April TTC girls heading for June BFP bonanza!!!

Congratulations macmissy! How did he do it? How exciting!

Morning lovelies!

So, I have finally found you - you lot have been busy!

I got AF whilst away the bitch - but I am happy because on our first day of holiday I GOT ENGAGED!!! So so chuffed about that (if you couldn't guess)

I have decided that this month I am not going to use OPK's and just go with it. Based on my AF this month I don't think I had one last month (and my usual AF) so I am just going to 'go with it' and see what happens. We normally DTD every day so if it doesn't happen then so be it. See what happens this month & I am going to DTD every other day as a definite but around my birthday I think it will be every day. Fingers crossed

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Macmissy, 33, ttc #1, cycle 3, BFP due 4th July

So, what have I missed?

xx

I'm only 3 dpo ducky, and that's a very rough estimate - I'm only on cycle 2 and cycle 1 was 37 days so I'm just sort of assuming that cycle 2 will be as well. Before I was on the pill I was never exact though - used to range from 32-38ish days. Too early for symptom spotting I think ... will just try to keep busy and wait at least until AF is a day late before I POAS!

Hahahahahahaa me :,) sperm thief!!!

How many dpo are you?

popple my DH last night accused me of "only wanting him for his sperm"! It was in jest but I think when you're on the dtd marathon everyone starts to feel like that! I'm on the 2ww now and it's kind of a relief not to feel the pressure of having to dtd every other day!

cupcake of course you should be here - loads of us waiting for our bfps. Chin up!

Wishing you good luck bears xxx

Cupcake I get it, I totally get it! I looked at my app and saw two lonely love hearts in June (dtd) and only one in my fertile window. Don't lose heart, it's early days, it really is x

cupcake course you should be here . I got to the point were I was begging dh for a rabbit because I thought we would never have children !! I want to rush round all my friends and tell them "it takes longer than you think dont wait!" . You've been through loads this month you've got a new house and a little person to look after , I dont know how you've managed to dtd at all !!

Awwww bless

Well cb have a high success rate don't they? Just keep at it. It will happen

Thanks Ducky :)
I've just woke up in one of those moods.
And DS has just learnt to crawl and made me think he's growing up fast! He needs a little brother or sister to play with! So we brought the kitten haha he keeps crawling after him. It is the cutest little thing tho :)

True it only takes the one, not hoping this month tho. I got a message from the clear blue trial so If it doesn't happen this month then next month I've got lots of free stuff to try!

Cupcake of course you should be here!!! There's plenty still waiting for their BFP's and everyone on here WILL get their BFP

I think it's very easy to have down days when TTC but were all here to support you you have had a stressful month with moving etc.

Just remember, it only takes that once

Stay stay stay!!!

And a kitten

Found u. Not sure I should be in this thread.
I don't have my bfp :(
I'm 3dpo
Dtd 2 times, that's it. So I'm not hoping at all. Don't feel it will happen for us, so we brought a kitten yesterday.
I officially hate ttc :( it's awful. People get pregnant by mistake, condom breaks , pregnant. Missed a pill, pregnant.
But when ur ttc doing things to actually increase the chances.... Not pregnant. :(
Sorry just having a down day. Just really want it to happen and never thought it would take this long :/

popple I know how you feel . I ruled out a whole month because dh had a friend staying the whole time around I was ov and dh was out too giddy with excitment his friend was staying and they went out loads . I was SO annoyed on the verge of tears with frustration!!! But after that month the penny dropped and he realised it wouldnt happen unless we took the targetted approach !!
I think guys just think you have sex and boom baby !! And it must be difficult to be told they have to perform !!
I am sure he realises now popple which will help baby to be made !!

Aww sorry Popple how did DH react? Mine was shocked as he thought we just DTD any day and bam! You may find that he gets into aswell?

Good luck bears! And welcome karate! Looks like we've got lots of BFPs due towards the end of June (mine's 26th).

Feeling a bit teary at the moment for no real reason... Have been trying really hard not to put pressure on DH by not telling him when I'm ovulating (got solid smiley this morning although could have been yesterday as it's the first ov test I've done this month!) However it means I get really frustrated when he doesn't get the hint to 'get an early night' etc. So last night (after eventually DTD) I ended up being honest with him and I think he felt a bit like I tricked him into thinking that I wanted to DTD when actually it was just a means to an end.

I explained that for a few days each month it will probably feel a bit like that but not the rest of the time! And that we're TTC and it's normal to feel a bit like that... Argh.

It's fine now but am just feeling a little down. I'll get over it!

Oh good luck bears !! Let us know how it goes !!

Good luck for the interview and tww bears!!!

Are you going to book one kitkat?

Ooh good luck bears. Distraction is good. It will make it go quicker!

Thanks ducky I don't know why but I keep worrying about it!
We are also going to tell our parents at 7 and a half weeks as it will be when we get to see everyone.
I've just looked and an early scan is 75 pounds at my hospital. I am tempted still