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When's the best time to get pregnant? Use our interactive ovulation calculator to work out when you're most fertile and most likely to conceive.

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If at first you don't conceive...shag, shag and shag again. BFP due in April.

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DrewsWife · 26/03/2014 14:05

Well here we are. Again!

Month 5 ttc #2 with a nearly 18yo DD

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toothachereturns · 23/04/2014 18:49

Echo what others have said.... could still be you this month Victoria! Smile

I need some advice... I'm cd7 and have just had a positive opk result. is that even possible? AF only stopped 2 days ago. And I've no ovulation cramps at all. Am I really about to ovulate! ?? Confused

wiltingfast · 23/04/2014 13:16

Not silly, just hopeful and we're all guilty of that PLUS you've no af yet so hang in there for a few more days.

x

victoria401 · 23/04/2014 12:58

I was silly to expect this month to be any different to the rest.

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DrewsWife · 23/04/2014 11:30

Don't give up hope Victoria. It will be your turn soon. Xxxx.

RPopz I was positive I had replied to you yesterday but clearly it didn't post. Shock

Can't eat yoghurt as it likes to reappear.

No sickness so far just nausea. Waiting on that kicking in.

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wiltingfast · 23/04/2014 09:16

Aw, vic sorry hon. Maybe wait and try again Thursday if af doesn't show up?

RPopz · 23/04/2014 07:19

Sad Too early? I guess you're not out til AF shows up though x

victoria401 · 23/04/2014 07:08

Of course the answer is no, bfn.

Mikeysmum2906 · 22/04/2014 23:54

Good luck victoria. Im not due af til weekend think am 9 dpo but not sure stupidly poas this am and of course its bfn. Have very weird twinges now and then in pelvic area. Sore bbs easing now not holding out tho this month think itll be a bfn and af will arrive as usual. Maybe a blessing tho with my surgery the week after next.

toothachereturns · 22/04/2014 22:11

Woohoo Victoria!!!!! Grin Grin Grin Grin

victoria401 · 22/04/2014 21:48

Mikeysmum, long time no see!

Ive made up my mind, I'm poas tomorrow morning!

Mikeysmum2906 · 22/04/2014 20:31

Congrats drewswife :)

RPopz · 22/04/2014 17:26

That's a random thing to have hanging around haha! I've got everything crossed for you Thanks Thanks Thanks Thanks

victoria401 · 22/04/2014 17:23

Someone I know has got a clearblue digi that expires next month. I'm picking it up in a bit. Fx I can use it! I've actually started imagining and kind of pretending I'm preg. Its not going to be good for my mental wellbeing if I'm not! DH is deffo hoping I am so he doesn't have to do his SA next week!

RPopz · 22/04/2014 15:46

Kinda sounds promising Vic!! Can understand not wanting to get your hopes up though. Really hope this is your month Grin

Drew why can't you have yoghurt??? Hmm Sorry you're feeling sick. I think the fact you only dtd twice this month makes me feel worse - all the shagging we've been doing! Envy

Is everyone back at work today? How depressing is it after a long weekend!

wiltingfast · 22/04/2014 12:33

Fingers crossed for you Victoria401, tingly boobs MUST be a good sign Grin

Am 10 dpo here but feeling totally symptomless :(

My only thin hope is I don't feel the af coming either and I usually do have cramping.

Plus I'm not spotty not grasping at straws at all

af due 27 April, aaargh!

victoria401 · 22/04/2014 12:30

But I can't get my hopes up. Keep feeling like maybe I got ov wrong and I'm not due for another week or something!

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DrewsWife · 22/04/2014 10:55

Sounds great!

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victoria401 · 22/04/2014 10:07

So today I have cramps but no spotting (have creamy cm instead!), feels like food is getting stuck at the top of my throat and boobs are tingly but look normal. The wait is nearly over...

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DrewsWife · 21/04/2014 22:54

Don't lose hope. We only managed to dtd 2x. DH was really unwell.

I felt sooooo down about it. I actually think I felt mad at one point. My first test was bfn and I felt so negative about it that I wouldn't test until tooth nearly lost her marbles. Wink

Now I'm fat and homicidal with a DH who has decided to go pay deposit on pram before I've booked the effing midwife. I'm crotch spotting as I'm convinced it's all a dream.

I can't eat yoghurt Angry. I want yoghurt. My boobs are like bricks. And I'm exhausted.

Please don't lose hope.

We have been trying and this was cycle 5 for us. The one cycle was dtd 2x. We used some ph balancing gel for my who ha... And tomorrow in not allowed a lie in as we HAVE to get to docs as matter of urgency. I'm probably going to lynch him Wink.

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toothachereturns · 21/04/2014 22:41

Lol Drewswife! So funny. Grin

Aw Victoria.... I really hope this is your month too. x

I'm back at work tomorrow after 11 days off. I'm having wine to cope. Might regret this in the morningWink

cd5... .. alcohol free from tomorrow on!

victoria401 · 21/04/2014 22:04

12dpo today. Due af Wednesday. If nothing Wednesday then as long into the future as possible. I'm not hopeful though. You kind of lose hope after so long. I don't think this must be my month, I say I assume this month will be the same as every other :-( god how depressed am I today?

How are you feeling drew? Very sick I gather? X

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DrewsWife · 21/04/2014 20:56

Victoria. When do you test??

We are booking midwife tomorrow. DH has already picked a pram. He is beyond excited. I just want to be able to eat. Grin Priorities eh?!!

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victoria401 · 21/04/2014 15:25

I feel ok. Thought I felt nauseous in Tesco earlier but that might have been the 2 glasses of wine last night couldn't resist. Just done some gardening and got a bit dizzy, but not used to the hard work! I've usually got more pre af symptoms by now. No spotting, no cramps. I'm very ratty with DH today but he is being a pain! I've no idea what to expect....

RPopz · 21/04/2014 14:23

Any sign of anything either way?? Grin

I've got another 12+ days to wait!!! Sad

toothachereturns · 21/04/2014 14:13

How are you feeling Victoria?