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Late AF, two BFNs....I am going CRAZY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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ThingsThatGoHumpInTheNight · 20/02/2014 16:55

CD34 now, usually a 32-33 day cycle, I have been so good this month - no symptom spotting, no early testing....now I am officially late (latest I have ever started is afternoon of CD33) - so I tested last night and this morning with a standard First Response test (not the Early Result ones) each time, and both unarguably BFNs Sad .....what is going on? Everytime I go to the loo and there is no blood the little ball of excitement that is growing inside me gets bigger, but I just know that I am not pregnant and AF will turn up eventually (no symptoms at all).......anyway, just a rant really - feel free to ignore!

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babytinks89 · 21/02/2014 20:56

I'm still lurking around with a bfn and no af either!!

20dpo expected ovulation day... cd34 same long cycle i had last month!!

Fed up now i actually just want af to be here so i can get back on it for March! Confused

Fingerscrossed10 · 21/02/2014 20:51

Hi treacle
I keep doing that too!! Am starting to think it's really really common... Though it might be that I have just googled it 6 thousand times!!!
I have been a total grumpy arse today, this is totally doing my head in!!

Treaclepie19 · 21/02/2014 16:29

Can i hop on here please? Feeling terrible today. Cd35 and just sitting reading stories about late bfps...

Fingerscrossed10 · 21/02/2014 16:12

CD33 now a week late!! I have resisted the urge to test today but might try again in the morning.
Anyone got any positive news yet???
Hope you guys are still managing to stay sane and functioning!!

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ThingsThatGoHumpInTheNight · 21/02/2014 14:18

2 more BFNs today...am so Sad Angry Sad Angry Sad

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LittleOne76 · 21/02/2014 06:17

I'm the same. Usually a 33 day cycle and now three days late and no AF. I tested when I was one day late and BFN. I'm trying to hold off testing until tomorrow morning when I will be four days late...... I feel a bit crampy and very tired but no obvious signs. With DS1, I remember I had quite a bit of CM and sore boobs by this stage. Am hoping it's just a matter of every pregnancy being different....
I do hope AF arrives soon if I am not pregnant though as the uncertainty re. my cycle is a bit painful. I've had super regular cycles for the past half a year but have had a history of long and irregular cycles in the past....

Fingerscrossed10 · 20/02/2014 18:49

I'm going crazy too!!! You aren't alone!!
CD32 normally 26 and now 2 BFN's...
It's so frustrating... I just can't help it but have a tiny glimmer of hope still even though the tests are negative! I don't know why as no symptoms either way still... Maybe just me willing it to be a BFP!!!

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ThingsThatGoHumpInTheNight · 20/02/2014 18:09

Thanks feet... praying that happens to me

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findingherfeet · 20/02/2014 18:08

If it helps, I was four or five days late (with a bundle of bfns in the bin) before I got my positive. I just KNEW! Good luck

whenskiesareblue · 20/02/2014 18:05

Me too, around seven days late. Had bloods done at gp yesterday. (Hi Nanny!)

Doctor didn't actually mention possibility I might actually be pregnant so I'm now just hoping I get AF soon!

There must be something in the water - all these late AFs and negative tests! Fx they turn into BFPs soon x

mylittlesunshine · 20/02/2014 17:38

You have my sympathies, I'm 6 days late but had 3 negative tests. It's really frustrating, I had loads of symptoms that made me convinced I was then they went away and today I feel very queasy again and have painful nipples tmi! I had cramping a few days ago that I thought could be AF but it's gone now. Trying not to test again for a while as I hate seeing that bfn.

I have everything crossed for you, keep us updated to how you get on x

NannyGR · 20/02/2014 17:32

Thank you, trying not to think about it for now! Let me know how you get on x

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ThingsThatGoHumpInTheNight · 20/02/2014 17:26

Wow, really hope this is your month! Thing is, I bet the stress of worrying is not helping - if you are not pg, it will just delay AF even more...this TTC is so hard - I have my fingers crossed for you

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NannyGR · 20/02/2014 17:10

Yes its horrible, I went to the doctors weds, after testing 3 times before that. She said to give it a week, test again and if still negative she'll do some bloods. MEGA frustrating as am normally like clockwork and have been trying to conceive for 10 months, roll on Tuesday!!!

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ThingsThatGoHumpInTheNight · 20/02/2014 17:07

Wow Nanny, I don't know if I'll last two weeks! I was thinking I would get down to the GP after a week...I want to know as have an underactive thyroid which needs testing ASAP as my meds may need adjusting....It's just so frustrating isn't it?! Especially when you soooooo want to be pregnant - how many times have you tested?

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NannyGR · 20/02/2014 17:04

Am going through exactly the same thing, am now 9 days late and nothing, am giving it until Tuesday (then will be 2weeks late) and I'd still BFN am going to doctors for blood test. There's a couple of other threads on here of a few of us experiencing the same thing so you are not along! hugs

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