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wannbe , coggy pussycat, anyone else from ttc jan thread whos not got there bfp

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trace2 · 27/08/2006 11:59

just though i would do this for us, as all new ones come and go (not meaning to hurt anyone) but its hard trying to keep up when were still left here

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trace2 · 03/09/2006 16:37

bye natty

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Natty1806 · 03/09/2006 16:36

Me and DP have not discussed it yet but think i would consider it but think in a way it is harder than the ttc lark.

anyway i gotta go now, might be back on later. x

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trace2 · 03/09/2006 16:35

bye peachy, chat soon

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trace2 · 03/09/2006 16:34

...... coggy you get worse lol

natty its only because am too old for ivf if i was younger i would go for it, it has enterd my mind, because to tell the truth i dont know if i vcan ever cope with not having another, but at least i have jack hes my world, but if i didnt have any children and couldnt, i would consider adoption, also even fostering

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coggy · 03/09/2006 16:33

See you later Peachy.
X

Natty...my DH mentioned adoption twice about three months ago...I was really surprised as I thought he'd not consider it.

So I guess we would think about it in the future if nothing is happening and I'm not allowed any more drugs!!!!!

peachygirl · 03/09/2006 16:31

I have to go for a bit. I might be back later
bye for now!!

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trace2 · 03/09/2006 16:30

wannbe i know loads whos dh had very low sperm count and still got pg, im not telling you what to do, just a little worried you dont make the decision thats right for you.

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coggy · 03/09/2006 16:29

LOL!!!
I had to look up 'brb'....thought wannaBe had some excess gas she wanted to share on our nice sofa!!!!!

Natty1806 · 03/09/2006 16:28

Okay bit of a personal question but if you ladies would not go for IVF etc would you adopt? I have no idea how far i am prepared to go for a child but i think at the moment i would consider ivf etc but that is way off yet as am only just on the first step of fertility clinic stuff, shame they can't make it all less stressful and less costly.

coggy · 03/09/2006 16:27

I think I get a couple of free IUIs and then IVFs if I need them.

Very pleased if that is still the case as I thought as I had my ds i wouldn't be eligable for any on the NHS.

I am worried about the stress of them but want to try (if I have to - bit scared really!!!)
But I agree - I certainly wouldn't want to add to that stress by needing to finance it as well.

wannaBe1974 · 03/09/2006 16:26

coggy I think it's hard, and I think that we always have that feeling that maybe it will happen this month/next month/one day. I think that for me, if we didn't have a diagnosis of there being a problem then I would still keep going, after all if there's no issue then it must happen some time right? But given my dh's result, he's been told he only produced 20% of the quantity of sperm he should, and those he produced had low motility, although some were normal it wasn't nearly as many as should be normal. I think given that diagnosis I am kinda silly to even think i might ever get pregnant, and like you I could never go through IVF etc.

Trace if I really thought I was going to get a bfp then I would keep trying, but I really don't think it's ever going to happen, and how long does one wait,a year? 2? 3? my ds will be 4 in November, so even if I managed to get pregnant this month there will be a nearly 5 year age gap. ... brb

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trace2 · 03/09/2006 16:25

peachy i will tell teacher but found out its a new one from this term, the schools not big enough for diffrent class rooms, just hoping the child as forgotten about jack now,

coggy i wont go for ivf, not because of money because i could cope with the stess of it, and i am to old

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peachygirl · 03/09/2006 16:23

natty mine was always quite a sudden drop

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trace2 · 03/09/2006 16:21

natty it can do both! befor i was on clomid it droped on day of af, now it goes down a little day befor,

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coggy · 03/09/2006 16:20

Hurrah - Natty's here too.
This is good!!!

coggy · 03/09/2006 16:19

I guess I am just a sucker - although a cheerful one!!!!

peachygirl · 03/09/2006 16:19

Hi wannabe everythings fine with me although as yet no bump! I had hoped to go back to school with one but I am taking great pleasure in the fact that it means my tummy muscles are in better shape than I thought.
I'm sory to hear taht you are 'giving up' but maybe it's what you need to draw a line under everything at least for a while.
are you off anywhere nice on your hols?
trace you maybe able to mention your concerns about the other boy to the school (the teacher will do a home visit or you could give them a ring) and jack may be placed in a different class

coggy · 03/09/2006 16:19

wannaBe....would you feel ready to give up any hope though?

I guess that's the question.
I've been trying this month nearly as long as you I think haven't I?
I am NEVER going to give up!!!!!!

Well........saying that......(!).....I have decided that we would stop before having to pay for any treatment like IVF.....don't think I could handle the stress of having it and finding the money too.

I guess that's my cut off in a way...although I would still be ridiculously positive that it still might happen naturally!!!!!!

Natty1806 · 03/09/2006 16:18

trace - ho wmuch should temp drop if AF is going to arrive and can it drop slowly over a few days or does it just suddenly drop?

Natty1806 · 03/09/2006 16:17

Sorry to hear you mught finannly be drawing that line wannabe, hope AF stays away for you.

Coggy - looks really promising. Fingers are well are truely crossed for you - when will you test?

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trace2 · 03/09/2006 16:15

yes yes thats what i mean (saying that i got pg with all my kids on the pill now i dont take it, i carnt bloody get pg

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wannaBe1974 · 03/09/2006 16:13

cause i know that I won't get pg while on the pill, whereas if I'm not taking it there's always that glimmer of hope.

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trace2 · 03/09/2006 16:12

sorry wannbe for sounding harsh! but i think you should just carry on untill you get your bfp

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wannaBe1974 · 03/09/2006 16:12

peachy how's bump?

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trace2 · 03/09/2006 16:11

peachy second best after the one we chose, its just the boy who was buuling him at other nursery is going to that one too.

wannbe i hope she dont come than you carnt give up, surly going on pill will make it worse! i know what you about syptom spotting but you will still do this when you take the pill, so why take it?,

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