TTC After MC: The home of hopeful nipples, ovulation eyes and the most determined Mummawannabees around. Chin up, tits out!

Oh dear, I'm the oldest and the saddest. And my garden looks like shit!

TannyLoo 41, TTC #3, MC @ 6 weeks Dec 2012, MMC @ 12 weeks April 2013, MC @ 6 weeks Oct 2013, MC @ 6 weeks (blighted ovum) Dec 2013, MC @ 6 weeks Feb 2014.
Currently on a 3 month break while we have further tests, but had one blood test that suggests an autoimmune issue.
I've been lurking rather than posting for a few days

Evening all! Had a minor panic when I saw that the old thread was full, but managed to follow you here - phew!

My stats: Officelady, 42, ttc#3, mc Feb 2013, mmc Mar 2014.

I am the oldest No wonder I'm not getting anywhere with this ttc lark!
I have news of great importance to share with you, brace yourselves ... last night we ended the the Great Shagging Drought of 2014 and got some bedroom action First time since BFP in January and first time since mc. I'm pretty sure I'm nowhere near ovulating yet so it was purely for recreational purposes. I'm glad that milestone is out of the way - hopefully another step on the road to getting upduffed.

Hi all room for 1 more? A few names I recognise for other posts sorry to see you here glad to have others who know how I feel google just is too conflicting!!
I'm ttc #1 since nov '13 MC March'14 30yrs

Feel I'm in limbo don't know when to start ttc when I may be due/ovulating?!

My stats - age 35 21, ttc #2, mc feb 27 at 12 weeks, currently awaiting AF at some point during this WTF cycle.

Welcome newbies... Sorry you've found yourselves here. May you stay be short and sweet. Feel free to wallow, moan, rant and cry. We've all been there.

Sebs - I know you feel your body is failing you but its just reseting ready for a nice sticky bfp! CUTO and a big hug!!

Parsley - I'd be inclined to stamp my feet if I were you! Two years is a long time and the mc just adds insult to injury!! Any decent doctor would at least offer some initial investigations. Its so unfair that a mc resets the whole long and frustrating process! Good luck!!

Aloha!!

Don't forget me!!

Sal1977 36 ttc#1 since Aug 2012. 3 x MC Mar/jul/nov'13

Fuck, my stats are the most depressing out of everyone's!

MissHobart 33 ttc #1 since Jan'13, mc July'13 and Dec'13

Currently due on tomorrow, bfn last Saturday, no symptoms of anything at all this month

Ooh I forgot my age. Nearly 36!! So not too far off cake

Oooo and do I get the prize for oldest ovaries on this thread?? (37) Another greetings card needed for that surely

Ah sebs, loving the flower bed, sorry you're feeling low but you're definitely allowed to have a good old wallow. Plus of course. How about burying those cheap tests in your new flower bed!?

Welcome to all the newbies, you'll find great support from some fabulous ladies here.

I don't check for one morning and there is a new thread already! Love the title.

My stats are below

Ttc#2 since Feb2013; Mc#1 June 2013 at 5+3; mc#2 March 2014 at 6+3. Can't make it to even seeing a heart beat.

Sorry I haven't caught up on everyone's news. parsley sorry to hear the witch has arrived. Are you planning to see the GP or did I just imagine that?

sebs sorry you are feeling low. We have all been there. At least you are better off than me, mc twice! Fx you will get a sticky bean soo . Love the flower bed!

Ah sebs, my stats buddy - sorry you're feeling so rubbish today! Has AF actually arrived yet though? You know what they say, you're not out until it does... [clutching at straws]

Good work on the flower bed, that looks really nice! And here, have some to cheer you up.

sebs: you are outside weeding your fab-looking garden, you are healthy, you are mobile and you are fertile, it's just a longer, sadder journey than any of us hope for. That is a trout of a sentence! You are going to be fine, you are going to make your bean that will stay put, and in an unspecified though hopefully short length of time you will accidentally send messages on another thread because you haven't slept properly for months with your beautiful new child. Chin up, love, and get those shit hot tits out.

Oh and hello zahazie may your stay be a short one but this is a great place to pass the time :)

Hi all, am back from my weekend away, had a good time but back to reality with a bump.

Sats: TeaRex 32, TTC no. 2 since Aug'13, MMC Jan'14.

Sorry you're feeling so sad sebs I feel the same and you know what, it's justified, our bodies did let us down. Allow yourself time to feel upset and then tomorrow you will jump out of bed cuto style and have yourself a better day

Oh sebs I'm so sorry you're feeling like that. Sometimes you need a really good wallow in the crap before you can begin to feel better again. There will be a better again as well, but I know it's so hard finding the patience for it to come round. More un-MN hugs coming your way. And here's some too xx

Hi all. Marking my place. Will catch up on what I've missed now....

Whoops, I was going to add a photo of said flower bed but in my misery my head slumped forward and pressed send.

I am currently sitting in my front garden in the wind having attacked the flower bed and added a little fence thingie contemplating life I have no energy to punctuate that sentence I am so miserable . I really really dispise my body. The only good thing it has ever done is produce my son.

Sorry I missed you littlelady I will try and do another update later and add you then.

Welcome to any newbies. The route to getting here is awful but we do try and have a laugh amongst the angst and support. Hope all is well jetpack

Sorry you are having a down day sebs

Good luck with the interview otters

Massively frustrating English I am not sure I whether I ovd this cycle either. The signs were there (ewcm, the post-mc-post-ov sore boobs) but never got a positive opk (I ran out on CD 19 and thought sod it). So who knows what will happen? Fertility Friend is predicting AF on Friday so if I haven't started spotting before then I will poas

I have had my Day21 test done as well as tests for chlamydia and gonorrhoea (just had to goggle both to get the spellings, must remember to delete my search history...) - which are apparently prereqs before the infertility clinic will see me. Booked in for Day1 tests on 1st April. I have told DH he can hold off making an apt until we know this month is a no go. I think he has everything crossed even more than usual

Stats so far-
Parsely, 32, TTC #1 since Mar 2012 , MMC Nov '13

Otters, 32, TTC #1 since Mar 2012 (insert swear word), MMC Nov'13. Clomid junky (approaching round #9)
Penguin13, 34, TTC #1 since June '13, MMC Nov 13
cakebaker35, 37, ttc#2 since Oct 13, mmc Mar 14

sebsmummy, TTC #2 since July 2013, mc February 2014

CakesALot 30, ttc since Nov 2013, bfp Jan 2014, mmc and erpc Feb 2014
Metalhead, 34, ttc#2 since July '13, mmc February '14
EnglishGirlAbroad, 29, TTC #1 since July 13, MC Dec13
Gail, 32, TTC #2 since December 13, MC at 12 weeks Feb 14
Seasides, 27, TTC #1 since Sep 2012, BFP Dec '12, ectopic Dec '12
zahazie, 34, TTC #1, BFP first cycle (Jan 14), MC Feb 14. My doctor put me on the pill for 21 days after MC (to sort out the WTF cycle more quickly), so I am now back on Cycle 1 TTC
Jetpackplease, 33, ttc #1 since Dec 2013, MMC at 10 weeks and ERPC March 2014
HollyBen, 39, TTC#2, mc (11 weeks) Mar 20120, DD Mar 2011, ttc#2 since May 2013, mc (9weeks) Sept 2013

Thanks for the new thread Parsley I am just back from swimming with DD and had pulled out the laptop to do it. I will have a go at pulling the stats together......

Good luck jetpack (great name!), hope you get the pain sorted quickly. Sorry for both your losses.

Welcome zahazie - there's not a huge amount of casual TTC (or toad in the hole, as we like to call it) going on here, I think more of the embrace your obsessiveness or is that just me?! Basically, what I mean is that you can't be too crazy. We will understand!

Aw, thanks penguin, I'll put it up on my mantelpiece and freak my mother-in-law out