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BFN and no AF

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Treaclepie19 · 17/02/2014 12:59

I know there's a thread already but it seems to be empty now.
Just wondered if anyone was in the same boat?
I'm on cd31 today, bfn and no af. 21dpo.

This is my longest cycle in the past 2 years (cant say before that as wasnt tracking). Last month was only 24 days and this month I ovulated on cd10 so expected another 24 day cycle - af on tues.
Anyone relate?

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Treaclepie19 · 17/02/2014 19:59

Yeah... Me and DH have been arguing tonight cus im so stressed.
Ive been googling and worrying its ectopic and thats the reason.
Yeah im a teacher :)

I will test tomorrow, I cant deal with not haha.

Just looking at this, giving me hope: www.countdowntopregnancy.com/pregnancy-test/dpo-chart.php?dpo=21

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whenskiesareblue · 17/02/2014 19:52

Ah it's nice not to be waiting alone! DH is understanding (and obv keen for a BFP too) but he's that bit more detached. Which us understandable.
Do you teach by any chance?? Wondered as it's half term and you have the week off..
So tempted to test tomorrow but I think I will wait till Wed or Thurs. If it's a negative them I know I'm definitely out. The strange thing is I don't feel pregnant iykwim but I don't feel like AF is on way. Aaa argh!

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Treaclepie19 · 17/02/2014 18:56

Definitely wait together :) I think I'm going to go to the doctors this week cus im not at work.

I really just want af to come now so i know!

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whenskiesareblue · 17/02/2014 18:53

I think I might test again later this week, but not sure when. The bfn was crushing.. A lesson in counting my chickens I guess! So I am resisting the test in the cupboard.
If still no AF and BFN I'll prob book dr appointment for beginning of next week. I need an answer!
Do you want to wait together?! (Can't believe how similar are dates etc are!)

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Treaclepie19 · 17/02/2014 18:47

We are pretty much the same then!
Ive had cm and cramps. Very tired but thats about it.

Im not sure what to do :( might just go to the doctor to ask for advice. How about you?

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whenskiesareblue · 17/02/2014 18:35

Yes! Me! I am on CD 31 and usually have a 26 day cycle (it varies each way by a day or two). Last month I had a 23 day cycle, which is quite short for me, but it was my first cycle after a chemical preg so thought that was why.
I had a BFN yesterday with FMU and now don't know what to do! Never had a cycle longer than 28 days.
I'm trying not to hold out any hope for a positive as it seems unlikely, but the alternative is AWOL period which worries me...
Have you had any symptoms? I had (tmi) quite a bit of cm and a metallic taste for one day, but that might have been because I was coldly.
I'm so distracted by this - it's doing my head in!
What's your next move?? Fx for you xx