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Moving on to May...Lets get start acting like Spring rabbits for BFPs in May.

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cowbiscuits · 09/04/2014 12:23

So I couldn't find a May thread, so I thought I'd start one for all of us who have dropped off the April thread.

Aunty arrived this morning so I 've just started cycle 4. TTC #2. Just had a long cycle so if this is the same length my most fertile time will be over Easter weekend.

So I might go all pagan and invoke some Spring fertility goddess. Or something. Or piss on some sticks.

?? Good luck, Spring Goddesses.

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lindamagoo · 23/04/2014 09:42

Lol Star I will imagine Harrison instead Smile

Is it day 21 bloods you are going for?

Stepawayfromthezebras · 23/04/2014 09:39

Morning! can I jump on the May bus? I've not been on a bus since the September one in a quest not to think about TTC too much. But after AF arrived this morning I could do with the solidarity.

Reading the thread this morning has made my head a bit straighter Smile It's nice to know I'm not the only one who finds it difficult to hint to DP when we need to DTD. The early months were a nightmare, we don't exactly DTD like rabbits but I thought that he'd realise if I was initiating it that he should man up. After a couple of months of massive frustration at him not getting the hint I had to sit down and explain the menstrual cycle to him. How can you get to 40 without knowing about that? I have no idea what he thought happened?! So for the last three cycles we've been DTD regularly around OV time and two months ago I got a CB OPK. Fingers crossed for this month. I'm going to buy some lemons Smile

Good luck everyone Thanks

Stepawayfromthezebras TTC #1, Cycle 10, AF BFP due 20th May

Starbright24 · 23/04/2014 09:37

I can't help think of Lucas = Lucas films = star wars = darth vader when ever you say it linda. Lol. Sorry geek alert Blush maybe a younger harrison ford would be better to think of

Anyways. Off for blood tests in about an hour. Anyone know what any of the letters mean - F, G, L, Prog (think i can guess that one), TFT, UE.

lindamagoo · 23/04/2014 09:26

Morning all Smile I'm obsessed with my cervix these days! It has been high for over a week and cervical Lucas is still hanging around! Is this normal from cd 11 to cd 18? Starting to wish I'd never started checking it.

MelMc73 · 23/04/2014 09:24

Cervical Lucas pmsl! Did another CB ov test last night when I got home and lo and behold SOLID SMILEY!!! Woohoo!! Texted DH to let him know then explained the meaning when he got home. Went away out to the gym and came home to him guzzling beer. Not amused! I had one bottle of Corona and he had 5 cans of Stella (I thought he only had a couple)....anyway, bedtime came along...started to DTD...which went on and on and on.....stupid penis dragon was drunk and not playing the game Dragon. Well I was not amused!! Anyway, made up for it this morning instead.

How long after the solid smiley should we DTD for?? I had the flashing smiley yesterday morning and then the solid smiley in the evening so the LH surge must have occurred during the day. The CB instructions say this is peak fertility and that you should ovulate in the next 12 to 36 hours so I'm guessing we should have another couple of goes before the dreaded 2WW.....any thoughts people Hmm.

kurama I reckon it could have been because you had drank too much. Its says not to drink too much before you intend to do the test. Have you tried again this morning? I just had first positive opk this month as well and had 3 days of flashing smiles before solid one.

broodysnoopstie · 23/04/2014 09:20

my AF pains are almighty... :( I don't know if it's because of my last long cycle but this is a very bad one eugggh Sad

spinningirl10 · 23/04/2014 09:18

My dp came in this morning and asked if I was pregnant!! He says my symptoms yesterday were exactly the same as when I got my bfp before!! I thought this but at 5/6 dpo it's surely too early to have symptoms?! Ah I hate symptom spotting!!! Gonna be a long few daysGrin

Starbright24 · 23/04/2014 07:58

Dragon love the dragons Dragon
ouch! Fed up with ovulation pains. Seems to be my regular thing now. Days worth of it. Got them for the last few cycles. One side hurting slightly more than tge other each cycle. This time it's right. I'm going to take it as positive that I'm ovulating Smile
Have felt really full over last couple of days and sort of but not quite crampy Shock Symptom spotting lol!!

EnglishGirlAbroad · 23/04/2014 06:40

I literally flip my legs over my head and hook my feet into the head board of our bed after DTD!! Stay like that for 10 mins and then grab a cushion and sleep with that under my backside! No lost swimmers for me!! Wink

kurama · 23/04/2014 06:11

I dont sleep on a towel but I normally dont move for rest of night lol. blank circle again which I suppose would be normal..... just keep thinking that yesterdays test is wrong so I want to keep testing. .....

Viperama · 22/04/2014 23:21

Ah karuma! half bridge in yoga is my now post coital default position. I'll be in that in about 45 minutes I recon. Probably tmi for everyone but to try and keep the goodies in I've been going to sleep on a towel straight after and staying put until morning. Oh the shame!

kurama · 22/04/2014 23:15

ok ive officially lost the plot. as I got a solid smiley this morn I attacked dh tonight and now im laying here with a pillow under my arse and my knees on my chest with dh snoring next to me. you l9t have all given me insane ideasGrin lol

Viperama · 22/04/2014 23:15

Oh we must enjoy those dragons on the other thread while we can!! Lol.

How are you doing Nordic?

Nordicmom · 22/04/2014 23:10

Oh st George's day ...Hah

Nordicmom · 22/04/2014 23:09

How long has the dragon been there?

Viperama · 22/04/2014 22:49

chandlers your cleaner story is brilliant! I'm sure if your cleaner is a woman she'll deduce what the cup of wee was for - lol. Hopefully there were pee sticks in the bin?

Brummie def apply, if you get it it'll get you a BFP for sure! I'm a year older than you and TTC #1 as well. If it were me I'd go for both but prioritise a baby if push comes to shove, years from now I won't give a toss about what work I did but I would regret not having a little sausage.

I'm so worried I've missed my chance, it took me so long to decide it's for me as it's such an important commitment and if I was to be a mom I wanted to feel I'd be able to be the best. I just want one, it's not too much to ask surely!?

toothachereturns · 22/04/2014 22:13

PMSL at Cervical Lucas. Is he a gynaecologist????? Grin

MademoiselleG · 22/04/2014 21:54

Ooohhh cervical Lucas! Best typo.

MademoiselleG · 22/04/2014 21:52

Hello all, putting one foot on (don't mind standing if there are no seats left!) as my cycles have been weird. My tracker app reckons AF - sorry: BFP of course!!- is due 28th April but I've ov'd later than it thinks I should have done (useful...) so I'm really only 6dpo. I'm on the April bus too just in case. Managed to stay calm and collected until everyone just fecking irritated me today! SYMPTOM??? Feeling super tearful, irritable, have spots on my chin and forehead (hardly ever get them), really thirsty all the time and constant sensation (not really pain as such, just odd feeling) on the left by my ovary...but I'm 6dpo, so must be in my head.

Stats: 33, ttc#2, cycle#5, bfp early May (1st?), edd 6th January (just like #1!)

Happy pounding for those on smiley faces Dragon Dragon roooaaarrrr

kurama · 22/04/2014 21:52

nooo! only managed to dtd on sunday so far! must dtd tonight and attack dh again tomoro as soon as he gets home :'(

lindamagoo · 22/04/2014 21:39

Kurama I used the digis for the first time this cycle and got a solid smiley on cd 11 in the morning but blank circles after that, think you may have still ov'd though cause I'm sure I did Smile

kurama · 22/04/2014 21:27

hey i have a question, this morning when i tested i got a solid smiley on cb opk, ive had pains on right for most of day and now its moved to the left side, but i just did another test to make sure and i got a blank circle... maybe i didnt wait long enough or drank too much??? ive been so excited today as ive never had a positive result ever in the two years weve been trying..

lindamagoo · 22/04/2014 21:23

Haha, well just so you all know I've still got loads of cervical Lucas, 7 days now, SYMPTOM??? Smile

xBlueberry88x · 22/04/2014 21:17

Less* icky god I cant spell!

Off to grab the dp now af has buggered off I hate waiting a week lol

xBlueberry88x · 22/04/2014 21:16

Cervical mucus sounds so horrible lucus alot let icky lol

Welcome choco