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The May bus continues for those who regularly check for their Cervical Lucas, take frolic acid, shout SYMPTOMS, stock up on more BastardSticks and just want to be upduffed by the green penis dragon!!

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KittyVonCatsington · 12/05/2014 20:46

We needed a new thread already!!

Old thread is here

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Treaclepie19 · 19/05/2014 20:49

So sorry tooth, look after yourself xxx

toothachereturns · 19/05/2014 20:46

Thank you ladies. x

MissMrsMummy · 19/05/2014 20:46

So sorry tooth but glad to read you are letting yourself be emotional today and start again tomorrow. Take longer if you need it though Thanks

KittyVonCatsington · 19/05/2014 20:41

Please do have a cry and let yourself wallow. At least for a little while. I know you will be desperate to get back what you lost as quickly as possibly, as that is how I felt. I also went through stages of feeling hopeful and determined, to feeling panicky, to feeling distraught. Wonderful posters, like English, we're a great source of comfort. I hope we can be to you too.

As English said, count this as CD1 but really, you don't know when your HCG levels will drop and until then, you won't ovulate. You may go back to normal in terms of when you ovulate, plenty do. You may even be super fertile now and conceive straight away. You might not. I'm still waiting to ovulate and I miscarried end of Feb. Because of this, you will be on an emotional rollercoaster so you need to give yourself some tlc. Tonight, get yourself some hot chocolate, maybe a warm bubble bath and snuggle up to DH. A big virtual hug tooth

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EnglishGirlsReturned · 19/05/2014 20:41

Its always the way! Within a week of my mc i had 3 friends announce their very early pregnancies! Sad. Enjoy your wine and gets some tlc from dh

toothachereturns · 19/05/2014 20:17

wow... I must really need Wine judging by the number of posts there!Hmm

toothachereturns · 19/05/2014 20:17

Thanks english. Why is EVERYONE on tv tonight pregnant? Confused

I need Wine

toothachereturns · 19/05/2014 20:15

Thanks english. Why is EVERYONE on tv tonight pregnant?

I need Wine

toothachereturns · 19/05/2014 20:14

Thanks english. Why is EVERYONE on tv tonight pregnant?

I need Wine

EnglishGirlsReturned · 19/05/2014 20:11

Tooth, when I had my mc I counted the first day of bleeding as cd 1. Some people ovulated very soon after the bleeding stops, others (like me don't at all). Try to just rest up for now and take it easy. It does get easier, I promise

toothachereturns · 19/05/2014 20:02

Still bleeding... not spotting.
How quickly will my body return to normal I.e. do I treat this as cd1?
I've joined the June bus.

Does that sound callous? i'm utterly devastated. Can't stop crying and want to try to look ahead rather than wallow. I hate wallowing. I will shed my tears today and get on with things tomorrow.
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spinningirl10 · 19/05/2014 18:34

Silverine, so sorry to hear about your relative Thanks

Tooth, sad news, so sorryThanks

victoria401 · 19/05/2014 17:52

So sorry tooth :-( thinking of you x

toothachereturns · 19/05/2014 16:51

Should have said he suggested a blood test early next week if the bleeding stops today.

toothachereturns · 19/05/2014 16:50

Thanks for your support ladies. Just spoke to the doc who just said it sounds very much like I'm having a miscarriage. He said if the bleeding stops today then I can get a blood test to see if the hcg levels are still high enough. But basically a waiting game. I am pretty sure it won't be a happy ended. We were SO happy this morning. This is a heavy blow. But we'll pick ourselves up! x

gennibugs · 19/05/2014 16:48

I'm so sorry tooth. As kitty said, we are here for you. Thanks

KittyVonCatsington · 19/05/2014 16:05

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tooth- look after yourself. There isn't much that can be done sadly, just waiting to see if little bean is still there, which it might very well be. When you have more news, let us know. We'll be with you every step of the way, good or bad.

Thinking of you Thanks

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hanflan · 19/05/2014 16:04

I'm so sorry Tooth. Good luck at the docs and I'll be thinking of you.

KittyVonCatsington · 19/05/2014 16:01

Sorry to read of your sad news silverine - hits you like a sledgehammer to the heart Sad Hope you relative is at least comfortable Thanks

Sorry to those who have been visited by AF. Onwards and upwards!!

What a hot day to be in a stuffy classroom!! Had to use the air freshener quite liberally today Grin

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MrsExtraOrdinary · 19/05/2014 15:57

Tooth I'm so sorry, that's completely gutting. Take care Thanks

toothachereturns · 19/05/2014 15:55

Looks like I'm back on the June bus. Started bleeding at work and now heading to the doc. Utterly devastated. Sad

spinningirl10 · 19/05/2014 15:52

It is so tempting isn't it GenniGrin for a change we managed to dtd loads!! Dp is so hopeful but I've told him its just pot luck really!!

Blueberry, how frustrating!! Maybe if you ov'd later then that would explain why af/bfp is late.

ChandlersFarang · 19/05/2014 15:22

Just dropping in to say thanks to Spotti for the evil weevil advice! I've thrown everything away and am going in for gluten-free everything!! It's totally put me off food today, everything in my otherwise spotless kitchen turns my stomach!! Maybe this is what morning sickness is like, but less skin-crawling?! Lol!!! Grin

gennibugs · 19/05/2014 14:46

That's so frustrating blueberry.
I hope you get an answer one way or another.

xBlueberry88x · 19/05/2014 14:16

Genni Af was due Thursday and I poas on Saturday not even a faint line.

Had a weird mid cycle bleed this month enough to need to wear a pad but no where near heavy enough to be normal AF, but im wondering if this is what it was.

If so AF will now be due on the weekend.

The other possibility is I ovulated for the first time (didnt know I wasnt ovulating until blood tests showed) but it would have been after cd 21 as I run out on OPKS on cd 20.

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