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Newbies TTC #1 gather round :)

334 replies

patienceisvirtuous · 16/03/2014 12:01

Anyone want to join me?

I'm 36 yo, ttc #1 and very excited about it. It's something I have wanted to do for a long time but it took me a while to find mr right!

l know I am no spring chick so I have some anxieties around that but I am trying to do everything right (eating well, exercising, cutting out alcohol/caffeine etc) and I want to start off optimistic :) am a seasoned pessimist/worrier!

Have been tracking my cycle for a good while. My periods are pretty regular and I thought I could feel my ovary twinging (strongly) when it wad supposed to. This has synched with positive opks so I guess I will soon be starting my first 2ww.

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bakingmad83 · 31/10/2014 21:46

Welcome ladies :)

I wasn't on the pill or coil before ttc, so can't help with your questions, but hopefully some of the other ladies on this thread can.

Only 8 weeks to go for me now, but keep coming back to check on this thread to see how people are getting on.

Good luck!

crazypuglady · 29/10/2014 17:43

Can I join please? I'm brand new and pretty clueless. I've been off cerazette for 11 days now. Absolutely no sign of any hormonal changes. I thought I have some ovary pain about 8 days after stopping that lasted about 2 hours but nothing since and no sign of a withdrawal bleed either.

We are 'taking it easy' at the moment so no OPKs, temping or charting. Just regular DTD and hoping for the best. Must admit though, I'd quite like to know what's happening in there.

Patientlywaiting2014 · 29/10/2014 17:36

Hi everyone
Newbie here, help & advice welcome & much needed! Copper coil removed 1st oct also was first day of AF too. ttc #2 but due on Af today just usual symptoms but it's not arrived yet and had several sensitive BFN :( anyone had similar ? Xx

LadesC · 08/08/2014 20:31

Thanks patience Smile . Fingers crossed u get some bfp news soon. Just over 5 weeks so veeeerrry early days but taking each day as it comes!!

patienceisvirtuous · 08/08/2014 19:56

Lades just noticed ur news. Fab :)

Fingers x all goes well this time xx

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patienceisvirtuous · 08/08/2014 19:53

Hi everyone. OP here after a few months out (post mc).

Nice to see the BFPs!!

I'm currently on cd29 waiting for AF. Took a hpt yesterday, BFN, so don't think it's my month!

Fingers x for everyone :)

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Frolicacid · 08/08/2014 19:50

Congratulations happy!! Thanks

happygojo · 08/08/2014 19:04

Went to sainsburys bought wine, chocolate;, steak and a pack of 2 home preg tests... af is due on Sunday/Monday so I am 11 dpo and I only went and got a BFP didn't I! It is faint and it is very early days. It was just an own brand one so going to get a clear blue digital one tomorrow me thinks. I am in total shock. ... and my boyfriend gets the wine! I have been spotting so not getting excited yet. Also have mild cramps. He told me he had super sperm but this is fricking ridiculous!

bakingmad83 · 08/08/2014 13:16

Good luck happygojo. If you can hang on, I can recommend the cheapie test strips. A few months ago when I needed them they were selling 3 for 89p in Home Bargains :)

happygojo · 08/08/2014 09:54

Hi frolic I think I might get one of those 'early' tests and try tomorrow. I dunno how I feel really. I do really want this at my core, it isn't rational it is like my gut instinct but I was on the phone to my friend last night who is suffering with PND and hasn't bonded with her baby even after 3 months so right now I feel I am as scared of a BFP as I am of a BFN. I am suspecting it's going to be the latter. But I will still spend money on a test... like I said. .. It isn't rational!

Frolicacid · 07/08/2014 22:30

When are you going to test happy ? Not long I guess? Fx for you.

Glados2point0 · 07/08/2014 21:00

I'm currently still waiting for any sign of ovulation to happen - I started tracking my temp before I even got my coil removed in mid-July and I had a higher temp then until AF came along, so I'm pretty sure that will be an indicator for me but so far, nothing! I'm on CD 20 now, but I have no idea what length my cycle is (and to be fair, that AF could have been a simple post-coil-removal one, though it lasted a good few days) and I'm getting really impatient just to ovulate, let alone get a BFP!

I guess I'll need to learn patience, but its not easy :( Good luck to all!

happygojo · 07/08/2014 20:06

Fantasy symptom spotting alert!
Ok I am 10 dpo AF due sun/mon. This morning I felt nauseated when I got up. You know when you are not sure if you want to throw up or eat but passed within an hour. I HAD to have pickled onion monster munch when I saw them at the sandwich van this morning. Very tired. Slight cramps a bit away with the fairies and I just had some pinky Brown very light discharge.

No thirst, no boob soreness, not thirsty

Is it worth getting an expensive hpt or am I just mental?

Peanut85 · 05/08/2014 09:42

Hi....Can I jump in on this thread too? i'm new to mums net and still getting the hang of things.

Hubby and I are thinking about trying for our first, so i'm planning to come of the pill at the end of my current packet.

Have any of you started trying straight after your last pill? xx

happygojo · 05/08/2014 09:15

Welcome greysar I have my fingers crossed for you too please let us know how you get on. I am 8 dpo and just going a bit mental. Any other symptoms?

greysar · 04/08/2014 19:38

Hello ladies! Can I join?

I'm 28, TTC#1 after a MMC in February. We've been trying again since May, but because I have long, irregular cycles I'm only on cycle 2... However, today is 9dpo and had some spotting, so I have very very tightly crossed fingers for implantation bleeding!

Looking forward to everyone getting their BFPs Smile

Frolicacid · 04/08/2014 19:36

Good luck with the symptom spotting happy. The hangover was't too bad thank goodness. Not being obsessed is hard! I've gone from just seeing how it goes to thinking about opk's to watching clear blue fertility monitors on e-bay since Friday!!!

happygojo · 04/08/2014 14:17

frolic not being obsessed is really hard! I am currently looking for none existent 'symptoms' hope your hangover eased!

Frolicacid · 02/08/2014 13:02

Good morning! I decided after the coil removal yesterday that last night would be my last big night put for a while. So I'm feeling a bit rough this morning.
Just had a real twinge in what felt like my left ovary. Could be a pain from the coil coming out but could potentially be ovulation. I'm on day 19 of my 33 day cycle. I wasn't planning on doing any opk's for a few months but I'm already reconsidering. Not being obsessed is going to be hard!!

Niva123 · 01/08/2014 21:14

Hi everyone ! I'm completely new - just started taking folic acid yesterday ! So glad I came across this!! Excited to start on this journey but really worried/scared that things might not work out! I'm hoping to wait a few weeks before TTC so I can start tracking my cycle! The ovulation guide seems a bit confusing to me right now ! Any advice would be appreciated !!!

bakingmad83 · 01/08/2014 19:52

That's fantastic news LadesC, so pleased for you :) Hopefully all will go smoothly for you x

Good luck frolicacid!

Frolicacid · 01/08/2014 18:58

Can I join? 34 years young, ttc #1. Copper coil removed today!!

LadesC · 01/08/2014 18:39

Fab to hear bakingmad......can hardly believe it but af 2 days late and have a very faint line on preg test today!! Am a little more apprehensive about it all after last time but fingers crossed. Smile Smile Glad to hear youre gettin on well.....good luck everyone else x

happygojo · 01/08/2014 16:39

Hi everyone. I am on my first 2ww AF due on the 10 August. Not overly optimistic this month but we have to start somewhere and all the info has been so overwhelming.

bakingmad83 · 01/08/2014 06:38

Hello everyone, welcome to the new ladies :)

Haven't checked this thread in a little while. Thanks for asking how I'm doing LadesC. All's well here thanks. 18 weeks now and fairly symptom free at the mo, though I have a little bump. Hopefully you'll get your bfp very soon.

Good luck everyone :)