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No - that is incredibly reasonable...well, in comparison to my clinic which is £4500

Speaking to co-ordinator on Tuesday to plan what to do next.

Noticed PGD at our clinic is only €1500- that's not bad is it???

Oh Tame I am so sorry what have your clinic said?!

It's such a hideous place to be right now x

Thanks cups (((())))) hope the day goes ok x

2nd blood test today, results later. Tests are negative now.

Cups . Hope you enjoy it. They might have kids but he's your nephew and that's special in itself.

Cups ((hugs)) it means you can drink lots, have whole conversations, eat your lunch/dinner with two hand and whilst it is still hot etc.... small consolations I know that said I had rather a lot to drink at DS's christening

Morning everyone, just a quick visit as we are off down south for my nephews christening. I'm dreading it as we will be the only people there without kids.

I just wanted to pop by and check on Tame. I was thinking about you a lot yesterday. I'm really upset that you are going through this, it's not fair

Cups - no, no immune testing here - think they assumed not really an issue when we went to Care as DD only 2 and had had ERPC at 10 weeks after blighted ovum - body wouldn't let go even when nothing to grow .

Tame, hope you are OK.

Thinking of you, Tame

Sorry i lost you all.

Tame, I don't know what to say and i just wish i had the words to make you feel better. I was an egg buddy when you had your mc last year, and I was so hoping for you that everything was going to be OK this time. I really hope that this is not the end, i hope that the test today shows doubling or tripling. This isn't fair. xxx

The Czech clinic have been really supportive. I think I will have to have further testing here though.

Xx

Think DH is very sensible about time to chill out.

Tame I'm not surprised your fed up. I'm upset on your behalf. Yes, immune tests are ridiculously explensive - I'm supposed to get some more done as the dopey doctor didn't tell me to get them done when I got all the others done back in Dec/Jan. Not sure I'll bother now. What we found out though was that DP and I had some kind of gene which clashed with each other so we were advised to only implant one to improve chances of its survival. Oh and the gluten free diet. We also had the pgd as well. I really hope the NHS will look carefully into why this happening to you tame. Will your clinic give you any kind of feedback appointment?

Yes, I think I am going to speak to my gp.

Siobhan quenby has a recurrent miscarriage clinic only 10 miles from where I live so I think I'm due a referral

DH is reluctant to dive in and put the frozen ones back too soon- I think we need to chill and explore options on this one first x

£200 for a phone call is a rip off

At care I think immunes cost about 2 grand for the full range of tests. I know that most people can get the GP to do all the level one tests to bring the cost down. Res have you had immunes done?

No but I think other clinics in Czech Republic do.

A telephone consultation with dr gorgy is £200!!!

I KNOW it doesn't cost that man £200 to pick up the phone- what a scam!!!

DH was looking at midland fertility services last night and said that they do immune testing. But it's £250 to register as a patient.

I think we may have a few months out, save some pennies then look at immunes. In the meantime, I'll see what tests my gp is willing to do....

After 3 miscarriages I now meet NICE criteria for recurrent mc testing.

Every cloud.....

Do they do immune testing at your clinic? Hopefully it will be a bit cheaper than here in the uk.

Tame it's ok to feel fed up. This is fucking shit x

I have had a womb biopsy for nk cells but no other immune tests. I have seen quite a lot about thyroid antibodies and do alpha something or other.

It's an expensive route but think it's one we may have to go down to be honest.

I'm so fed up

Hugs Tame, I think immunology sounds the way to go xx

Sorry I missed your more recent posts Tame. Like Val says I guess PGD or whatever it's called is probably the next way to go. I know it's really hard as you want answers as to why it didn't stick. Sadly even if everything is absolutely great. Good quality embryo, good lining etc sometimes it just doesn't work out. I've heard so many times of women having great quality blasts put back, it doesn't work out but then FET works. I really hope that's going to be you Tame x

Tame you've been to see an immunologist, haven't you? I'm sure you have, but in case I'm confused, go and see one. It's weird how your body lets the embryo implant and then shortly after changes its mind. I wish I was sciencey and understood these things more.

Tame I'm so sad it's not better news I've been there with low HCG numbers too, it's so cruel. Sending my love to you and your DH x