Thanks everyone. i love reading peoples stats so here goes:
Went on hol, drank, smoked, didn't really think too much about ttc, stayed away from phone/google/mumsnet.
Forgot to take vits, supplements, cough syrup.
Got up straight after sex, no soft cups.
Pos opk sun, dtd fri/sun.
Spent hours and hours and hours researching ivf.
I'm on my last month of clomid & last 2 months been taking 100mg b6 & using natural progesterone cream which I think may have made the difference.
This is after 20months of being a fanatical ttc'er & doing everything & anything that might help.
Really had given up hope. This is so annoying but it must have been because I was more relaxed.