 replies

MaGratgarlik1983 · 24/08/2014 14:58

Just wondering if anyone else is still in limbo?! Now on CD35, no sign of AF, bfn on test (I think, hard to wonder if I imagine these shadows of lines on the ICs). Loads of symptoms but don't want to let myself get excited in case AF shows and it's all in my head. Anyone else in the same situation?

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ImpatiencePersonified · 16/09/2014 19:20

Oh Donna, gutted for you darlin, really am.
I'm still waiting! Day 53.....53 I tell you.
If AF does turn up she's gonna be in BIG trouble for being late!

R0ckCh1c · 16/09/2014 19:04

Orange my 2nd faint line is still happening. Not got a dark positive line yet. Today I've had more spotting. So not quite sure where my cycle is at the moment as had spotting for 1 day the day after AF was due 2wks ago. Got cramps, so recon AF will be coming full flow. Will have to see what happens tomorrow. I'm using the ov strips to see if/when I am ovulating (but no positive results yet) as almost at the 6months TTC stage & cycle still all over the place. Thinking of booking docs appointment for 4th Oct to see if they can start tests.

Science fingers crossed for you!

Orangeisthenewbanana · 16/09/2014 18:32

Two - tww!

Orangeisthenewbanana · 16/09/2014 18:32

Donna am so sorry for your loss Flowers Flowers. Hope you and your DH get some good news in the very near future.

Hi science! Welcome to the group Smile. Ooh, 25th! You're well into the dreaded two then. Fx!

Started POAS with my cheapie ov strips today. R0ck, I'm already sharing your faint second line pain, but am just trying to use it as a baseline so hopefully a positive will be really obvious! My phone app has my estimated ov date around 1st October based on my last cycle, but then my last cycle was a week shorter than the one before Confused. Going to rely more on the sticks at the moment and hope things become a little more predictable!

scienceteachergeek · 16/09/2014 17:48

Great to hear you sounding so optimistic donna :) sending love.

Come on guys.....where's some good news???! No BFPs at all on this thread. When you all due for things to happen again? I've got AF either coming/not coming on 25th.

Fingers crossed all xxx

R0ckCh1c · 16/09/2014 16:48

On no Donna I'm so sorry to hear that!! Sending you big hugs Thanks xxx

Donnakim · 16/09/2014 11:26

Hi everyone, unfortunately I suffered an MC. I'm not surprised to be honest as I've been horrendously tired and unwell the last few weeks, and my hCG was barely registering and then gone. But now it's over I am back to my old self, if more prone to bursting in to tears at the moment. This hasn't put me off though, we are still going to keep trying as Rome wasn't built in a day.

Thank you all for your kind words, it means a lot to us both x

ImpatiencePersonified · 15/09/2014 08:08

Good morning fab fannys,

Welcome Koko & Science....

Donna, missed your post but hope everythings ok sweet, pop on when you get a chance and let us know how you're doing.

Well day of the dreaded blood test, and now day 52, another BFN on Saturday. I guess we'll just need to see what happens, but I can't imagine that blood tests will pick up on something that a normal urine test won't so who knows.

Hope you've all had a smashing weekend

xx

R0ckCh1c · 14/09/2014 22:42

Science - Welcome to the group! Smile

Koko & Science - Thanks for sharing your experiences Smile I'm still POAS mad at the mo, been doing twice a day (morning & when I get home from work around 5pm). They are still showing faint 2nd line. I know this is a negative result... But am hoping the line will get as dark as the other line when I am ovulating. It's hard to tell at the moment as my body/cycle has been a over the place! If I should be counting the one day of spotting on 4th Sept as a new cycle, my app tells me I should ov between today & next weekend. Otherwise my last normal 4day cycle was 5th Aug. Hopefully the line on ov strips gets dark one day this week! Smile

Hope you've all had a lovely weekend & hope we all receive some good news soon Grin xx

CherryPie3 · 14/09/2014 19:03

Welcome science :)

No I have done well to stay away from the tests so far.

Sorry I've been quiet, I work Saturdays and Sundays and they're very early starts... By the time it gets to 6/7pm I'm ready for bed myself!

Which is where I am now incidentally.

Goodnight girlios, I shall be a little chattier tomorrow hopefully :) xxx

flowerbombVR · 14/09/2014 15:06

Welcome Donna :) & thank you for the further information Orange xxx

flowerbombVR · 14/09/2014 15:04

Hi ladies
Hope you are all having a lovely Sunday afternoon x
Koko if Af does not arrive I think I will test Thursday! What do you think? Fx for your own bfp & for everyone waiting.
X

scienceteachergeek · 14/09/2014 13:18

Hi there guys

It's taken me aaaaaages to read your past 232 messages! I hoped R0ck you might like to hear my experiences of the OPK. This is our 2nd month ttc our first and I've used the OPK both months. My phone app tells me my fertile week and I start POAS everyday at 10am (you're not supposed to do it first thing in the morning because the hormone isn't made overnight). The line is weak until CD17 ish (for me anyway), then it's suddenly dark. When the line is as dark as the control line you should be ovulating.

We DTD every two days over the fertile week :)

You all sound very lovely...hope you don't mind me joining xxx

Cherry the last pic you posted looked like a BFP to me....you done any more tests?

Big hugs donna

Orangeisthenewbanana · 14/09/2014 12:29

Hello ladies.

Donna hope you're ok Thanks

Welcome flower! Fx for a bfp next week! I believe the first day of AF is CD1 to answer your question though.

CD8 here today. Going to start POAS from day 10 I think. My last two cycles have been 45 and then 38 days so not really expecting to ov yet. However when I got pg with DD, my dates matched up exactly with a normal 28 day cycle so equally don't want to risk missing it! Going to spend the next few months getting to grips with what my body's doing - or hopefully just getting upduffed!

Hope the sun is shining where you all are and that you're having a lovely day Smile

KokoLoko · 14/09/2014 12:09

Any news Donna? And welcome Flower! I'm due on Thursday, when are you thinking of testing?

R0ck, anything more on your opks? I've been peeing on them for near enough the whole year and still can't really work out a pattern to the 2nd line?? In fact, I'm so poas mad I'm still using them despite knowing I oved last week just in case I see anything to hint a pg, lol.

How's everyone else doing? Hoping for some BFPs soon Smile

flowerbombVR · 14/09/2014 11:10

Thanks cherry & Rock Smile
If bfn next week then I may start using the ovp!

Does cd begin 1st day after Af?

Thank yous again x

R0ckCh1c · 14/09/2014 10:40

Donna - Hope all went ok at the docs yesterday!!?? Thanks

Flower - Welcome to the group Smile

CherryPie3 · 14/09/2014 09:29

Hi flowerbomb :)
Welcome to our little thread.

CD = cycle day
Frer = first response early result (pregnancy test)

Fingers crossed for you!!! xx

flowerbombVR · 13/09/2014 17:23

Just read last posts

Love & hugs Donna Flowers

flowerbombVR · 13/09/2014 17:21

Literally just read the last posts
Love & hugs Donna Thanks

flowerbombVR · 13/09/2014 17:17

Hi ladies
Started ttc officially end of July when I got implant removed. Nothing yet! Af due weds so hopefully it doesn't I'm having slight cramps today though Hmm
I wanted to ask what cd & prer mean? Can anyone enlighten me?

Thanks Smile

CherryPie3 · 13/09/2014 16:47

Oh Donna, handholding here too. Hope everything is ok Flowers xx

KokoLoko · 13/09/2014 16:29

Hope everything's ok Donna Thanks

Orangeisthenewbanana · 13/09/2014 10:16

Handholding Donna. Really hope you're OK and thinking of you x Thanks Thanks

Donnakim · 13/09/2014 09:30

I have been quiet on here as I have continued to get BFNs but no AF. Yesterday I though AF had arrived, but this morning (TMI alert) I've been passing some big clots. Have just called DH to come home from work and we will be going in to the hospital as soon as he arrives. I don't think I have ever felt so scared.