All aboard for a positive September PART TWO

Just wanted to say no joy here this month. See you in the October thread later.

Evening ladies
D2bem- thanks for the congrats about my engagement- still v happy will be a Mrs and never thought I'd do it..
Pmsl at your ' well sit on it then' dh remark - bloody men eh?

My dp- no sorry DF- is on nights at the mo- and we're having squeeze the 'action' into a very small time frame after his sleep, meals, toliet- sorry- mess on the comp, mess in the garden...aaarrggghhh
I said to him tonight, jokingly, 'if we don't dtd b4 you go to work i shall deprive you for 10 days'- i was joking but omg did he get worried, i had to apologise and say i'd never do that etc...then we had serious chat about ttc and like you d2bem i said ' there's a week where we have to just get to it- no fuss if we realy want this'. He said 'I want it more than anything', so we're sorted now.

What a carry on...

Is there one of your bum on there???!!!!

mrsmcjnr - i have just been able to get your wedding pics up it looks like you had such a beautiful day you lucky thing!

have a good weekend everyone i shant be on much if any as we have a friend rom wales down staying with us.

Have a great weekend everyone. Still no internet at home so that's all from me until Monday!

we always have to fit in with the blokes dont we..they can never fit in with us..MEN!

LOL D2BM. DH's can be so romantic sometimes

Luckily when DH comes home from being away for 2 weeks he's well up for it. Now I just have to time my OV for his homecoming and we'll be well away

mrsmcjnr - i know i do too i try to not make it sound like i want it just for them reasons but the truth is from about cd12-19 i actually do only want sex purely for baby making

i never thought of it like that being on the pill you spend so long trying to avoid pregnancy and then when you want to get pregnant you need a while to adjust

They just don't like feeling like they are being used do they!? I try to remind DH that he wants this baby too and that as far as the baby making is concerned, he only has fun jobs to do but he becomes squimish I think at the magnitude of what those fun things could lead to, I suppose after years of avoiding it, it takes some time for the mind set to change! I'm already worrying about how I am going to make sure we BD every day next week to give us the best chance this month!!

i only ever get the "im too tired" but he usually makes up for it in the morning but then im too tired lol
how long have you been trying?

D2BM - that sounds like the kind of response I'd get from my dp too!
Do you know, though, he is normally constantly up for some action, but at the moment he seems to have either a headache, or feel sick or be really tired.....should I be worried

coggy - thats great news about lp - i willkeep all fingers and toes crossed for you this month.

mrsmcjnr - thanks for the tip of altering charts im such a dumb blonde didnt even think of that lol

andi - huge congrats on your engagement!!!

i know what you mean when you say alterior motive spoiling the bravado..but unfortunately you dont get a baby any other way.
i am cd15 today still not ov'd but said to dp last night we should really squeeze some action in just incase...his reply "you can sit on it if you want"
such a romantic......

PMSL Andi at your description!

ps - talk later "hairy bums" back...lol must get kettle on and chivvy him to work

Mrsmc- ikwym re our partners and the sex marathon we are all on- my dp- (or should that be df(fiance) now) is pleased with the increased activity but I know the science part really does not do it for him and s'times it peeves me that i KNOW all this stuff and he just has to produce- stspk- and is , occasionally, tired.....Still we all have our own ways of deaing with this ttc time and mine is through knowledge etc...his is through a sublime belief that all will be well in the end.

Your cats sound deeelish....such personalities they have don't they?
x

Oh Andi, meant to say, I have 3 furry pussy cat babies too! All very spoilt, I have Tia, an enormous black with beautiful green eyes and plenty to say. She is 8 1/2 and I've had her for 8 years and we've been though a lot together, totally adore her!

Then there are the babies, Diva and Demi - 1 year old tortie sisters. Diva is a real socialite with one black leg (like a long glove) and black sunglasses and Demi is very sleepy looking and loves cuddles! So that's my feline gang. They all get on really well and are currently curled up in a ball together under the table

Hi Andi re poor exhausted DH2B - remind him that most men would kill to have such an attentive fiancee! I try to tell DH that he is lucky to have a frisky wife but I think the alterior motive is spoiling the bravado he would otherwise feel!!

Hi ladies - I agree Mrsmc- I've only just started temping mid-ish month and its giving me a good education for next month..

How is everyone today?

I am cd17 and got another pos on the poas ov doo-dahs..so there'll be more extra- curricula activities tonight...poor dp- he's on nights and is exhausted....but hey ho

Morning ladies!

Coggy - that does sound a high coverline but if it is .1 above the highest temp of the last 6 days, it should be right shouldn't it?. I still don't have a coverline on my chart this cycle. Fingers crossed that the Clomid gets you an implantation this month

JL - let's hope AF never arrives

Desperate - finally someone with low temps like me!! Don't scrap the charts, just change the figures so that you can chart on them i.e. 36 becomes 35, 37 becomes 36 etc. Good luck with it! I started mid-cycle the first month and it was worth it even for half the info!

Go girl!!
So you should.

My LP has been slightly lengthened to 10dpo and then 11dpo for the past two months because I'm taking clomid and that's a side effect.
It worked last time I took it but I'm on my last 'official' cycle so fingers crossed eh?!

i will because thinking about it just lots of little things have annoyed me like the waiter when he came to take our order for pudding instead of saying what can i get you he said "yup"
infact im not gonna just accept a sorry from them i want some compo because its not acceptable

Good for you desperate. Give 'em hell!

coggy - sorry to hear about your short lp - is there anything that you can take to lenghten it? mrsmcjnr is taking b6 this month i wonder if thats worth a try? nothings ever simple in life is it!

i printed some charts off of the net last night for temping so thought i would give it a whirl even though i am in the middle of a cycle theres no harm in practice. well when i woke this morning my temp was 35.2 and graph starts at 36.1 so i have scrapped the 6 sheets i printed off

as for our night away - i shall be writing a letter this weekend to the head office and if we do get some sort of credit back i shall NOT be returning to that hotel i shall ask for another in the chain.