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For anyone TTC!!! :)

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1lovemyPrincess · 10/03/2014 10:47

Hi I'm TTC my 2nd baby n so far 4 failed attempts! :( thought it would be nice to share experiences with others TTC and then hopefully celebrate with ppl when they get their BFP! AF is due tomorrow for attempt no. 5 so keeping my fingers crossed! How long have you been trying?? X

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nurse1 · 15/03/2014 05:49

Hi everyone im new to the site just trying to find my way. I currently have 3 sons and had my mirena taken out last Oct had 2 normal periods my last being 7th Jan. I did a hpt on 13th Feb with a positive. Since then ive had a blood test with a hcg level of 10700 almost 2 weeks ago and 2 U/S. First one was almost 2 weeks ago with egg sac visable measuring at about 5.4 weeks and no heartbeat of course. I was then sent for another U/S yesterday with blip suppose to be measureing at about 7 weeks could hardly see anything but went to a different scan centre and still no heartbeat and blip still measuring at about 5 weeks. Based on this information I was so gutted as we really want this baby and its our lucky last hoping for a girl but would be happy either way. I had another hcg bloodtest yesterday and today I got results of 36400. So could it just be too soon for the heartbeat. I was so devastated yesterday I havnt said a word to dh. Just need some advise and maybe others who have gone through something like this.

toothachereturns · 14/03/2014 22:30

Aw sorry about that. but like you say at least you know now. Have an extra glass of Wine

Next month will be the one!
I have a test to do in the morning. Not hopeful. Confused

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1lovemyPrincess · 14/03/2014 21:11

I finally got my answer as came on today :( not the answer I wanted but atleast do know!!

Hope u get ur answers soon! And doubly hoping it's the BFP!!!!! :)

For now I'll be drinking Wine x

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littlemisswine · 14/03/2014 18:01

its so frustrating, its great weve all got this thread though

toothachereturns · 14/03/2014 17:33

Well, still no sign of af here either. I just want to know one way or another!!!

littlemisswine · 14/03/2014 12:50

I think af is due about now but dont have regular cycles so not 100% sure

ive been frantically on Google as I had the mri on tues and because my tests were negative they used a dye but it seems ok so im relieved. My consultants given us 6 months to conceive then if we dont by sept ill start treatment which you can't have during pregnancy so im really hoping to ring her next week and tell her ive got a bfp

ZoBo1234 · 14/03/2014 12:22

It is so so hard. I haven't mentioned to my hubby either. Don't want to tell him until its all completely confirmed that I am. I just don't know where to go from here.....why are my boobs sore and really veiny, why have I been spotting if I'm not pregnant. It's so confusing :(

How late are you now? X

littlemisswine · 14/03/2014 12:18

its really frustrating isnt it zo, I just want to know one way or the other.

I haven't mentioned it to dh

ZoBo1234 · 14/03/2014 12:13

I got a big fat ugly evil nasty negative :'(

littlemisswine · 14/03/2014 12:10

theres a shadow on this mornings test, feeling confused by it all

ZoBo1234 · 14/03/2014 07:59

No haven't tested yet, I'm having some tests delivered in the post so holding my FMU until they arrive! Fingers crossed for you hun!

littlemisswine · 14/03/2014 07:31

sorry to hear that tooth

have you tested yet zoe?

ive been up with ds since 4 so wasted my fmu but hoping to test in a few hours

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1lovemyPrincess · 13/03/2014 21:40

Right just caught up with the convo after working all day!! Crossing my fingers for you little miss, report back and hopefully we'll be celebrating the first BFP tomorrow! How long u been trying again chick? Tooth ache you need to test with morning urine!! So maybe one more check in the morning to put ur mind to rest! I've been getting cramps for a few days and got a bfn on 11th in am but not come
ON so may test again in the morning if still no sign xx

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toothachereturns · 13/03/2014 21:32

bfn.... couldnt wait until morning. Sad

Getting cramps again. Sad Sad Sad Sad

littlemisswine · 13/03/2014 21:09

are you testing tomorrow?

ZoBo1234 · 13/03/2014 18:55

Oooooo let us know how you get on!!

toothachereturns · 13/03/2014 18:40

I'm at tesco. .... buying more tests. Wink

ZoBo1234 · 13/03/2014 18:31

Going to test again in morning with first wee.....will let you know how I get on. I've got everything crossed!

toothachereturns · 13/03/2014 17:52

Zobo there's a line !!!!!

littlemisswine · 13/03/2014 16:57

I think theres a line but not a very clear one, im testing again tomorrow and in the same position as you.

as your late your gp should do a blood test to confirm if you ask

ZoBo1234 · 13/03/2014 16:51

www.canyouseealine.com/view_home_pregnancy_test.php?testID=46819

Mixed opinions.....

littlemisswine · 13/03/2014 16:48

is it def a bfn zoe? if youve still got the test take a photo of it as mine is alot clearer on the photos then on the stick

im still not counting mine as a bfp until it shows a definite line and on a digital test too

sleepisforthetired · 13/03/2014 16:10

ZoBo you mentioned the discharge - is it possible that was af?

When you say your irregular, is it be normal for you to go almost 6 wks?

I only ask as previously (before last pregnancy) it was normal for me to go up to 8 weeks with nothing. Now I am much more "average" for cycle length - although I do have months when there is next to nothing, and others that are the other end of the spectrum (don't want to be to graphic but sure you know what I mean!)

ZoBo1234 · 13/03/2014 15:29

I should have come on by now. Cycles aren't overly regular but first day of last period was 5th feb

littlemisswine · 13/03/2014 15:12

Sorry to hear that, when is af due?

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