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BFN and no AF

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Treaclepie19 · 17/02/2014 12:59

I know there's a thread already but it seems to be empty now.
Just wondered if anyone was in the same boat?
I'm on cd31 today, bfn and no af. 21dpo.

This is my longest cycle in the past 2 years (cant say before that as wasnt tracking). Last month was only 24 days and this month I ovulated on cd10 so expected another 24 day cycle - af on tues.
Anyone relate?

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whenskiesareblue · 19/02/2014 10:36

Hi girls. Just a quick update. I went to doctor this morning to get some advice and she was lovely. She said it's probably a hormonal blip delaying period. Possibly because of chemical preg in Dec. I'm having some basic blood tests done so will see what they say. She may do day 21 blood test to confirm ovulation but of course that can't happen til I have AF!

In the meantime we're back to DTD every other day as no clue when I will next ovulate.

Treacle hope your appointment goes well tomorrow - you're not out yet!

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Treaclepie19 · 19/02/2014 08:21

:(

I hope so! I'm now on cd33, 23dpo and at least 5 days late.

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whenskiesareblue · 19/02/2014 08:07

BFN here too Sad boo

Not very surprised really. Just want AF to arrive so we can start trying again!

Surely one if us has to have news of AF or BFP soon... Hmm

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Treaclepie19 · 19/02/2014 06:21

Hi espa :)

Haha I do too skies, giving up hope this morning though with BFN's again :( Whats going on?!?!

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whenskiesareblue · 18/02/2014 22:51

Hi espa isn't the wait a nightmare?! Fx for you

treacle love that thread! It ain't over!

espa · 18/02/2014 22:01

Me!

My cycle is usually around 21/22 days, give or take. Came off pill in Sept. Had last proper period on 8 Jan, thought I ovulated about 10 days later and had unprotected sex. 5 days later my period started about 5 Days early, but very light and no fresh blood. Lasted about 3 full days and by day 2 and 3 had really bad cramps and felt v nauseous. Thought this might be implantation bleeding.

Since then I've had cramps and nausea on and off, been v bloated and constipated, and just stated to feel a sore throat. Also think I'm peeing mitee but hard to tell.

Had 4 negative tests so far, including tonight. Only just started ttc but with no sign of AF hard to know when I'm going to ovulate. This week would be my second missed AT on a 22 day cycle if the previous was implantation bleeding.

So frustrating!

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Treaclepie19 · 18/02/2014 21:04

Just thought I'd share this haha
www.babyexpert.com/forum/trying-for-a-baby/its-not-over-until-af-arrives/140425.html

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Treaclepie19 · 18/02/2014 16:57

Aww skies, dont lose hope!

toots thats so what I need to do haha!

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toots123 · 18/02/2014 16:47

Ive had a word with myself and decided not to test ahain until next week at the earliest. Going to ask dh to hide all tests from me. He thinks we should test on friday so might keep a frer for then
the lengths I go to not test ahaha

whenskiesareblue · 18/02/2014 16:37

I can see a line. I don't really understand about evaps though? As toots said, I would try again in morning.

I'm going to test tomorrow I think. I think it will be BFN but then I can at least think about going to dr. Sigh...

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Treaclepie19 · 18/02/2014 12:40

I will do, guessing it will be another bfn and I'll feel even worse! :P

Fingers crossed for you! :)

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toots123 · 18/02/2014 12:34

Looks line a line but cant see it clearly on my phone! Keep testing each morning and see what happens.

Im feeling the same as you. Might do a frer tomorrow morning. But I might try and wait till friday which would be 19dpo

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Treaclepie19 · 18/02/2014 12:27

I said I wouldn't do this but it's driving me crazy looking at it...
The test I took this morning, after half an hour there was a faint pink line. I have had quite a few faint lines that I've put down to evap but normally hours later.

I know it probably is an evap but still hoping it is my answer really... here it is:
www.countdowntopregnancy.com/pregnancy-test-gallery/image.php?galleryid=233907

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Treaclepie19 · 18/02/2014 08:39

Last month my af was early :(

Rang doctors and they have no appointments. Got one for thursday, not with the doctor i wanted but still. Hopefully ill have found out either way by then.

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toots123 · 18/02/2014 08:37

Let us know how it goes treacle! Im sure we were both in limbo last month too!!
hi when this is only our second month (third of you count from pill withdrawal bleed)
I know its early days but we really want this to happen! X

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Treaclepie19 · 18/02/2014 07:36

Thanks :)
Yeah just waiting fo the doctors to open so I can go.
Another faint line out of the time limit of cheap test. Grrr.

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whenskiesareblue · 18/02/2014 07:09

Treacle that's so frustrating... Are you going to book doctor appt? This situation really does suck. Brew for you

Hi toots how long have you been ttc for?

I'm trying to hold off testing for a couple of days. It's rubbish though, can't concentrate on anything and feel I am wishing the days away. Pretty sure it will be BFN Sad

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Treaclepie19 · 18/02/2014 07:07

Hi toots :)

Yeah I'm going to the docs today. Feel like I will be wasting their time though.
I wouldn't have thought I could ov late as I got positive opk so pretty sure it was then.

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toots123 · 18/02/2014 07:00

Hi girls. Thought I would join you.
im now 16 dpo and bfn this morning again!

Treacle are you going to the docs today? If nothing by next week I will be going!

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Treaclepie19 · 18/02/2014 06:55

BFN again :(

I must just be fooling myself thinking I'm pregnant.

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Treaclepie19 · 17/02/2014 22:32

Will do!
Im gonna go to the doctors tomorrow cus im back at work next week. I know they will fob me off but really need some perspective as I've nearly convinced myself im pregnant haha.

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whenskiesareblue · 17/02/2014 22:28

Stupid phone! They will probably fob me off but anyway.

Let me know what happens with your test tomorrow!

whenskiesareblue · 17/02/2014 22:25

I will POAS tomorrow or Wed because if it negative then I can get to doctor before weekend. They will prob g

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Treaclepie19 · 17/02/2014 20:10

POAS! :)
I used a first response this morning so must not be pregnant. Ugh.

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whenskiesareblue · 17/02/2014 20:02

Oo that link is very interesting! Gives me false hope...
I have a first response in the cupboard...

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