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April TTC girls onwards to July! BFP's galore!

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Cupcake92 · 26/06/2014 10:59

Following in from our previous thread!
Hopefully this thread is as successful as our last with a big BFP bonanza!

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Ducky23 · 05/07/2014 23:16

Omg omg omg cupcake!!! I get the clothes washed on time thing too!!! But he can't manage to put his dirtys in the washing basket! I have to hunt them out!!!

Our dh's should marry each other Grin

Cupcake92 · 05/07/2014 23:02

Omg Ducky.... Is ur DH my DH???
That sounds exactly like mine!!!!
I do everything in the house whilst he sits there on his arse watching tv! And then shouts at me that DS is breaking something but won't actually go sort him out himself. I have to stop what I'm doing to come back into the lounge to sort him.
N DH moans if his clothes aren't washed "on time"

Ducky I honestly think I've found my DH's twin lol !!

N lulu I'm so sorry about ur worrying day Thanks really hope u feel okay soon. Thanks

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Ducky23 · 05/07/2014 22:43

And then there's his excessive drinking Hmm

But on a happier note.... I think I woke up feeling some small movements last night when I was waking up for my 5th wee!!

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Ducky23 · 05/07/2014 22:42

Tbh lulu I don't think he cares.

He does have a lot on at the moment but so do I, and I am always asking about how he is doing and he never asks me.

I'm tierd all the time and I have to do all the housework while he sits and watches movies and then moans at me for wanting to go to bed.

Today he has just flipped at me for anythig, I had to put the hot water on to mop the floor and he comes in and starts going why the hell is this on blah blah blah and went mad at me, even though he doesn't pay/put towards any of the bills Hmm

Sorry for ranting but am feeling a bit fed up

LuluJakey1 · 05/07/2014 22:35

Oh Ducky! Is it that bad? Does he know how much he is upsetting you with his behaviour?

Ducky23 · 05/07/2014 22:32

I don't know lulu Hmm but if I'm being completely honest if he continues with his current behaviour we won't be together much longer Sad

LuluJakey1 · 05/07/2014 22:27

Bit like the way I have gone on with DH!

Your DH always gets ratty about visits to his mother doesn't he? I remember he had a right huff last time, went by himself and came back in a really good mood with your favourite sweets. Do you think it is that again that has had him being moody?

Ducky23 · 05/07/2014 22:14

Ahh lulu maybe give him a text?

He just has hardly spoke to me for the past two days, and he tried to blackmail me into going mil tomorrow even Though I have plans and he knew I have had plans for the past few weeks. He decides to drop mil visit on me about n hour ago and then has gone in a massive strop with me for saying no. The only reason he wants me to go is cus he doesn't want to go himself!

Hope everyone is having a good weekend Smile

LuluJakey1 · 05/07/2014 22:08

You're right Ducky super-worrying. I thought I had pains as well but it turned out to be wind!

Why do you think DH doesn't even like you? I'm sure he does! What's he doing? Or not?

DH hasn't rang or texted- my fault. I spoke to MIL yesterday and she said she would tell him to give me a bit of space this weekend.

iamdivergent · 05/07/2014 21:38

fx all ok lulu. They put you through it xx

Ducky23 · 05/07/2014 21:32

Lulu I'm sure they know what they're talking about Thanks it seems like it's common in pregnancy but still super worrying non the less.

I'm a bit fed up ATM Hmm feel like DH doesn't even like me anymore.

LuluJakey1 · 05/07/2014 21:04

Have just been to loo and there was some more. Same stuff.
Rang hospital who said not to worry.
Shit, shit, shit!

The Dr this afternoon said the uterus has a hugely increased blood supply during this stage of pregnancy and tiny blood vessels can burst because of the pressure on them and it is really common.

But now I am panicking again.

poppet85 · 05/07/2014 18:50

tori you put me to shame !! We woke up early so went for an amazing breakfast came back and I feel asleep on the sofa pretty much been here all day reading ! I feel so lazy but I am so tired !!

Ducky23 · 05/07/2014 18:48

Must have been so scary for you lulu ThanksThanksThanks but glad they have confirmed everything is ok. From reading threads etc it does sound like bleeding is very common Confused good that it's stopped now.

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LuluJakey1 · 05/07/2014 17:55

cupcake I don't have any family and we have not told anyone yet- except PIL and my boss.

I am fine now. Have stopped panicking. Will watch a DVD later on.

LuluJakey1 · 05/07/2014 17:53

I have calmed down. Went to Saisbury's 'cos we needed cat food.

Saw ex and remembered why I am so glad he is ex.
Also saw ex's ex - not with him- with her mum and her daughter. Daughter looked terrible - as if she is an alcoholic or drug addict. Really terrible.

I avoided them all!

No more bleeding when I got home.

I will tell DH when he comes back tomorrow night. He is supposed to be taking his dad and SIL out again tomorrow to the cycling then having Sunday dinner at home with grandmas invited round. I don't want to spoil that and I think I am OK. He'll be annoyed when he gets back home and finds out- but they have had this planned for yonks. If I tell him and say I am fine he will come back regardless straightaway and I don't think that is fair on FIL and grandmas.

Thanks for the kind words, I did feel very alone.

poppet85 · 05/07/2014 17:19

Aw lulu that sounds so scary . Glad things are bit better now .I agree you should call dh he will want to know xx

Bearsinmotion · 05/07/2014 16:58

lulu, you should call DH, don't worry about the moods! If you're worried I'm sure he'd rather be with you.

Cupcake92 · 05/07/2014 16:47

That's great Kitkat!

Aw lulu don't worry! At least uve had a scan to check alls okay. Is there anyone that could come keep u company for a bit? I'm RH- too and had those anti D injections, they sting a lot! But I'm glad the hospital said all was okay. Bleeding can be common, just rest up this weekend and take it easy. I'd call DH and tell him but say ur okay and not to worry.
Hope everything okay Thanks

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LuluJakey1 · 05/07/2014 16:25

I have had some bleeding this morning - brownish pinky stuff. I did not know what to do. No pain, did not get worse. More bloody discharge than actual bleeding.(sorry if TMI)

DH at parents for weekend and I did not want to ring him because he would just have come back and it's 130 miles and I have been so horrible.

In the end I rang the hospital and they said to go up but not to worry. I am RH-. I had a scan and everything looked fine. They have given me an injection of Anti D and kept me until just now. It seems to have stopped.

I have got a taxi home and tbh just so want DH to be here but can't bring myself to ring because I was so pleased to see him go and have some time to myself and I know he wanted to see his family. FIL has a chronic health condition and DH worries about him. He was taking him to the Tour De France with SIL.

I am fine but just can't get it off my mind and am scared it suddenly gets worse and I MC.

He will be angry if I don't ring, I know but I don't want to panic him either. He could come home and just watch me being totally normal. I feel fine just scared.

This is where being a bitch over the last few days has got me! I hate these moods.

Ducky23 · 05/07/2014 13:48

Great news kitkat Grin

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poppet85 · 05/07/2014 13:05

Ah thats great kitkat what a lovely saturday !!!

kitkatkaty87 · 05/07/2014 12:45

Glad to hear that tori. The sickness must be a good sign I would think. That is how I started feeling about a weekand a half ago so maybe you are just earlier than you thought. I had my scan this morning and we saw the heartbeat and it measured about 7 weeks and 5 days so my dates are roughly right.
Feeling a bit happier just nauseous all the time still!

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