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Late AF, two BFNs....I am going CRAZY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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ThingsThatGoHumpInTheNight · 20/02/2014 16:55

CD34 now, usually a 32-33 day cycle, I have been so good this month - no symptom spotting, no early testing....now I am officially late (latest I have ever started is afternoon of CD33) - so I tested last night and this morning with a standard First Response test (not the Early Result ones) each time, and both unarguably BFNs Sad .....what is going on? Everytime I go to the loo and there is no blood the little ball of excitement that is growing inside me gets bigger, but I just know that I am not pregnant and AF will turn up eventually (no symptoms at all).......anyway, just a rant really - feel free to ignore!

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babytinks89 · 26/02/2014 20:19

Well still no af! Cd39 tested today first time since sunday and a bfn again. What the hells going on longest cycle ever....

babytinks89 · 25/02/2014 13:05

Had some cramps earlier this morning. But still a no show!

Anymore afs arriving or any bfp's? :)

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ThingsThatGoHumpInTheNight · 25/02/2014 07:14

I think lots of cm is a positive sign. Fingers crossed for you. I think AF is on her way for me this morning. Glad to be out of limbo even if it is not a bfp

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gloopygloop · 25/02/2014 07:08

I'm out Af arrived this morning :-( but at least I know now .

Good luck to all those left!

NannyGR · 25/02/2014 06:28

AF has arrived for me today! Only 2 weeks late!!! Bloody annoying this TTC!!! Good luck everyone else

babytinks89 · 24/02/2014 22:53

I have had a lot of ewcm as well..... Wasn't sure if thats a good sign or not? Does anyone know....

Sorry mrs :( roll on the march bus for the bfn and af's arriving, i hope i'm there soon so it can put me out my misery!! Sick of waiting now :(

Kaliani · 24/02/2014 22:24

I'm now 2 days late. Had a bfn this morning. No signs AF is coming. Loads and loads of milky cm (is that normal? Can't find a definitive answer on the tinterwebs if it's a symptom or not) Been feeling nauseous on and off, and I nearly passed out on Friday shopping for DD's new bedroom stuff.

So frustrated. Just want to know either way so I can get going on next month!

MrsHJ · 24/02/2014 21:59

Af arrived this morning, I'm gutted Hmm never mind, maybe next month.

Good luck everyone!!! Xxxxx

babytinks89 · 24/02/2014 20:45

I'm still waiting cd37
I've stopped testing as well, i get that horrible sunken feeling in my stomach when that second line doesn't appear! :( if no af by the weekend going to book into the doctors. Really thought my cycles would be back to normal since mc in november.....
But then holding onto that hope that this is just a shy wee bean and a bfp might show soon. I havent had any af symptoms usually get cramps a day or so before but not felt a thing!

NannyGR · 24/02/2014 17:15

I've had light spotting for 2 days now but not proper sign of AF, am 13 days over due!! Am going to test again tomorrow. Don't really know what to think of the spotting though so any advice would be great full! X

Vicky5910 · 24/02/2014 11:53

I'm still waiting for af...!

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ThingsThatGoHumpInTheNight · 24/02/2014 11:04

How is everyone else doing? Still no af here! Tempting to test everyday but BFNs are so upsetting....cd38 for me Sad

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Hibou7688 · 23/02/2014 22:39

Got me! Arrrhh. 40 day cycles must be my thing now. Wonder what march will have in store! Good luck everyone Wine

babytinks89 · 23/02/2014 16:29

I hope not hib! :(
Iv had no cramps at all, body just feels empty

Hibou7688 · 23/02/2014 15:54

I'm the same as you tinks however I am feeling a little crampy now so think af is about to get me! Argggh

babytinks89 · 23/02/2014 15:24

I really hope we just have severely long cycles this month girls!! I feel i cant conceive right now because i have no idea what my bodys doing how many cycle days i have, when i'm ovulating earlier or later even though iv done opks, obviously isnt working!!

Vicky5910 · 23/02/2014 14:18

Hi mrshj hope there's something in the air and we all just have delayed bfps! Is there a chance you ovulated late? X

MrsHJ · 23/02/2014 13:10

Hi all! Hope you don't mind me joining in?!

I'm day 29 today and technically 2 days late. No period symptoms at all. Couldn't resist so did a cheap test this morn (was only one I had left!) and was neg ConfusedConfusedConfused been trying 6 months now, feeling really fed up today.

toots123 · 23/02/2014 11:27

I know, such a long cycle. Dont know how im still feeling fine about it all. Dh is so good at telling me to keep calm haha.
hibou im the same. Sure I know when I ovulated and it was three weeks ago. Holding onto the false hope that I just have a long lp and a shy bfp. Haha oh well...

CursiveLetters · 23/02/2014 11:22

I'm in limbo too! Currently on day 37, this would be my longest cycle ever. Have hope that I am preg!

After my MC my cycles kept getting longer every month so I starting doing fertility acupuncture. After doing it for one month my cycles were back on track and my period was much stronger (had been barely a blip before). Just something those who are struggling w/ long cycles might want to look into.

babytinks89 · 23/02/2014 11:14

44 days toots? Id be going insane i thought 36 was bad!!
My first cycle after af was 37 then 34 so i'm going to wait to 40 and see whats happening!! I got a positive opk on cd14..... so bfp af surely shoulda been here by now :(
Don't get me wrong i havent been proper stressing so for a lot of us could be the stress keep it away... I don't know... If no af or a bfp by cd40-42 il try get a docs appointment for a check up!

gloopygloop · 23/02/2014 10:59

I tested again this morning. Still negative. It's the not knowing that is annoying me!

So sorry buddhabee I also hope you are ok.

Ah well for the rest of us, the wait continues

mylittlesunshine · 23/02/2014 09:31

I'm sorry buddhabee, hope you are okay.

I'm now 9 days late and got another bfn this morning. Feel so sad as I was convinced I was pregnant, I guess I'm back to waiting on AF arriving.

Hibou7688 · 23/02/2014 09:23

Toots I am same boat as you, in that ny cycles are getting progressively longer! I've not pinpointed when/ifI ovulate though. I got flashing smileys on clearblue at cd9 for a whole week and ran out before I got a peak!! Having such a long cycle I thought I'd ov late but obviously not!!

buddhabee · 23/02/2014 09:16

Well im well and truly out af came with back with vengeance this morning - even a little concerned at how much :(