3 month break after 'delayed period'??

Hey fingers hope youre doing ok and theres no sign of af showing her ugly head!

Thank you!! I know, i'm glad we didnt wait too, although I knew I was taking a bit of a gamble not taking docs advice and I am still a bit nervous about everything but praying all goes ok!

Really hope your tww doesnt drag too much and please keep me posted as I'd love to know how youre getting on. Maybe pm me, nldont actually know how you do that but itd be easier than trying to find this thread each time! X

Hey fingers thanks for remembering and also bumping this thread as i've just cone on to find it!

I am over the moon to say we had the scan this morning and saw a little heart beating...so much happiness and relief!! Im 7+4 so early days still but one more hurdle jumped! Not taking for granted for a second how very lucky we are . Thank you so much for your support, its been so good to know I have someone on here to chat to whichever way it went!

How are things with you?

Haha! Oh no, wouldnt want you to ruin your chances !

Thanks so much, you are so kind and talking to someone other than my dp who is quite justifiably fed up of my worrying (although he doesnt say so in as many words!) really helps. I will definately come back to update no matter what! Sending you lots of luck for this month too x

Ahh thank you that's so lovely of you! And i'm sorry again, I felt awful not coming back on but when I got my bfp I was scared to be excited and kindve went into a bit of shock I suppose. Only me and my dp know and I dont even feel like its real. I don't think i'll be able to get excited unless it is good news on the scan so really trying to block it out at the moment.

I'm going to keep myself off google and anything to do with pregnancy until after my scan I think but thank you so much for your support and I will definately come back and update you whatever happens! Scan is on 12th so will be back then! And I think you will be coming towards the end of your tww by then?! So make sure you keep me posted too! X

Ahh thats really good, will be keeping my fingers crossed that this is your month!

Haha well a week last tuesday I decided last thing at night to do a test the next morning. I wanted to do a dye test but the local tesco only had digis! Then I woke up at 3.30am, couldnt decide whether that counted as fmu but my dp said go for it....so in the middle of the night I did my test and within 30 seconds it popped up bfp 2-3 weeks!! I didnt sleep the rest of the night!

I have been terrified to get excited though and that is kindve why I didnt come back on here, I am just scared that if I say it to anyone it will jinx it somehow. I just keep expecting to see blood again.

Then on Wednesday I started having niggling pains in my right side. I wasnt too worried until I went to the loo on thursday evening and had the teeniest bit of spotting. So I rang the epu for some advice as I estimated I was around 6 weeks yesterday so had made it past the chemical pregnancy stage. They were lovely and told me to come in right away. When I was examined the doctor was concerned that it might be ectopic so booked me in for a scan the next morning.

I had my scan yesterday morning and saw the sac...it was good news, all is in the right place thank god and they said I am about 5.5 weeks. However they couldnt see all the membranes around the sac and there was no heartbeat just a sac. They said they dont normally scan so early to check the baby so it is more than likely because it is too early. It is procedure to scan again now though so I need to go back in two weeks to check the pregnancy has developed. Naturally I am now worrying sick that something is wrong and that there will be no heart beat etc but will just have to try to put it to the back of my mind and stay positive because it is going to be a long two weeks! I am also staying away from google on this as I know I cant do anything about the outcome.

Sorry for the essay!!

Hey fingers so sorry I havent been back for a while, I have had a bit of a mad week or so. Hows things with you?

I have a little update, if you are still around after my long abscence!

I know what you mean, I really cant decide whether a digital would be best because it stops the over analysing of the line darkness, but I got a positive on a digital before the chemical last month so maybe would give me false hope if it did come back positive. Also worse seeing the words "not pregnant" is a killer. So hard to decide!

I have had light cramps on and off but mainly on for a week now. I also keep thinking my nipples feel sensitive every now and then, but they have been a bit sensitive since I stopped bf my ds two months ago so that one might just be coincidence.

If it helps, I really don't actively symptom spot in the 2ww because with my ds my first symptom was really sensitive nipples which didnt start until I was about 6 weeks and nausea didnt start until 6-7 weeks so ime symptoms came later. Different for everyone though, do you feel any?

What makes you think it wont be good news?

Haha I know what you mean, what brands do you go for?

I vowed last month not to test until a week after I was due so i'm trying to stick to that. I guess I feel like as long as i'm not bleeding there is still hope whereas once I have that bfn it's over! Also like you say, even if it was positive I'd be just waiting to start bleeding again.

I would probably try and leave it longer if I didn't have this wedding on saturday which i need to know before!

Well at least we have something to look forward to, I find allowing myself non pregnancy treats like that really helps!

Well af didnt come as expected, must have been a random bit of funny coloured cm. So four days late now but more than likely related to the chemical last month messing my cycle up. Perhaps I didn't ovulate or am just late. Too scared to test just yet after last month!

Thank you! I hope so too but definately feeling i'm not going to be now. Was going to test Friday if I hadn't had af. If I get af tomorrow though, my friend gets married on saturday and I am going to get very drunk for once!!

Hope you get through the last few days ok, when are you going to test?

Haha sorry i'm terrible at this!

I really dont know to be honest...when I saw it, I had a good cry and thought that was it and I still think I will probably come on properly tomorrow. But am surprised I haven't this evening and still feel a little bit hopeful but don't want to get my hopes up!

Ooh that does sound promising though for you! The wait is awful isnt it because you cant help getting your hopes up! Fingers crossed for you though!!