The Elderberry Pavlovas are tooling up and making plans to bust out of this joint! Evacuation by helicopter by end of September, no berry left behind!

Where is it barking?

lumen great news! X

ps guys have you seen the sense about science thread has started posting answers

Feather I had v similar happen to me. So glad everything seemed ok on the scan.
Barking just sending hugs x

that sounds like good news lumen! be thinking of you and win tomorrow

happy hug for you. damn nice weather!

Just wanted to let you know we got 10 eggs, will find out tomorrow how many fertilised. Have been asleep all day and going back to sleep now, those sedation drugs have really knocked it out of me. Sorry for no personals, will do better tomorrow. Night all!

feather glad to hear all is well. Get those feet up and take it easy.

barking I hope you can also manage to take it easy. Take the time you need and do what is best for you and no one else.

spare hope your friend was ok.

lumen how did you get on?

Just off for another acu session, hoping it kicks my body into doing what it should!

Barking just get yourself signed off on the sick. You've absolutely nothing to lose and you don't owe them anything. Go back for the last week if you'd like to say goodbye to your pupils and finish things properly, but I'd stay away until then. You need to rest up!

God barking - that's not even just being a shit boss, that's being a shit human being! You must have the patience of a saint, I think I'd have just left after the day you've had and not gone back. Hope tomorrow is easier.

feather just beyond thrilled that all is well! Get thee to a deckchair!

feather so pleased it was good news take it easy!

barking your head sounds like an arse! I would be sorely tempted to get signed off and leave them to it. So sorry it's all so shit right now x

barking your head sounds like an absolute douche bag. People really do show their true colours when they don't have vested interests in someone or something anymore. Just keep your eyes in the prize: a shiny new job in a months time. I think - and I know nice said this before - you are being incredibly brave and dealing with everything with such grace. Do make sure you look after yourself and that you and your oh make time to do lovely things together etc. xxx

Cross post. Brilliant news Feather. Delighted for you! Please make sure you also take it easy.

Oh Barking I'm so sorry. Please don't go back to work until you are ready, both mentally and physically. I know school can be brilliant at keeping you busy and helping to take your mind off things but its also a complete nightmare if you need a moment to yourself. Please rest up and take it easy. Thoughts are with you

thank goodness feather. delighted for you! box set summer it is then!

sorry about your tough day barking

barking do you think you should take some time off? Chill, watch crap telly etc? It's sounds a lot to be going through at work. Thinking of you.

Sorry it's taken a while to update. Battery died on my phone and just got home from the hosp. All seems to be fine - heart beat in place, but they can't explain the bleeding and said to take it v easy and if it he's any heavier to go back in. Relieved and somehow calmer than I was before the bleeding even happened. Thanks all for your support. Xxx

lumen hope all went ok?

win will be thinking of you and sending Berrie power tomorrow.

Thanks otters and rain

Hi everyone , nice new thread!

Just popping in to send good vibes to feather - thinking of you lovely.

Otters, 32, ttc since March 2012, BFP Sep 2013, MMC Nov 2013, BFP April 2014, MC May 2014, 11th round Clomid, IVF waiting list: t-12 months.

Ooh spare - you are a good friend! I can imagine she must be quite distraught not to have her DH there.

Good luck feather - thinking of you now

Hello everyone. New thread, new commitment from me
(sparechange, 32 3/4, TTC since Dec 12, DH has low morphology, starting IVF mid-aug on short protocol)

Barking still sending hugs your way. Hope today has been easier than the weekend
funky Congrats!
lumen How did it go today?
everyone else Hello!

I'm leaving work early today to collect my best mate from her 3rd transfer because her husband had rearranged his diary on Friday, expecting the transfer to be then, only for them to move it to day. Think this is going to be an emotional afternoon...

Hi all
How is everyone today?

Barking - ooh renos! You can come do mine.
Bushy - I think 3d scans can be a bit freaky looking.
Feather - I hope you get your scan soon. Peace of mind and all.
Lumen - ginormous overies? I keep imagining a special support cushion for them.
Funky - hooray! Fab news.
Nolly - i always manage to find a 2nd book shop in every town. My best find has been an English one in a small Moroccan town. Can't go past a bookshop.
Beaky - I feel your pain. It seems like 2014 is the year for (other peoples) babies. I know 13 pregnant people.

I'm sure I've missed people butnimhopr you are all well.

Not much to report here. Skanky sister is having a termination. Much better in the long run. For a moment though I bought we might get her child. Better to terminate though then end up possibly disabled through fetal alcohol syndrome etc

Start the first round of everything in three weeks. Bit nervous I will admit.

Morning everyone.

feather good luck for your scan. Really hoping that everything is ok.

lumen good luck with egg collection.Hoping for a good clutch of eggs for you!

beaky have you got that pitchfork handy?! Just looked at Facebook and an old flatmate's baby shower was on there. I have pretty much lost touch with her but it still surprised and upset me to see it. The number of people I know without children is ever dwindling, even the unexpected ones are pg...

rp after renovating a whole house I would happily never do diy again! barking it will absorb all your time though so probably a good thing to do to keep you busy and your mind off things. Hope work goes ok today, this is such a tough time but you're doing really well.

Hi hb hope you managed to have a good week off and a lovely birthday. There was a good post on the catching rainbows blog recently about progressing through emotions. Worth a read.

happy it's hard isn't it. I gave our local carnival a wide berth yesterday as I couldn't face being around lots of children and families.

Sounds like a lovely day rosie! I need to get active as I've done nothing for 2 weeks since my lap.

Waves to everyone else!