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2 weeks After Oulating and I still haven't come on

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Kittycat1991 · 18/02/2014 13:48

Still having negative pregnancy tests, I'm late, and I have tender boobs and nipples,

Should I wait abit before I do another test or should I wait and see if I come on ?

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Netty15 · 23/02/2014 10:43

Hi guys, need some advice, stressing myself out! Been off the pill for 5 months, had 3 normal cycles but the last one I was 5 days late and then this month I had a really light bleed the day before I was due but haven't come on since, I'm now 3 days late but had a negative pregnancy test. Is this the pill still messing with my body? I'm now worrying about tracking ovulating coz I haven't had a normal 28 day cycle!xx

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Kittycat1991 · 22/02/2014 21:57

I was on cerezet the mini pill I don't think I can spell it lol

And I know it's gutts him every time :( xxxx

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Helen87 · 22/02/2014 21:45

Have you had normal periods up until now coming off the pill? Which were you on?

I know, it's so hard for both of you isn't it Hmm xx

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Kittycat1991 · 22/02/2014 21:41

October aswel bab,

I know I feel the same thing I keep getting bfn and I'm just having so signs I'm going to come on, it's scaring me I don't know what to think it do any more,

Everytime I tell my boyfriend I have bfn I seen the sadness in his face I don't know what to do :( Confused xx

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Helen87 · 22/02/2014 21:37

I was on yasmin and stopped taking it at the end of October. You?

I'm the same, don't remotely feel like I'm going to come on. I really don't know what I'm thinking anymore. Last week I thought I was pregnant but after the bfns today, I'm not sure. What are you thinking?xx

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Kittycat1991 · 22/02/2014 21:24

When did you stop taking the pill chick? And what pill was you on? I just don't know anymore I don't even feel like I'm going to come on my period :/ so I don't know what to think

I'm going to do a test next week if I still haven't come on because it's then been two weeks without a period and if still a bfn I'm going to go to my doctors and have a blood test :)

What do you think chick ? Xx

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Helen87 · 22/02/2014 21:19

Based on a 28 day cycle, AF is now 8 days overdue. Not sure about testing again. Probably just have to leave it another week and see what happens.

It's awful isn't it. All I can think is that the pill is still messing my body up and last months normal cycle was just a fluke. Really hard to know what's going on.xx

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Kittycat1991 · 22/02/2014 21:16

Hey you lot I have had another BFN and I still haven't come on :(. All confused and I don't know what to think or do because I'm 7day late :( xxxxxx

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3isourmagicnumber · 22/02/2014 21:05

Aw no Helen. When was af due. I can imagine u must all just feel in limbo. When r u going to test again xx

I'm not using any ovulation tests but know it's round about now. So I have at least another 2 weeks before I will know either way xxx

Helen87 · 22/02/2014 17:04

Any updates anyone? I got a bfn so no idea what's going on really Hmm

3isourmagicnumber · 21/02/2014 21:08

Good luck for Tom. Hoping u get good news xx

Helen87 · 21/02/2014 19:02

3- sorry to hear that, it must have been really hard for you. Thanks for the good luck Smile

Any update anyone? I have my first response test ready and waiting for tomorrow morning. I'm sooooo scared!!

3isourmagicnumber · 21/02/2014 17:55

Hi Helen. This is cycle 1 for me tcc #3 so very early days for me.

Quickly my situation is that with both my ds I fell quickly and with No problems and we were happy with 2 children and thought that was it. However in sept we had an unplanned pregnancy which unfortunately ended as a chemical. It has made me desperate for #3 and like most people on here stressing over getting a bfp. What is worrying me more is having another chemical.

I have found a lot of comfort reading everyone's individual stories and am eager to come on each day to see if there are any bfps. Again good luck to you all. Looking forward to hearing good news for u all soon xxx

Helen87 · 21/02/2014 07:39

Really sorry to hear that newbie, must be really really rubbish. I know I'll be gutted if it happens to me as well. I'll definitely be reaching for the wine to try and cheer myself up. Wish our bodies didn't like to play tricks on us like that.

Best of luck for next cycle and thanks for the support too.xx

Newbie784 · 21/02/2014 07:23

Sorry Helen to not give you hope but I'm out this month :( feeling really down about it to be honest. Had a good cry and now trying to do something with my face to cover it up before work.

I've been ttc for 6months now, I know with it being our first it can take longer but it's still upsetting. I didn't used to to really chart my cycles but now I have and my lp is 10 days that has got me worried although I don't know what happened this month.

Best of luck to you both, I really hope you get your bfp's this month and I will keep an eye on this thread to see it happen.

Thanks both for your support, on to cycle 7 for me x x

Helen87 · 21/02/2014 06:51

Kitty- haha yeah not sure freedom is the right name at all. Never heard of those! Yeah it is nice he takes an interest. Do you think the doctors will give you a blood test? I read on the nhs website you can go to the doctors if you're still late with no BFP after about a week or so but I'm not sure if they'd tell me to wait it out seen as I've only had one normal cycle after coming off the pill?!

Newbie- really hope that you're not out. Do you usually have slow spotting coming up to AF?

3- thanks :) good luck to you too

How long have you two been TTC for? Have you both had normal cycles up until now?

We've been TTC properly since jan, but this was my first cycle where it looked like everything was going to be normal. Last cycle I had a lot of spotting etc throughout the month. But then it was pretty textbook when AF arrived, with the backache and cramps and then her showing up bang on time.

I really hope you two get a BFP soon, it will give me hope as well!!

Newbie784 · 20/02/2014 21:22

Thanks 3-good luck to you too x

3isourmagicnumber · 20/02/2014 21:10

Just saw this post and hoping u all get a good result over the weekend. My bfp not due till 9th march but wanted to join in this thread to see how u all get on. Loads of luck to u all. Ttc #3 cycle 1 xxx

Newbie784 · 20/02/2014 20:54

Sounds really positive for both of you so I really hope you get your bfp's soon!

I think I may be out though, I still have a tiny amount of brownish cm (sorry tmi) it started last night and I still have it. It's only a tiny amount and not there every time and is boy when I wipe but still...

Half of me is hoping its implantation bleeding but deep down I know it's more likely to be the start of AF due to my drop in bbt's. Feeling a bit depressed to be honest, I was going to take a test in the morning but don't think it's worth it now :(

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Kittycat1991 · 20/02/2014 20:33

I think we are in the same boat I think I'll try my best to do one next week, I not I'm going to the doctors for a test because it's starting to do my head in lol,

I think that's the best bet do the fast response one, iv just got normal ones from the chemist I think it's called "freedom" how ironic :/

Yea he likes to know how everyone is getting on and asked if I have spoken to you all today

I hope you get a BFP instead of a BFN

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Helen87 · 20/02/2014 20:13

You definitely seem like you're having loads of pregnancy symptoms as well. I think maybe it's probably just too early to tell with both of us?

My husband is getting me a first response test and then I'm doing to do it on Saturday morning. Fingers crossed I get my BFP then or I'll be going absolutely insane!

Nice your boyfriend is taking an interest in all us too Smile

When are you going to test again?

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Kittycat1991 · 20/02/2014 19:01

That's not good you being really tired I think maybe it's to early to tell because you do seem like you are with your symptoms,

I know I feel like utter shit with my negative but I still haven't come on and in not having any period symptoms.

I have been ridiculously hungry, as soon as I woke up I was starving :( and I am still hungry now I don't know what's wrong with me, iv never felt thing hungry, I'm tired, boobs are growing, and more sensitive, feeling sick and after iv eaten, and feeling faint abit aswel but I don't know.

I was telling my boyfriend about this site he was wondering who I was talking to and he likes to know how your all getting on.

What are you feeling today ?

Fingers crossed we will get what we are waiting for next week! Smile X

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Helen87 · 20/02/2014 18:02

Oh yeah and I used an IC where you do t get the instructions on the packet. I read them after I did the test and realised I possibly didn't leave the stick in for long enough. Not sure if that has any impact on the result or not because the control line showed up as normal. Aaaaaaaarrrrrgggghhhhh!!!!!

Helen87 · 20/02/2014 18:00

Hi, still no sign of AF for me. I've been ridiculously tired today and came and got in to bed as soon as I got home. Also been in the worst mood ever! Decided to do a test when I got home just in case. Told myself it's likely to be negative because I had only been to the loo about 2 hours before and it might still be too early etc etc so not to get too depressed if it was a bfn. It was a bfn and now I am depressed. Argh, really wish I had of held out until Saturday. I'm getting more and more nervous now that I might get a bfn on Saturday too and still be in no mans land! This waiting around is so unbelievably awful!

Any news for you two?

Honestly what do you think your chances are? I was feeling pretty good about it until tonight Hmm

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Kittycat1991 · 20/02/2014 15:06

BFN :( still but no period Hmm

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