wannbe , coggy pussycat, anyone else from ttc jan thread whos not got there bfp

I've given up on miracles coggy. I thought if I just had sex with wanton abandonment I'd be at least slightly up the duff.

It'd all be so funny if it weren't so bloomin' terrible.

SOH - first car, gosh you must be fit if you walk and cyle everwhere.

Coggy - feel for you hun, it must be very scary but am sure it will help you and you never know you may get a BFP before having to go down that route, a lady named bubble ? had an on line IUI diary on here and think she has had her baby now so that might be worth a read nearer the time.

Hi and bye to everyone else going to crack on with some work now as i am off next week. Yipppeeeeeeeee

SOH.....that's like me putting off the next phase of treatment.

I just think it'll miraculously happen!!!!

BTW the nurse I saw last week told me that she thought I was due for IUI NEXT MONTH.
Ooooooooooohhhhhh................................

Just realised that next cycle is my last chance to conceive before I hit a year of trying. I'm still stuck in that 'ooh it's just taking a bit longer than anticipated' mode. If I go to the GP and say it's been a year they might find some huge underlying problem. It's beyond ridiculous that I'd rather not know.

Cripes coggy, serious indeed. Still, there's time before they chuck you down that route.

trace- have some chocolate and a cuddle with your wee boy and book an appointment for after your hols. Could you buy some nice shampoo and intensive conditioner or something to tide you over and make your hair feel a bit special till then? I find a few colourful head scarves go a long way when my hair needs fixing.

Angsthase, good to know I'm not the only one who suffers from friends/colleagues/randoms announcing their 'stealth pregnancies' with delighted titter of 'ooh I don't even remember having sex tee hee, look at me'.

Boo hiss indeed.

I'm feeling slightly more chipper than of late today. It's Friday, we're going to pick up our first ever car this evening (means we can have days out that aren't within cycling distance) and we inherited a new cat today (friends moving into rented accommodation, no pets allowed).

Happy Friday all.

LOL Natty......bring it on!!!!

I have been on the IUI waiting list for about 12 months........seemed like a long waiting list so now I am a bit scared that it has come round without me getting a BFP in the meantime.

Really thought that I would!! [disappointed emoticon]

Coggy - will you have to be put on a waiting list? Surely there is someone out there who can invent a drug to increase your days past ov.

Angsthase - completley understand to be honest it really f@*#s me off, espcially the 'not really trying part' aaaaaaggggghhhhhh

CD38 for me am counting down the days to see doc to help bring on AF, to be honest i think i will be happy for a few regular cycles as since being told i don't ovulate (Feb06) i don't even feel as if i am trying cause i can't get pregnant so am looking forward to a fresh start IYKWIM

At least when i had no idea what was wrong with my stupid body i always had hope no i have nothing.

Bring on the AF, Bring on the clomid, bring on Ovulation, Bring on B'ding and then bloody give me a BFP!!!!!!!!

soz i do get a bit carried away maybe AF is on her way .......or i am a nutter?????

Angsthase...LOL at your "Boo, Hiss"...that sums it up exactly!!!!!

Also have to agree on the old hair front......much better to have it done after the ravages of sea, surf and sand!!!

Natty....will I ever get to use the CBFM????!!!!
I think next month is my last clomid so if I have the hcg jab there's no point using the monitor (cos obviously I know when ov is) but then.....very scarily......they said I may be due for IUI treatment.
I'm trying not to think about it as it's all getting a bit too serious for my liking now!!!!

Flippin 'eck, only out of the office for one day and it's taken me 4 hours to catch up with this thread (inbetween actually trying to do my job for a change) !

It seems even when I'm away from the internet I can't get away from friends announcing they're pg. Got an email from a friend on my crappy blueberry, the usual "surprise, wasn't planned, bla bla bla". Exactly what you want to hear when you're coming up to your 2 year anniversary of ttc.
Boo hiss, rant over.

Chin up Trace, the sun and sea would only wreck your hair anyway, and you'd only have to end up getting it done again, so stick it in a ponytail and save some money Honestly though, hope you feel better hun xx

Andi AF has arrived.

Coggy Hoping AF doesn't show up.

Hope everyone is doing ok.

hiya all

coggy am keeping everything crossed that your af doesn't show.

Trace sorry to hear you are feeling like this deep breath, it will be ok .

Although am a fine one to talk - have got up in a bad mood also and feeling sick and my temp shot up this morning and was initially hopeful but then figured the sick feeling is just a cold or similar, ah well bodies ey, lol.

Fingers crossed she does not arrive today for you and give you an extra day past ov, are you planning on using the CBFM this month? How many months of clomid do you have left?

big hug from me trace. i hate it when we feel like this.

I am in a better mood today, DP didn't go out in the end. he he

if she follows........

Sorry to hear you are having a grim day already Trace....you sound as if you need a chocolate hobnob and a long sit on our couch.

Pussycat.....cow-sitting?????
LOL!!

Natty....AF is due today is she follows the usual 8dpo.

Had rather a lot to drink last night after feeling fed up!!!!

T'was quite hard to get up this morning!!!!

I Love hob nobs

hiya everyone, just a quick drop in from me, this thread has lured me back good and proper, just like the old days
There are alot of posts, i wont respond to all, but i am thinking about every one of you, and your individual situations.
Trace, and wannabe, holiday countdown has started it seems!! I always think in terms of "sleeps" until an important event, so you must be on "sleep" countdowns by now (please tell me you know what i mean...par example, it is 6 sleeps till i go to posh nice hairdressers for a restyle of my fizzog, but alas only 3 sleeps until i have to go and cow-sit for my parents (they have a farm, are going on holiday, me and dh are farming in their absence.....but i digress!!)
So , holiday countdown for some, and moving too! I agree your house looks immaculate, especially that carpet wannaabe!! im v. - we tried a cream carpet in our spare room, it is now on the list for laminate flooring and there is only me and dh live here, no dogs or children!! it looks disgusting and has only been down a couple of years.
coggy nice to see you babes, and showofhands, and sol.......so many familiar faces.
Had a chat to my friend tonight (just had baby, week old today)......had a good cry when i came off the phone, but hopefully it should get easier? its silly i know. i was SO fine about it all, but after the actual visit, the holding, the looking and the seeing.....i dunno, when we left i just felt so lacking. Inadequate. The fact that our friends were now new parents. And we were not.
Ho hum. Life goes on, I know that, but it is still hard. Harder in fact.
By the way, I vote we should all sit on the sofa in a corner grouping maybe?? Easier to chat and pass snacks round and put our legs up, comfy like. With pjays on of course, and wine for those who would like, and other refreshments on hand too.
Pass the chocolate digestives would someone??
(((((((((((hugs to all)))))))))))

Thanks hun really appreciated.

oh no coggy when do you think she will arrive? thought that jab might give you a few extra days past ov.

Cd37 and i have lots of spots which are really starting to annoy me and i am in a crap mood as DP is going out with his mates, he gets to do this on Friday and Tuesday but yet he feels as he has had a bad day at work he deserves it, will he ever understand me?

and at the same time

sorry rant over. x

wannaBe..your house is immaculate!!!
I can't believe a child and dogs live there too!!!!

I know I said it before but.....it's so good to see and hear from everyone on here.

Quick coggy update....CD19 (6dpo) and begun AF pains...boo hoo!!!

we are/will be trying but not counting cd days or watching ovulating , we are just gonna chill out for the next couple of months and have a bit of fun with it all - And try and relax,
We have a weekend booked away in october where a group of 10 of us ( all couples) go away for a spa thing ( men golf) and chill out without the kids so just really looking forward to that now!!

i know about the parent thing. Everyone is waiting now for the big announcement..... I had really bad headaches last week and went to drop in centre to get prescription/advice.
Dad phones while i was there, told him i where i was, next minute mum bursts through door and starts saying "It's not headaches is it? You're bleeding again aren't you?" Was so angry with her we had blazing row in waiting room and i told her to go home.
Now I'm ungrateful daughter with darling mother who just wanted to help. God help me!