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Conception

When's the best time to get pregnant? Use our interactive ovulation calculator to work out when you're most fertile and most likely to conceive.

Emergency bus for August! Penis dragons welcome, summer loving continued!

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MrsExtraOrdinary · 03/08/2014 20:49

Oh dear we've run out of space! Hopefully somebody lovely will copy the stats over Smile

Where you were ladies....

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Shetland · 07/08/2014 07:09

detective For me, that would mean a longer cycle of 29/30 days but I have had the odd cycle where I've just ov'd later.
If I were you I'd test when you would normally expect AF - if you get a positive you'll know it was late ov rather than a longer cycle.
If it's negative - well, it's back to guessing games!

KittyVonCatsington · 07/08/2014 07:08

Hi Detective This could go one of two ways: you ovulate today or tomorrow but your LP extend itself accordingly and you end up with a 29-30 day cycle or a BFP or the LP doesn't adjust and cycle ends 28 days as normal. 11 or 12 day LP is still considered normal and fine.

Or, you don't ovulate and you either have done or will (highly unlikely but always possible-can only check with temping) I'd still jump DH over the next few days inc. weekend if I were you!!
Chandlers So hope this is your month but still super glad you are now in with a decent chance unlike before

kurama where in God's name do you find these pics-love 'em!! Sorry you are in a waiting game. Don't freak out about being red though, I have read so many women's accounts of IB being red-it's meant the implantation is happening right then, rather than has happened. I hope this is it for you!

I on the other hand have been a bit silly...I'm on CD12 and don't normally start using OPKs until this day due to ovulating between CD18-20 usually, but I wish I did yesterday!

This morning my temp dipped a further .2 or so degrees and woke up with sharp stabby pains in right side. My cm is still dry but coupled with my sore boobs yesterday afternoon onwards, I could be gearing up or ovulating a full week early. Could the Soy Isoflavones be working their magic or just a weird side effect Hmm I know which I'd rather hope for and still used my DH to good effect regardless Grin

EnglishGirlsReturned · 07/08/2014 06:51

Detective not everyone has the magical 14 luteal phase. Most people it's somewhere between 11-14. Which means even with a 28 day cycle it's perfectly normal to ov at cd16. Or you could just be in for a longer cycle. Your lp generally won't change by more than a day or two from cycle to cycle. Wow I said cycle a lot there!
Fx for you chandlers!

TheDetective · 07/08/2014 06:23

I was just thinking it seems a bit of a late ovulation given my cycle lengths?

This mornings opk was a positive too but took longer than last nights line to show and isn't as dark, more equal to the control line.

Hooray for ovulation!

We dtd again oooops!

I'm trying to pinpoint ovulation because my last baby went to 20 days over due according to scan dates. But 17 days to my dates. If the same scenario occurs I'd like to know ovulation so I can be sure of my dates. So I will feel more confident to not accept induction of labour.

Grin
ChandlersFarang · 07/08/2014 05:11

Detective, are you concerned as this would mean your LP would only be 12 days? Do you know how long it is usually? I think that sounds about right (but excuse me if I'm missing something).

11DPO, no AF. Woke up with cramps again and assumed she'd turned up, but no! Have been doing some rampant googling on progesterone tablets, and it seems they can cause some cramping, so am revising my expectations down to no pregnancy but progesterone working as it should to hold off AF. Tomorrow morning I'll be 12DPO if still no sign so will POA FRER. Exciting! Have enjoyed the ride this cycle even if not upduffed. Meds are all doing what they should so I should just have the same 25% pregnancy chance each cycle now! Smile

TheDetective · 07/08/2014 00:40

I was just about to come and post moan for advice. I didn't get a positive opk last month. The closest I got was a line almost as dark as the control. But not quite.

I'm CD15 (as we are now after midnight). My cycles are 28 days with the odd 26/27 thrown in. Last month was 27. I have been POAS every time I wee for the last 5 days! At 9.15pm I did one which showed a faint line but not a positive. At midnight I got a definite positive (see pic!).

So it seems I'm going to ovulate around CD16? Is that right?

I'm confused. As I've never had a cycle longer than 28 days.

Will this cycle be longer? It seems silly but it's important to me to know a date of ovulation (or as close to it as I can) for reasons I CBA going in to Grin. Also. When can I POAS?! CD 25/26?

Luckily, we dtd an hour before my positive opk. And DP has agreed as soon as I get in from work tomorrow at 3pm we will do it again Grin.

Any advice oh wise ones?!

Emergency bus for August! Penis dragons welcome, summer loving continued!
Nordicmom · 06/08/2014 23:43

Don't give up yet could be imp bleed . I think mine was in hindsight 6/7dpo last cycle ...

kurama · 06/08/2014 23:28

and now its moved to proper red when wiping just now. sorry tmi. wtaf?! goes and hides in corner while head explodes.... if I ignore weird spotting 2 weeks ago its the start of a very late af. if I take weird spottimg as af. then it's very bloody early af or implantation bleeding. ... will have to see what tomoro bringsConfused Angry

kurama · 06/08/2014 22:06

Nordic sorry your having abad day. Sending virtual hugs and feel better soon.
Sorry if I missed replying to anyone. Very tired and hard to concentrate.
Just noticed I think a slight pink tinge when wiping and seem to have slight cramps down there. Was doing so well not symptom spotting up to now. Only 5/6dpo! ConfusedShockSmile

nutelladipper · 06/08/2014 22:04

Thanks guys. Feeling ok about it. I think I'll just crack on trying again! So I'll stick around if that's ok.
Good luck to everyone else this month.

MrsExtraOrdinary · 06/08/2014 21:49

Nordic I'm sorry you're feeling so down today. Sometimes a break does us all good. When I'm feeling crappy I try not to make any decisions, just let the day pass, in the hope tomorrow you feel a little stronger.

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kurama · 06/08/2014 21:40

mademoiselle I remember you from back then. im so sorry for your loss and that your back here. but happy your ready to try again.
welcome bobsy
congrats fairy Grin
welcome cockbollocks fab name!
lucie glad u got things sorted with dh and fx for you
hey mrsG fx
tickle so sorry your having a bad day and ur dh is being a twat
welcome nutella mmmmmm chocolate! u know the sods law in trying and not trying...sorry you got a bfn but it could still be too early
sorry af got youlp
fx blueberry. and sorry you feel crap
thanks for the stat update lucie

nothing from me so far, should be 5dpo. pains gettings worse with the weather and im hardly getting any sleep, so i cheered myself up today by washing some of the baby clothes i have Grin

For your viewing pleasure ladies! Wink

Katybear123 · 06/08/2014 21:22

Hi pinkz thanks for sharing I'm shooting for eod cd9- 21 just in case. Last month we dtd eod cd6-16 but af was still here till cd9 this time so had to start later. I'm hoping 9-21 should be enough

Nordicmom · 06/08/2014 21:21

Yes maybe last weeks cp mixed things up don't know if I'm up to this again since have had the same unfortunate result two cycles in a row . It's starting to get ridiculous in total numbers 13-14 early mc and cp . I'm tired of this emotional and physical roller coaster . I can't take having my hopes up and feeling pregnant time after time for it just to end in misery again . I wish DH agreed with me about surrogacy .
I can't give stats until I see when I ov and decide if I'm doing this this cycle or not . Maybe I need a break. Feel tearful and so fed up today .

Pikz · 06/08/2014 21:14

Breathless I have a cbfm and try and dtd every other day from cd9-20 or as much as we can with a toddler

Good luck everyone will keep an eye out

Shetland · 06/08/2014 21:12

Fingers crossed for September pikz - at least the limbo is ended, albeit not the way we wanted.

toobreathless i'm cd22 of 29/30 so I should test Wednesday next week at the earliest - more likely to be Monday though Grin I'm planning on a first response/superdrug own for then which will be a waste, obviously and then I'll crack open my eBay cheapies. I have no willpower and no patience.

cd7 does seem pretty early nordic - nice that you're getting a warning though, rather than straight to solid - perhaps this is your month?!

MrsExtraOrdinary · 06/08/2014 21:02

I'm sorry Pikz! I really hope September is your month Smile

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Nordicmom · 06/08/2014 21:02

Congrats fairy !
So the odd cycle continues. Now have flashing smiley on cd7 which is a week early for me . Will be interesting to see when it turns solid ... For the last few months haven't had any flashing just straight from blank to a solid. I've looked at my calendar and for this year have had pretty regular 26/27 d cycles and usually ov around 12-14 d in so this is very early ?!

toobreathless · 06/08/2014 21:01

I know what you mean pikz the limbo can be awful can't it. Can I be cheeky and ask if you have strategy so to speak? I don't and just vaguely thinking of different approaches so to speak.

Katybear123 · 06/08/2014 20:54

Hi lovely ladies. Just checking in, cd11 here 1 app says I'm in my fertile window the other says it starts in 2 days so we plan on dtd 2 night to keep up eod. Hoping to god this works. Poor hubbie having a horrid time in new job so trying to help him out with stuff, my job pretty pants to right. Trying not to stress as know it's no gd for conception.
Congrats fairy, and keeping all crossed for chandlers and blue bury. Chandlers I think it was u that said u stopped dtd to early what cd should u go to does anyone know?

I only have cm to go by, my ff app and ov app and 2 cycles since coming off the pill one 51 days and 1 25 days so not that helpful..

Pikz · 06/08/2014 20:52

Too breathless crossing fingers for you

To be honest after loads of v faint lines and a silly long cycle for me usually max 28-30 so 34 has just left me feeling like I just wanted AF so I could start again and stop feeling awful!

toobreathless · 06/08/2014 20:45

PIkZ cross post! Damm those white trouseurs, hope you are ok.

toobreathless · 06/08/2014 20:43

Popping in....

Yay fairey excellent news.

I'm CD 24 now, but think I have long cycle (32 days??) I'm basing that on the terribly unscientific fact that both my pregnancies have had my due date put back by 5 days at the 12 week scan. I've never actually kept track.

No symptoms other than sore boobs and bloating but I'm giving up breastfeeding this week so I I think that's why. It would practically be an immaculate conception anyway having DTD a grand total of three times the whole cycle.

nutella sorry to hear about the BFN, hope you are feeling ok.

Shetland'when are you planning to test?

Pikz · 06/08/2014 20:42

Well Mrs E the white trouser star jumps worked. I'm off to September after a silly 34 day cycle!

Shetland · 06/08/2014 20:27

I'm seriously having to resist the urge to poas - I'm 7dpo. Idiot Grin