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wannbe , coggy pussycat, anyone else from ttc jan thread whos not got there bfp

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trace2 · 27/08/2006 11:59

just though i would do this for us, as all new ones come and go (not meaning to hurt anyone) but its hard trying to keep up when were still left here

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pussycatmomma · 30/08/2006 19:14

OH..MY....GOD!!!!!
a thread in conception that actually has my name on it!!!!!!!!! a thread where i can come and be ME!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! no offence to the other threads running along out there, but you all just get there too god damn quick for me! At last, thankyou Trace, i feel i have a place to come to where i a) dont feel like a pensioner b)dont feel like a freak and b) dont have to go through the whole of the tony weshler book AGAIN from chapter 1!!!!!!!!!
YAY! I love this thread, hope i manage to catch you all, i could SO do with a cheer up today, Have been having a real crap time!
Will look forward to chatting to you all very soon x x x x x x

gemmaseascout · 30/08/2006 19:05

gotta go
but will be back tomorrow

gemmaseascout · 30/08/2006 19:04

have also got three new tattoos!!! will get hubby to take photo and post them!

gemmaseascout · 30/08/2006 19:01

Gramps died of cancer and you can kinda deal with that, my aunt starved herslef because she had an argument with her daughter. Not so easy!

Neway life goes on and Ive lost 2 stone in the last three months yeah!

Natty1806 · 30/08/2006 18:59

sorry for your loses must have been a bit shock and a lot to deal with.

gemmaseascout · 30/08/2006 18:57

anyone heard from jenswish?

gemmaseascout · 30/08/2006 18:55

sorry trace

its good to be back!!!

My Grandad died suddenly and then when I was picking myself up my aunt died even more suddenly. It has been a shite couple of months.

I have been n camp with my scouts and am now back to work!!

Natty1806 · 30/08/2006 18:44

Hi Gem you have been away for ages wondered where you had got to.

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trace2 · 30/08/2006 18:40

hi gemma great to see you back on, ( not meaning it in a bad way) dont know weather you know peachy pg, other than that me and a few more are still here, i did get pg in june but sadly m/c

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gemmaseascout · 30/08/2006 18:31

Hello ladies
long time no see

Had a very hard time recently, lots of family stuff.

My big sis has had her baby, a very healthy girl named amy.

We are still trying, have gone on the pill for three months to get my cycle back and it seems to be working!!

What have i missed??? Good or bad...
hit me with it!

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trace2 · 30/08/2006 18:07

hi peachy glad you came on here ! how was your hols and hows our little bump??

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peachygirl · 30/08/2006 16:46

HI all
Can i pop in and out of this one too? I feel a bit funy going on the 'positives' now with all the new people.
am back from hols BTW - had good time bt now very tired and jet lagged!

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trace2 · 30/08/2006 16:43

inseration i mean(bet its still not spelt right lol

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trace2 · 30/08/2006 16:42

and yes i did montage at the time i was having my m/c it really took my mind of it, but also sad thinking i wounld be able to do one for that baby!
there is one person on here i think really is a great insepation to us all i just wish i was a strong as she makes out COGGY

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trace2 · 30/08/2006 16:34

hi soh, so sorry it does sound like it still effects you, same here i may sound postive ,but am not, when am on my own i cry alot.
i have a dd whos 22 still lives with me a ds whos 21 in oct but he lives with his dad, and then jack whos 4, dont really know what had do without him. as ive never really wanted one so much as i do now you see i fell pg with dd when i was 17 and on the pill so i got married and ds came year after again on the pill, i then left my ex after 16 years of marrage( we was never happy) then met my dh and and had jack a few years later(still on the pill).
so you see never had these probs befor and now i know my times running out am 40, in my time had a few m/c but really dont want to go in to that.
sorry i rambeled there

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trace2 · 30/08/2006 16:24

andi0411 GOOD LUCK WHEN YOU TESTXXXX

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ShowOfHands · 30/08/2006 16:23

Hi trace.

tbh I didn't think that I was worried or wound up about the m/c anymore, but dh has (rightly) pointed out that I'm not the best person to comment on that. He reluctantly told me that I am a bit snappy and very restless in my sleep (wholly unlike me). On reflection, I do feel tired even though I'm getting 9hrs a night. I think subconsciously it must still be on my mind and affecting me in ways I wouldn't otherwise notice. It was the first and only time I have ever been pregnant and I didn't envisage it ending that way.

Still, I am positive and determined to carry on trying.

What about you? How have you been since it happened? I sometimes wish I could feel as dignified and positive as you often sound! How many LOs do you have? I think I remember seeing your montage and you definitely have one I seem to recall. I might just be imagining it though?!

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trace2 · 30/08/2006 16:05

MrsMcJnr aww so nice, i do take you as a cyber friend its just when youve been on the same threads month after month and not knowing most on there as the names change so much, like i said i am glad when the new ones get there bfp, its just like wannbe says us whos been trying so long its a little sad, i also know if you dont get pg first time that hurts like hell too we all want the same.

wannbee i was going to tell you about Nicola, she as old as me too

Angsthase get reading its a great book very intresting too

ShowOfHands yes of course i know the ones who would come over, i had noticed that most of the regulars had stopped posting, and as for not ovulating am sorry if you have not but it is normal for our bodys to miss some times.do you think your still worrying about your m/c it can effect it.

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ShowOfHands · 30/08/2006 15:23

Hello all

Not sure if I qualify to be on this thread. I have been on the ttc threads on and off since November 05 (changed name in May though as I wanted a new start). Still recognise all the old names. I sometimes take a self-imposed break though as I can get a bit upset and frustrated- especially on the July thread when I thought I had finally managed it (and you too trace) only to then m/c. At first I struggled with the fact that it was all so "public"- ironically felt that I had let you all down- but the support really helped.

Anyway, I left the Sept thread as I haven't ovulated this month and I couldn't keep up anyway. It's the first time I haven't ovulated and I cannot for the life of me work out why. Anybody else not ovulate for no reason and does everything go back to normal next cycle?

So, can I stay? Does anybody know where decaf is aswell? Not seen her around for ages.

Hope you're all ok and that you don't mind me crashing your thread!

Angsthase · 30/08/2006 14:46

Hey Girls, know what you mean about Sept, by the time I've read up to date and post, there's been about 10 posts, so I'm always out of sync. I feel like I should be in the MN equivalent of the threads for computer learning difficulties

Anyway, TW book and Royal Jelly has apparantly arrived today (DH asked what it was - I told him "womens things", at which point he didn't want to know any more!)
Soo, will start reading up and preparing my body for a clensing period (after this months bding) to up the chances for next month. Don't know what my chances are this month, but not confident. Will start temping after next AF.

Wannabe - yes, take comfort from Nicolas post re sperm and NUTS, NUTS, NUTS!!! - Get DH eating lots of them.

coggy · 30/08/2006 14:36

MrsMc....I am still reading the Sept thread although I have to admit I am skimming most posts and only properly reading the names I know well.

I, also, don't want to seem mean but it just goes too fast!!

wannaBe, Natty and I are on the 'Twiglet' threads anyway so we will all keep in touch....I think of you as an old friend!!!

Trace....thanks for that....I have been 36.3 and went up to 36.6 after ov. Today was 36.8 but only 6dpo so probaby due to some other factor?

Natty1806 · 30/08/2006 13:31

Wannabe

Just thought i would let you know that a lady named Nicola on the after miscarriage thread posted on 29th to say she has got her BFP and anyway my point is the fertility clinic had just told her DP that he had a low sperm count. Hope this gives you hope.

x

MrsMcJnr · 30/08/2006 11:02

I feel a bit like I am reading someone's diary reading this thread and I won't post on here again but I just wanted to say how much I miss you all on the Sept thread.

This is my third month of TTC, a complete beginner compared to you ladies. You have all helped me so much by imparting information, being really patient and empathetic and kind and also by teaching me patience and caution about the whole wonder that is baby making. Thanks to you, I have so much more respect for the whole miracle of life. It has been an absolute privilege to have "met" you and I hope that you all get your heart's desire before too long.

Please don't stop helping us!

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trace2 · 30/08/2006 10:52

wannbe i fully unerdstand about sept thread i feel the same,
and my af due next thursday when i go away too! and i know ill be ill

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trace2 · 30/08/2006 10:48

wannbe, so sorry about your dh i think hes doing a great job still taking then!

coggy i really hope its worked for you this month
well if you get 18 days of i rise you can tell, but also if you get a second rise ie mine when pg was
from ovulation
36.6 to 36.8
then on day 7of dpo it went to
36.9 and then 37.0

Angsthase and hayls yes i do you rember you both and yes you can join us

am on day 20 babydust to all

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