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Eggsellent Egg buddies! For those having ivf during April, May and June and any others still around :-)

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starsandmoonandback · 28/04/2014 17:16

Couldn't see another thread so thought I'd make our new one Smile

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vallinnapod · 17/05/2014 22:18

Sounds very like mine! In fact I thought the clots may have been my poor cervix. After one attempt she deemed my uterus 'mobile' and had to clamp my cervix Shock

This was my second scratch and I had previously had 3 ETs so maybe it was just trying to leave the building!

starsandmoonandback · 17/05/2014 21:08

Ooh interesting Val. The scratch is meant to cause a release if hormones/chemicals or something which is an aid to implantation apparently! My scratch was a bloody awful experience. Although the actual scratch but was fine. But they couldn't find my cervix first off then couldn't get the catheter through it. I have never had that problem before then and is had 6 transfers up to that point!!! Bit nervous about it probably.
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vallinnapod · 17/05/2014 20:46

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My scratch was hideous this time. Not painful, just uncomfy but I kept passing huge clots with my period. It freaked me out enough to call the clinic. Still...we know where I ended up so the 'clear out' must have done me good.

starsandmoonandback · 17/05/2014 20:18

Val! You cheeky thing Wink but I think you're right! Smile

Good luck for scan hun. Exciting.
Remember, cramping is normal as your uterus stretches. Xx

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vallinnapod · 17/05/2014 19:52

Stars must be the old age making you forget WinkGrin

Cups got it all crossed for you for Monday!! I wish I had a fucker free day Hmm my arse is finally numbing up to the Gestone, which is more painful than pleasant. At least I am bruising less with Clexane!

Scan on Tuesday, if I am not in the nut house by then...

starsandmoonandback · 17/05/2014 15:33

Cups, woohoo. Enjoy your fucker free day. You deserve it Smile sounds like you've got a good number of follies the right size Grin wishing you lots of luck lovely.

Res, how are you doing hun? When is you OTD? I know you want to never test tho so hope you're doing ok.

Nobeer, not long til your scan then. Exciting stuff.

Tame, how are you?

Val, hope you're doing ok-ish?!

Beetle, I hope your stitch went well. Pop back and let is know all is ok when you can.

Jodie, how's your 2ww going?

Turq, how you doing hun?

Bear, how are you?

I've still not booked my scratch. Dunno what I'm playing at. I'm on day 16 or 17 of my cycle, wonder if too late. I MUST call Monday morning. I MUST. I don't want to cycle the following month as it coincides with my DS's bday and I don't want it to overshadow that. Then it's summer hols, so it's either next month or September! And I'll be 42 in September ShockShockShock

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NoCupcakesOrCocktails · 17/05/2014 13:37

I also took about 4-5 days to recover from EC. Bloating was my main problem. Keep drinking plenty of water.

Well I've got 6 follies at 20mm and 4 at 16 mm so I'll be triggering tonight at 11pm. EC will be Monday. Can't wait for a little fucker free day tomorrow.

Val when is your scan? ((Hugs))

Res and Tame thinking of you x

nobeer · 17/05/2014 08:23

Hi Bear. I had borderline OHSS (22 eggs collected iirc!) too and it took me a good 10 days or so to recover. Drink plenty of water and take it easy. I was very constipated too, one of the amazing egg buddies told me to drink a teaspoon of bicarb in a glass of water which did the trick.

vallinnapod · 17/05/2014 07:52

Welcome Jodie, Bear and Cheap!

Mainly de-lurking to give Res a huge squeeze and say I am, and have been, thinking of you lots.

I have had 3 ECs. The first was absolutely fine, in fact I went running between it and ET (3dt), which makes me a bit Shock now! I was boarder line OHSS too...My second one took a lot longer. A week or so, maybe more. Extremely bloated and uncomfy. In fact they were very concerned about OHSS but despite looking 6 months pregnant there was no free fluid! The third on was somewhere between the two. I wasn't going out running but I didn't feel and look quite so horrendous. I think I get quite bloated, gassy and constipated from the pain relief suppositories they give you Blush

I am still really anxious Hmm Been really crampy the last few days Hmm

justjodie92 · 17/05/2014 07:04

Hi Bear.
I hope you are feeling okay from the EC.
I had my EC on the Monday, it was the Thursday/Friday before I felt completely fine again. I found it really quite sore for those days.

Hope everyone is okay

starsandmoonandback · 17/05/2014 00:27

Omg. Bear that's mad! That pearl was huge. No wonder we feel so bloated! If we've got a few if those on each side...ShockShockShock

Ec can take a while to recover from. As long as you're not in pain, then I think you should be ok. Smile

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Bearfacedchic · 16/05/2014 21:38

Hello, just wondering how long it takes everyone to get over EC? I know everyone is different, but just wondered. I'm still aware of it, IYSWIM, but I only get the occasional twinge. It doesn't really hurt though. Hoping it will go soon.

Ridiculous moment of today was when I was watching Coast Australia with OH and they were harvesting pearls and they showed the biggest one in the world which was 22mm and I announced it was the size of my biggest follie. It looked pretty big on screen! Oh well . . .

Bearfacedchic · 16/05/2014 17:46

Hello! So glad it's Friday. Good luck with the scan nobeer.

NoCupcakesOrCocktails · 16/05/2014 09:07

Stars thanks for that info, if this cycle doesn't work I will ask about it as I got lots of immature eggs last time due to my follies being a wind range of sizes.

Nobeer wow exciting stuff, I can imagine how nervous you are but I'm sure it will be ok. You've got lots of promising symptoms Smile

Bear hello and welcome, I've just sent a reply on your thread before I realised you had come over here Grin

Turq I'm back on Saturday for scan and bloods.

nobeer · 16/05/2014 07:21

Yes stars, in about 2.5 weeks. Nervous, in spite of reassuring gagging/vomitting.

starsandmoonandback · 16/05/2014 00:30

Wtf? 13week?? I tried to write 12!!!

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starsandmoonandback · 16/05/2014 00:29

Nobeer Woweee! That's so exciting. Have you got your 13 week scan booked yet then? Xx

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starsandmoonandback · 16/05/2014 00:28

Hello bear! No and me in comIng over here Grin

Turq, i think, it's Norethisterone X

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Bearfacedchic · 15/05/2014 23:16

Hello, can I join? I shamelessly followed nocupcakes and turquoise here. Been Ttc since August 2011 and just completed our first failed cycle with no eggs collected. Other half has slightly lower than normal sperm count and morphology, but has a varicocele so we were referred back in October 2012. Wondered if I could hang out here for a while with other lovely IVFers?

Turquoise- I know what you mean about the scans. I got a card this am from friends who got married in December telling us baby is due in Nov. At first I welled up, then I felt meh, then I felt really bloody angry at how unfair it all is. God, I need some counselling!

Good luck to everyone on a cycle at the mo. Cheering you on!

nobeer · 15/05/2014 22:44

stars I'm 9 weeks 3 days! But still lurking here (and hopefully offering helpful support) cos I love you all. I want you all to come over to Beetle's thread too. I really hope you can be there soon res, I've still got everything crossed for you. And you're not stupid.

justjodie92 · 15/05/2014 22:30

Stars I'm 5 days past transfer. They put a 5 day blastocyst in on Saturday.

It's a nerve wracking business to be in!

Turquoisetamborine · 15/05/2014 20:38

Hello Stars try and think of what that drug was called. It sounds useful!

I'm feeling a bit better. Had a few glasses of wine and a takeaway with my mam and brother. And tomorrow is my day off.

Anyone else just feel like they are in limbo though? I can't fully enjoy my mostly lovely life without another baby. I wish I could be hypnotised into being happy with one.

Not long til my next cycle next month. Then there will be no wine allowed.

Res, have you decided what you're going to do about testing?

Cups, when do you get scanned again to check your follies?

starsandmoonandback · 15/05/2014 19:14

Cups hun. I think I've always lost the top few follicles. There always se to be some that grow first and then a group that grow together. Can't they keep stimming you for a bit longer for the group of smaller ones to grow? On my short protocol with my consultant had me take a tablet (forgotten name, will check, only if I need to tell you for future - hope I don't) before starting Stimms ( think from day 15 of previous cycle) which is meant to make your follies grow at a similar rate. It definitely worked! But, hopefully you don't need to know as this cycle will be successful. Xx

Jodie, are you 5dpo or 5days past transfer? Hope you're doing ok.

Turq, how are you hun?

Nobeer...where are you, sorry for having a memory like a goldfish!!

Hi to everyone I've not mentioned. Xx

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NoCupcakesOrCocktails · 15/05/2014 18:33

Ps I really want to join the post IVF thread too!

NoCupcakesOrCocktails · 15/05/2014 18:31

Oh Res i just want to give you a hug too. It's so hard isn't it. You test whenever you feel ready. I really hope you are wrong. I've only been pregnant once and I really thought my test was going to be negative. I've heard a lot of people say that they have felt different with each pregnancy so I really hope that's the case with you x

Turq hugs for you too, I hate seeing other peoples scan photos (well instadiffers in particular). I have 8 nephews, 6 of them conceived whole we have been ttc and it really bloody hurts. I love all of them but it makes me ache for what I don't have.

Apparently if you have a couple of lead follies a good few days before trigger you tend to 'lose' them. I don't know if they disappear but the doctor I've spoken to says they are too mature and the eggs from those follies would not fertilise. A similar thing happened on my last cycle. Well Res I think you probably have the best idea, ignorance is bliss as they say. If I do this again maybe I shouldn't ask about the follicles. I've heard from the clinic, the doctor said he would have hoped for more follies at this stage and he thinks I needed a lower dose of menopur to start with. He is still hoping for 6 mature eggs. I feel a bit better now and I've just had acupuncture which has helped. I'm trying to keep positive.