Help protect children from gaming harms.

Take our survey

Please or to access all these features

Conception

When's the best time to get pregnant? Use our interactive ovulation calculator to work out when you're most fertile and most likely to conceive.

April TTC girls onwards to July! BFP's galore!

962 replies

Cupcake92 · 26/06/2014 10:59

Following in from our previous thread!
Hopefully this thread is as successful as our last with a big BFP bonanza!

OP posts:
Thread gallery
6
WineNotOclock · 10/07/2014 22:18

Hello everyone,

Can I please join your group? I had a quick look on your threads and you all sound lovely, and very supportive of each other and basically, just what I'm looking for Smile

In a nutshell, I'm 29, ttc#2 for 8 months. I have a ds who is 2.9

#1 happened so quickly i'm only really learning about the best ways to conceive as each unsuccessful month goes by.

I had a chemical pregnancy 2 cycles ago, which was shit, but also gave a bit of relief as it indicates sperm is meeting egg! I was starting to worry that something was amiss. Although I am very close to making a doctors appointment Sad

So, at the moment I am coming towards the end of my 2ww. AF is due on the 13th, and the way I am feeling now I am going to be feeling pretty depressed as we gave it a good go this month.

I don't feel any symptoms, the only thing different is that my boobs aren't sore at all when usually they would be very heavy by now. But that is a lack of a symptom and I'm pretty certain your boobs are supposed to be even more painful than normal. So I am going to put it down to just another game my delightful body is putting me through.

I did take a hpt this morning and it was a BFN, but I think i ovulate late going by my CM so I am clutching straws hoping that I don't have a high enough level of hormones yet. I'm a kidder for sure!

On a personal level, this. is. shit. Friends I met when I had my first are either pregnant or have had their second child. It is only my eggs that are left sitting on the shelf. I hate counting down the months as I want to enjoy my ds but it has become all I secretly think of. I don't want a large age gap between siblings but looks like it is heading this way.

Why am I not getting pregnant?

Thank you for reading this, it is very long - my apologies and kudos if you get all the way here Thanks

Ducky23 · 10/07/2014 21:51

How do you keep it secret?! If be rubbish at hiding it! Grin

Cupcake92 · 10/07/2014 21:46

(Non alcoholic drink maybe)

OP posts:
Cupcake92 · 10/07/2014 21:45

That's sounds lovely idea tori!
I was going to book a log cabin with the hot tubs but turns out there's none near by ! So it's going to be a nice meal out, drinks and stay at a nice local hotel :)
DS will be at my mothers house be nice to get a hotel with a huge king or queen size bed!!!!

OP posts:
ToriB34 · 10/07/2014 21:38

This reply has been deleted

Message withdrawn at poster's request.

Cupcake92 · 10/07/2014 21:17

Thanks :) I have my fx too. N honestly tori I'm rele not gonna test early this time at all, I just cba. N I'm glad I've got DH bday to organise to distract me. But I'm gonna wait till the 26th which is the day AF is due. So far AF has been arriving early these past 2 months. So 26th should be a good time to test.
Ducky, u need a break. Get away for a bit and relax. Stress is never good pregnant or not. Thanks

OP posts:
poppet85 · 10/07/2014 21:05

tori your amazing ! Beautiful example of how strong and supportive women are !! I believe good things always ,eventually come out of bad and sounds that you and dh are stronger than ever ! Stay on this board when your ready we want to hear about your bfp !!

ToriB34 · 10/07/2014 20:54

This reply has been deleted

Message withdrawn at poster's request.

Ducky23 · 10/07/2014 20:39

Cupcake really have my fingers crossed for you.

I keep becoming randomly ill, really bad. The hosp have said I'm having panic attacks Hmm think it's cus of all this stuff with DH ontop of being stressed anyway Sad

Cupcake92 · 10/07/2014 20:31

As bless Ducky :) that's lovely to hear!

I'm hating the tww already. I'm not going to test till Saturday 26th. As that'll be late enough n DH bday is on the Monday so would be nice to surprise him then. I just need to get a bfp lol!

OP posts:
Cupcake92 · 10/07/2014 20:29

Tori ur such an incredible person! Want too give u a big hug! :)

OP posts:
Ducky23 · 10/07/2014 20:28

Course you should stay tori Smile hope everything goes as well as it can on Saturday. Is DH doing ok? ThanksThanks

I had the hospital today to listen to the heartbeat for the first time. This baby is very active and was playing hide and seek. Every time the mw got it, it would wriggle away and hide somewhere else Smile

ToriB34 · 10/07/2014 19:56

This reply has been deleted

Message withdrawn at poster's request.

poppet85 · 10/07/2014 19:35

I know its just too awful reminds you to take each day as it comes

kitkatkaty87 · 10/07/2014 19:21

Wondering how tori is doing this evening. Hope she's able to get some sort of closure over the next few days.xx

poppet85 · 10/07/2014 19:02

Thats beautiful cupcake ! What a rollercoaster this all is !!

Cupcake92 · 10/07/2014 12:28

"Sweet Little Flower of Heavenly birth, you were too fair to bloom on earth"

OP posts:
Ducky23 · 10/07/2014 12:22

Tori so sorry Thanks I understand how heartbreaking it is at any stage SadThanksThanks

Lulu, I don't know how he's taken it, he's very very hard to read Hmm just really hope he doesn't go silly and get wasted all the time Confused

poppet85 · 10/07/2014 12:02

tori glad to hear dh is around to support . I am so sorry its my biggest fear so I just cant imagine how your feeling

KatoPotato · 10/07/2014 11:48

Oh Tori! I am so utterly sorry for you and DH. Sending you all the love I can but there are dedicated boards here that will be able to offer you a lot more understanding maybe?

Really don't know what to say, but you'll be okay, promise x

steph1204 · 10/07/2014 11:20

I'm so sorry for you Tori!!
Our conception day are very close and I know I might face the same situation next wednesday at my second scan, I totally understand you and still hope you will have some good news at the epu. We're all with you, keep us posted!

ToriB34 · 10/07/2014 11:15

This reply has been deleted

Message withdrawn at poster's request.

kitkatkaty87 · 10/07/2014 10:26

So sorry to hear this Tori. how are you holding up and partner?

I dont know what to say to make you feel any better, except that you have done all you can for a healthy pregnancy, little bean was obviously meant for a better place this time.
Let us know how you get on, and know we are all here for you if you need to chat and let off steam.
xx

Cupcake92 · 10/07/2014 08:01

I mean either way we have dtd so have covered it but it's nice to know sometimes haha :p
Last month I had ewcm on only one day so I knew exactly when I Ov'd. But this month 3 days if ewcm! Crazy! Oh well I'll just say I'm about 1-2 DPO.

OP posts:
Me624 · 10/07/2014 07:58

cupcake I think I posted on here once before saying that there does not appear to be any logic or pattern to my cm! Useless for me to try and predict that way.