TTC After MC: The home of hopeful nipples, ovulation eyes and the most determined Mummawannabees around. Chin up, tits out!

Cheers for the new thread
TTC #1 since Nov 13, MC Feb 14 at 5 weeks.

Just wanted to say thank you so much for your support last night, this ttc really has it's ups and real down days, I'm normally better in the week, work is so busy and stressful I don't have time to think, come the weekends I have too much thinking time. Must plan more and get out more (although not to visit pregnant people just yet)

Gosh this thread is moving quickly, I can't keep up! Good to hear from everyone.

Parsley I am 31 (32 in dec)!!

I have had an emotional evening so am saving dispatches until a strong day...probs tomorrow :) I have a rose with a plaque on for our baby boy (although he wasn't for sure a boy he always was to us) and am hoping to have enough spare cash to treat myself to the Tiffany bean necklace on my due date in his memory x

Well done broody and lovely happy story baker! Also forgot to say (on phone) office I'm sending you a 'congratulations on breaking the tith fast' card! X

Well done broody, you're a celeb!

I didn't see it parsley but I''ve read the news stories today-it's awful. People in the 'industry' just get so inured to it I think, they can't connect it with the parent's grief any more. She's commemorated in your heart though, which is a very unlike-me-cheesy thing to say but it is what I mean, as a foil to the heartlessness of the bus.

I forgot what a time you've had of it tanny, these stats are a good refresher though so sad for you. And you carly, I so hope the nhs pull their thumb out of the arse for you soon.

Congratulations otter!!! A great thing to hopefully both distract you from thinking of a bfp and ensure you get one soon

Right. I'm off to...well. Fulfil the biological necessities of TTC. My opks were blank today though, so I think I've got some more tith time to make sure this month is covered.

Good to see some excellent vintages on here ladies
Here's a good news story, a good friend of mine recently had #2 at 43, having had an mmc of twins like me the year before. Just shows it's not all about age thank f@ck for that

Otters amazing news, well done you

Office good work on dtd! I've still got to cross that slightly scary bridge, still bleeding after erpc so it'll be a while here before I feel brave enough.

Parsley I missed Dispatches but sounds like probably a good thing, bit too fragile at the moment.

Yay otters, that's fab news. Well done you!

seb just lots of love for you hun xxxx you'll get there xxxx (yeah yeah un-MN but whatever, I'm broodylicious and I do xxxx and hugs so sue me!)

Remember I said I'd complained about the text reminder from the hospital? And I'd tweeted the journo from the local rag? Well she's made me famous! My story is in today's issue! Haha. Hospital admitted they're shite and are truly sorry for being so insensitive. Ha. Wankers.

Huge congratulations on the new job Otters! Definitely sounds like a good move to me, even if it means slightly stricter working conditions. Plus you're bound to get your BFP soon now, it's Sod's law!

Well done Otters.. this should hopefully ensure inappropriately timed bfp!! Nothing like a new job/wedding/massive holiday to swing the fertility gods in your favour!!

Littlemiss - step away from goggle....its a bastard!

Office welldone for the milestone shag! highfive

Sorry, 29, 30 in 3 weeks!!!

Hi all cheers for new thread,
Ttc #1 bfp aug13, mmc oct 13, mc jan 14.
Ewcm today woohoo!
Hubby feeling the pressure a bit tho, think I'll keep opk activities to myself in future... Poor dh....did manage in the end tho

Hello, thanks for starting the new thread. Up to my eyes in work and on my phone, so I'll be brief:
TTC #1 mmcs @6wks November 2011, same again May 2012, then mmc @ 13wks (baby died 10 wks); Turners. St Marys fixed wonky womb, all tests fine. Awaiting results from Prof Quenby's clinic. Age 37 until Saturday, then will start counting backwards.

Huge congratulations otters :) sounds like it can only be a good thing for your future x

Argh, cross posts with lots of you. and un-mn hugs to all of you having shiteous days and horribly long ttc journeys.

Welcome newbies, hope you aren't here too long. It's a fun place to pass the time though

Well dear thread-sharers, I bloody well got the job!! I should be happy but I'm now bricking it. It's a major promotion, and means that I'll be on strict 9-5 hours when I'm used to moseying in and out when I feel like it. And no more working from home . But, it will be good for future career progression blah blah blah... It's within the same huge organisation in which I already work but a totally different department so I don't think it'll affect maternity stuff if I ever get there again Tell me I'm doing the right thing!! watches former cushy job fade to darkness

FX this gives me a highly inappropriately timed bfp on Friday

Thanks for the welcome.

And so sorry to hear that some of you are having down days. It's been just over a month since my mc and although the feeling of complete devastation has subdued, I still have moments when I just need to cry.

I took a month off from TTC straight after mc (my doc suggested taking the pill) and now I am a bit nervous: worried that we don't have sex at the right time, worried that my ovulation is too late, and my luteal phase is too short, worried about mc happening again.

I have a question: I am DC8 of my second cycle post mc and I had some spotting today (brown watery CM, enough to lightly stain my pants). Has this happened to anyone else?

I have been to gp and fertility consultant, had clomid but won't do any more until I loose weight. I have pcos so that is hard in itself especially when your always down about ttc...grrrrrr! But trying again now so fingers crossed will power stays strong. But in the same boat as parsley thinking that natural bfp will put us back to square one anyway :,( fml!!

Oh Carly, the shit days are shit. Have a dozen or so shoulders to cry on. They're broad and comforting. You too Sebs.

I've been doing so much wallowing and navel gazing that I've been a bit rubbish. But today I feel ok.

@ Carly - 2007?! Are you under investigations yet? for you!

Get onto your GP!

Loving the new thread...also feeling shit today :,( hugs to the rest of you who are down, these bad days creep up from no where!

As for me:

TTC #1 since 2007 :( bfp jan 2014 mc Feb 2014 at 9+5 and still miss what could have been every single day but am eternally grateful for all the support I have had on here x

I guess that's a bronze metal for me in the ancient stakes

Viperama 38 TTC #1 since January 14, MC February 14

CD6 today....bring it on ladies, let's do this this month!

Office I forgot you were a similar vintage to me!

Hi all, I haven't posted in a while but here are my stats:

croft girl80 33yrs TTC #1 since November '13, MC February '14

Think Im still in the midst of the WFT cycle as have had spotting and light AF (?) but no where near normal I am sooo desperate for a 'normal' cycle so I know where I am!