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When's the best time to get pregnant? Use our interactive ovulation calculator to work out when you're most fertile and most likely to conceive.

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On the 2ww...

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kitkatkaty87 · 06/05/2014 11:53

Anyone want to wait with me. I'm 4dpo today. Please join me :)

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climbergirlali · 13/05/2014 08:20

Not due till Friday at earliest, just felt really crampy which usually happens then she makes an appearance a few hours later. . But then again that was all fake And I can't remember what things were like before microgynon!

ladyflower23 · 13/05/2014 08:12

BFNs are so depressing! So was your AF due yesterday or had just been feeling crampy?

climbergirlali · 13/05/2014 08:05

I caved :( was so surprised not to be visited the by af yesterday after all the cramping that promised myself I could have a test this morning if she didn't come overnight lol of course. ..bfn but now I'm seeing phantom lines where there really isn't even the faintest!!

newbie6 · 13/05/2014 07:48

Hi all, well another negative for me today from clear blue digital as have run out of FRER! Am 11dpo so still praying I'm too early! X

ladyflower23 · 13/05/2014 07:38

Morning! I am feeling cheery today. My sore bbs now feel pretty much normal, and my spots are going, so I am of course taking these as SYMPTOMS that I am with child.
Raised the matter with DH this morning and he said 'well I don't think there's any point in reading into these things too much. We just have to wait until it's time we can do a test. We just have to be patient.'
I'm like yah yah I totes agree! Whilst pushing the 1,000 negative hpts and OPKs further down into the bin. He he!

obsessed1 · 13/05/2014 06:07

I'm going to be testing Thurs or Fri too. FX to all xx

MrsChristmasKate · 12/05/2014 22:42

7 dpo here.....desperate to test...DH is convinced I'll pee on anything at the moment!

newbie6 · 12/05/2014 21:46

Snap crackle and pop lady flower! Good on you waiting till Thurs, I have NO willpower whatsoever! I read somewhere 12dpo is best time to test if testing early which would be Wed for me

ladyflower23 · 12/05/2014 20:24

newbie i am more obsessed this time as well. Cannot explain it! Good luck for tomorrow. Could be that implantation has taken longer this time so that's why not testing pos yet. Am still planning to take my second Boots one on Thursday if AF doesn't get me first, which I have a feeling it will. Don't know why, but really feel like it hasn't happened this month...

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kitkatkaty87 · 12/05/2014 20:09

Thanks newbie. Good luck for 2moro. My bleed is still not heavy which is pretty confusing - I guess first af off the pill will be a weird one though!

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newbie6 · 12/05/2014 19:36

Grrrrr kitkatkaty, Lots of positive thoughts for next time for you. I have no idea why I am so obsessed this time round, don't remember being this bad when we tried for DS 1 but we were so lucky and were successful first time so maybe I'm just expecting the same to happen again! I'm sure I did an FRER last time and it showed 6 days early so can't decide if the fact it's not showing 5 days early of that's a bad sign? I'll test again tomo and update. Good luck girls! X

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kitkatkaty87 · 12/05/2014 19:12

That's a shame about your frer squeaky. Maybe wait another few days and try again.
I'm definately out - def af :(

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newbie6 · 12/05/2014 16:05

Also like synchronisation idea but someone will need to convince my willpower of it ;)

climbergirlali · 12/05/2014 15:09

Like the synchronization idea lol

mymelodies · 12/05/2014 14:46

still no AF for me, wonder if I can hold on until wed to test again. currently cd32... I bet I had 2 LH surges this month, that would explain things.

no symptoms either really! Hmm Hmm

ladyflower23 · 12/05/2014 14:07

Maybe we should schedule a synchronised POAS for later in the week and then it might stop us all from doing anymore in the meantime?!

Squeakybeaky · 12/05/2014 14:02

Hi girls, my FRER this morning was a BFN!! Grrrrrr still have a faint line on the cheapies though so who bloody knows! katy sorry to hear AF is here! That's totally rubbish.

I don't know what to think really but I'm not due AF til Friday/ Saturday so I've got to keep some faith I think! X

ladyflower23 · 12/05/2014 13:58

We are the same DPO newbie! Fingers crossed for us! I bought a two pack and determined to hold out till Thursday night at earliest before I do the second one!

newbie6 · 12/05/2014 13:38

I've done 3 today so am taking obsession to a whole new level!! Have now ordered more but am determined to try and just wait now till Sat which is when AF is due but then again, pigs might fly!

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kitkatkaty87 · 12/05/2014 13:23

thanks ladyflower thats a lovely way to look at it!
I've still got a tiny incling of hope its implantation, but 98% sure its going to develop into AF.

I think us ttc'ers are magnetically drawn to poas if its within 20 metres of us - so you're not alone!

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ladyflower23 · 12/05/2014 13:19

Never understand why they come early sometimes. I get that stress and illness can delay it, but why would the stupid thing come early! You never know, could still be implantation, it is still in that timeframe. If it is AF then the good thing about it being early, is you can start focusing on next month, which will now come round sooner than if AF had been on time or late. Sending you positive thoughts x

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kitkatkaty87 · 12/05/2014 13:14

look like AF has arrived for me, 4 days early though. Think it's too red to be implantation. Thought id share the poo news.

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ladyflower23 · 12/05/2014 13:09

Right, I have just thrown it in the bin and I will NOT dig it out to check it again later!

ladyflower23 · 12/05/2014 13:07

Oh frick, I just caved and did it and BFN as I knew it would be!! Why don't I listen to my own advice? Oh yeh because I'm mental!! Bet I get AF in the next 10 minutes now to really add insult to injury. KNEW I shouldn't have them in the house!!!!!!!!!!!

ladyflower23 · 12/05/2014 12:33

The thing is some people don't even implant till 10dpo so I think you have to be really lucky to get a line before 12dpo and even then a negative wouldn't be certain. I've just bought some tests and am dying to pee on one, despite knowing it will prob be neg, as either not preggo or too early.

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