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wannbe , coggy pussycat, anyone else from ttc jan thread whos not got there bfp

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trace2 · 27/08/2006 11:59

just though i would do this for us, as all new ones come and go (not meaning to hurt anyone) but its hard trying to keep up when were still left here

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Angsthase · 11/09/2006 16:35

Wedding in Oz. How cool.

Must admit the hairdressers is always more of a chore than a pleasure. And to think how much money we leave behind. I always worry if I'm not nice to them that I'll leave looking like a muppet! LOL

andi0411 · 11/09/2006 16:29

Hi Angsth- yes i've seen this contradictory advice. I'm not sure what to think. Perhaps it's one of those where someone was advised by their doc to take it for a particular thing and then told others about it, but really you need your doc to tell you to take it etc... I think I'll leave well alone for the mo!! Thanks anyway

I've got the grapefruit juice/ the cough med/ the flaxseed / b6/ folic acid/ multi vit- do you think that's enough to be going on with? lol

andi0411 · 11/09/2006 16:29

Hi Angsth- yes i've seen this contradictory advice. I'm not sure what to think. Perhaps it's one of those where someone was advised by their doc to take it for a particular thing and then told others about it, but really you need your doc to tell you to take it etc... I think I'll leave well alone for the mo!! Thanks anyway

I've got the grapefruit juice/ the cough med/ the flaxseed / b6/ folic acid/ multi vit- do you think that's enough to be going on with? lol

Angsthase · 11/09/2006 16:21

Hi Andi,

I asked about the baby aspirin on a thread and got shot down in flames. I think it's supposed to help with getting blood to the Uterus ?? Not sure, but the advise I got was under no circumstances should you take it unless explicitly told to do so by your doctor.

I decided to leave well alone, but there are others on here who recommend it.

Difficult one.

andi0411 · 11/09/2006 15:52

Hi ther ladies- thanks so much for your good wishes- you're very kind.

I think we'll get married abroad- my brother lives in Aus and I'd like him and his kids involved- don't think me unkind if i say i don't really want my parents there, they have caused me and my brother immeasurable misery over the years and i want a fun , happy day not hell.

Still laughing about the hairdressers- after all my trauma- i only got a trim- you can hardly tell. I wish i was ike your pal, Coggy, who can demand silence- but i can't i just let her go on about her sex life and alcohol consumption - i felt like shouting-Little Britain style ' I'M A LADY!!!!' [GRIN] BUT I DIDN'T. also i had made myslf up and done my blooming hair just to go....mad or what?

xx

Ps-- do any of you have an opinion/info on the pros and cons of taking baby asprin in ttc- i'm not sure why it's used etc..any advice?

Angsthase · 11/09/2006 09:53

Hi All,

Andi how lovely and romantic. Congratulations. That's really fab.
My DH's proposal was hilarious "If I were to ask you to marry me, what would you say?"!!! I should have said ask me, but didn't want to put him through any more agony.

Didn't manage the whole w/e without any alcohol, but pretty pleased with my relative abstainence.

Re the hairdressers. The only way I survive is if I wear make-up so when I look in the mirror it's not as pasty, sad and old as it would be au natural. I hardly ever wear make-up so I feel relatively glam compared to normal.

CD21...Oh the waiting just goes on and on and on...

ShowOfHands · 11/09/2006 09:24

Dammit, missed you trace! Glad you're having a good time.

Andi, you're going to be a Mrs! Lovely. And it's good to have something else 'big' to focus on other than ttc iyswim. Any ideas about the big day? You said overseas, where were you thinking? How's the hair? I have a bob now, shortest it's ever been but I really like it.

Coggy, Ring is a thriller, it builds up slowly and the end is truly frightening. I'd recommend it but you must watch the Japanese original, much better than the US version. I've seen Skeleton Key too, you're right it's pretty obvious who's up to no good, but the twist's pretty unexpected. I loved the name of one of the characters, something like Papa Justify. Is that right? DH forced me to sit through Silent Hill the other day, which wasn't as bad as anticipated but really the level of violence was so unnecessary. And the female leads were laughable in their tight leather clothes and heaving bosoms (I read somewhere that when the screenwriter originally pitched the idea it was turned down because there were zero men in the film). He rewrote it to include a male detective and Sean Bean with a strange American accent. All very odd. Anyway, made DH watch Walk The Line as punishment and it was absolutely fab. Have you seen it?

Oh and for the record RUNNING MAN IS TERRIFYING. That guy with the hockey stick?

coggy · 10/09/2006 22:13

oooooh...missed you!
Hope you are having a FAB time away Trace....I am very !!!!!

Andi...that sounds lovely...........

trace2 · 10/09/2006 19:55

carnt belive no ones on ive only got 20 mins

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trace2 · 10/09/2006 19:49

hi all its redn hot here, chat when i get home,
he he he(just had to rub it in) only kidding

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andi0411 · 10/09/2006 18:51

Hi ladies - thanks so much for the good wishes ..I have been on cloud nine this week-end...
Well SOH we were in the restaurant and he had chosen a booth at the back, I never thought anything of it, and we proceeded to have a lovely meal and were very romantic etc.. then when we left and got home- we live in the middle of nowhere- he said lets go out for a walk, so we did and we climbed the hill behind our house and he just GOT DOWN ON ONE KNEE and pulled the ring out and asked. I started blubbing and forgot to answer. Just a lovely memory to treasure now. First man i have ever wanted to marry.

Coggy- you and Soh are right up my street with these films- I love Running Man too and lso have seen the original Ring- now that film did terrify me, and I'm not easily scared.

xx

coggy · 10/09/2006 17:37

SOH............hope you enjoyed dinner and your MS didn't spoil it!

I generally hate Arnold Schwarzecschewarndegeegeegerggeeggger movies BUT I LOVE Running Man......it's FAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAABBBBBB!!!

My DH thinks I'm mad because I try my hardest to avoid any action-men-type films and he doesn't get my obsession with that one!!!

Not seen 'The Ring'.....is it similar to 'Dark Waters' - a thriller rather than a horror film?

We saw 'Skeleton Key' last night and that was very good.......I sussed the guilty culprits within the first ten minutes but it had a twist at the end that I didn't expect at all......that is my perfect type of film.

I love getting it right but I also love that little extra surprise I didn't think of!!!

And yes......DH was a shivering wreck again.......might go for Bambi next time!!!
LOL!!!!!

ShowOfHands · 10/09/2006 11:37

Andi! Very many congratulations to you chick. Ooh I love a good wedding but I'm afraid you'll have to give us some more details. One knee? Did he have a ring? Tears? Feel free to tell me I'm a nosey old bag. I'm just jealous because when dh proposed to me I didn't hear him and muttered something about 'mmm, yes dear'. I kid you not.

Coggy, I've seen Dark Water, it's quite spooky. Have you seen the original Ring film? I think it's by the same guy and certainly one of the scariest things I've ever watched. IMHO the scariest film ever made is that Running Man one with Arnold Schwarzecschewarndegeegeegerggeeggger in it. I can't watch it because I have an irrational fear that it's going to come true and one day we'll all be watching gameshows where convicted criminals are hunted for sport.

It's very quiet on here of late. Don't tell me you all have lives outside of MN? Had a great weekend. Went to a family wedding yesterday but I'm shattered as I had to drive up and back in one day, 300 mile round trip. We got in at 3am and it was during the return journey that my ms decided to hit with a vengeance. Feeling a wee bit nauseous this morning too. Still, we told my grandma that I'm pg yesterday. She's nearly 80 and I don't see her often. She's been told it's a secret, only her and my DH know. She cried bless her!

Anyway, I'm wearing the MN slattern hat this morning. Got to go and get dressed, going to my brother and SIL's for a roast. Yum yum, Sunday dinner, all of the trimmings and I don't have to cook it. It's going to be a good day (when the nausea subsides!)

Hope you're all top banana and had good weekends.

SOH
xx

coggy · 09/09/2006 15:30

Andi..........that's FANTASTIC news.
Congratulations to you and MrAndi-to-be.

SOH......LOL at your DH........mine was the same...he and goosebumps all the way through the film!!!
It was called 'Dark Water' or something like that.
We tend to watch thrillers as horror films don't do it for me.
I'd much rather have a dark pshycological thriller any day - although I tend to work lots of the plot out near the beginning!!!

Yes....I am annoying when I tell everyone who's done it!!!

Natty......you sound like my twin when it comes to drinking...I could have typed those words..."it's like i lose all my brain cells".
I'm strong minded with one drink...okay with two and then..............that's it!!!!!

Natty1806 · 09/09/2006 15:02

Lovely news Andi that is fantastic.

I went out yesterday afternoon for a few drinks which turned into too many and am suffering a bit today, i don't know why i didn't just go home earlier, it's like i lose all my brain cells when i am out drinking. Oh well no more booze for me for a while, but now i want pick and mix after reading SOH had one last night, think i may go buy one in a minute.

andi0411 · 09/09/2006 14:40

Moring ladies- oops it's the afternoon and guess what? I'm not dressed yet- slatternly slovern or what? But I have a good reason..I was up very late last night after my lovely meal spending time with my lovely dp who proposed to me last night. !!!! Oh and i said yes...

We have been together for years- he was married before and i never really was too bothered about it as my parents had an awful marriage but i lost/ re- found my faith recently and we had discussed it. But now we are to wed next year...something overseas and private i hope.

xx

ShowOfHands · 09/09/2006 14:38

Coggy, what film did you watch?

We went to see The Amityville Horror (remake) on honeymoon- tres romantic- and DH screamed in the cinema. We were staying in Edinburgh that night and as we walked home at midnight across the deserted city, DH was in a right old state! I think me telling ghost stories didn't help. He's a bit... er ... "sensitive".

coggy · 08/09/2006 22:26

Oh....and I will pass on your kind thoughtfulness to my friend when I next see her thank you SOH!!!!!!

coggy · 08/09/2006 22:25

Cool................I love all pick and mix.....in fact I may have to now go and buy some tomorrow!!!

DH and I have just watched a spoooooooooooooooooooooooky DVD and he is too scared to go to bed!!!

Back to that earlier comment I guess......scared into BDing????
Now just plain scared!!!!!!

ShowOfHands · 08/09/2006 19:07

Yes, yes Coggy dear your friend's facial hair issue!

Still got most of the pick n mix left. What's your fave? Fizzy, choc, chewy, got some lollies and fudge too. Oh and some foamy things and jelly beans.

Oh sod it, in the spirit of virtual friendship you can have half of them. But I am afraid I will need 75% of the fudge, otherwise tuck in!

Now the DVD's going on in ten minutes. If anybody objects to dinnerladies then you had better leave the sofas now.

coggy · 08/09/2006 18:27

Right...........let's get one thing straight.....

SOH - Why would you need to book me into a 'tache-dying' slot at your salon?
Surely you mean my friend do you not???!!!!

LOL at you two and your hairdressing experiences!
You need to do what my friend does.....she doesn't go very often but when she does she sits down in the chair and says to the hairdresser...

"I'm here to relax. Don't ask me about my holidays this year or about my hair routines or anything else. I like to read a magazine and be quiet."
...............but it works!!!!!!

Yes Andi....I am a teacher (sorry meant to answer that when you asked earlier and forgot!!) I only work part-time so I went back this week for one day and then the rest of the week off - lovely!!!

The fact that I now have a sore throat from one blinkin' day at work is pretty rubbish tho!!!

Have a fab meal Andi.....and I am very at SOH's pick n mix - I LOVE them!!!!!
Leave some on the table when you've had enough eh SOH?!

andi0411 · 08/09/2006 16:55

pick and mix and a dvd...heaven..'see' you later xx

ShowOfHands · 08/09/2006 16:43

Have a lovely meal andi. DH at work tonight so I have pick and mix and a DVD. Going to put my pyjamas on and put my feet up.

Have a good one chick!

andi0411 · 08/09/2006 16:42

Well have a lovely time- looking fab too. Am going to get ready now as dp taking me out for a meal tonight- i thought it was tomorrow- but he's changed it. See you

ShowOfHands · 08/09/2006 16:31

Oh God I'm glad it's not just me. Everybody seems to love going to 'salons'. I despise it and the smell gets up my nose too!

Still, I like my hair looking nice and it's a family wedding I'm going to tomorrow with lots of relatives I see very infrequently, so it's good to make the effort. And I've heard your hair changes later on in pg so I'm making the most of it now!

PS Coggy I'll book you into the salon for a 'tache dyeing session, ok?

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