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bfp due on valentines, 2ww

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littlemisswine · 01/02/2014 18:25

hello Smile

im crossing everything for a bfp on valentines day

cycle #3 for me, ttc our 2nd child

added pressure that if no bfp by mid march we have to stop ttc as ill be starting treatment as I have ms but im feeling hopeful I can tell my consultant no treatment as bfp! !

anyone want to keep me company?

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JonesSchool · 06/02/2014 22:08

Maybe Saturday or Sunday if AF doesn't get me, if it still hasn't arrived by the 12th and the weekends were negative I will try again on the 12th! Scary stuff!

Helen87 · 06/02/2014 22:03

Cycle 2 of properly trying after coming off the pill end of October. I was on for 10 years and it took ages for first proper AF! When are you planning on POAS?

JonesSchool · 06/02/2014 21:46

I'm too scared! Last month I managed to convince myself I must have been, so was really disappointed!
I'm on cycle 3, trying for number 1. I came off the pill after about 13 years in December so have no idea about signs of AF or anything! What about you?

Helen87 · 06/02/2014 21:33

Yeah I haven't had any symptoms other than ewcm. I've also read both sides of it. It makes it so hard to have any idea what's going on doesn't it. Last month I had all sorts of stuff, but this month I don't have any symptoms either. Well either that or I've trained myself not to read too much in to everything! What cycle are you on?

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littlemisswine · 06/02/2014 21:32

I think you should poas!

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JonesSchool · 06/02/2014 21:26

I been like it since Monday!

JonesSchool · 06/02/2014 21:26

I use OPK's, I said I wasn't going to but then became obsessed! I had positive OPK on the 26th which makes it 11 ish days past. Apart from Ewcm no symptoms and I keep trying to spot them, although shouldn't!
It's good to know somebody else is getting the same, I read it can be a positive sign, but then I've also read its AF preparing!!!!

Helen87 · 06/02/2014 21:22

Yeah that's what I was like yesterday and the day before! It's all so confusing isn't it! Do you use OPKs or you just guessing when you ovulated?

JonesSchool · 06/02/2014 21:18

Helen87 I've been wondering about ewcm, AF or hopefully BFP is due 12th feb and I have loads, sorry to be disgusting, it feels like AF is coming so I run to the toilet but no AF. Stressful!!!

Helen87 · 06/02/2014 20:54

*mine

Helen87 · 06/02/2014 20:54

I talk about it to mind and he is excited about being a BFP and disappointed when AF turns up. But he doesn't obsess about it whilst we're waiting. I think men can detach themselves a little bit because it's not their body!

Like the idea of redoing a test together. I'm a crap liar though would have to tell him straight away!!

MyNameIsKenAdams · 06/02/2014 20:41

I dont talk about it with dh yet as he just dont seem interested in the "might I be?" ponderings. He likes fact. I write on the chalk board "Aunt Flo is visiting" in the hall so he knows im.not Grin

This time, I will not tell him when I get a BFP but will pretend it isnt and we will wait for the line to appear together.

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littlemisswine · 06/02/2014 20:21

mine doesnt really mention it, I keep all the dates to myself and dont tell him im poas as I dont want to get his hopes up

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Thisistheyear2014 · 06/02/2014 19:13

I'm glad to hear that I'm not the only one constantly thinking about it! My 0H is so relaxed about the whole thing keeps Telling me to try and keep my mind off of it, easy said than done!! How does everybody else's OH react to the two week wait is it just Mynott so chilled out?

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littlemisswine · 06/02/2014 19:03

I came off cerazette in october but this is our 2nd cycle trying as I was on steroids for my ms so didnt straight away

I will buy a digital clearblue to wave as dh once my ebay cheapies show a line Smile

did anyone use opks this month? im wondering whether to buy the digital ones if a bfn this cycle as I can never decide if its a positive on the cheap ones but def had a line the same darkness on days 13, 14 and 15

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Helen87 · 06/02/2014 18:45

Yeah absolute bargain as long as you're happy to pee in a cup!!

Yeah I symptom spotted loads last month and AF turned up right on queue so I can't do it again this month. But that doesn't mean I'm not thinking about it aaaaaall the time!!

MyNameIsKenAdams · 06/02/2014 18:39

2.75 for 30 tests you say??

Mught have to order some.

Probably right re symptom spotting - I just find it so hard to not think about it.

Thisistheyear2014 · 06/02/2014 18:36

I think you are probably right helen87, I think I'm just overthinking everything! I think I'm going to test on 14th feb hopefully give my OH the best valentines present ever!! I also think I would use my whole stash of tests littlemisswine if I was to get a BFP

Helen87 · 06/02/2014 18:33

Yeah I've got those from eBay too!! And then a left over more expensive one to confirm things if I get a BFP!

What cycle are you on now?

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littlemisswine · 06/02/2014 18:28

they were a bargain at 2.75 inc postage!

I think ill poas on tues then most days until af turns up as with ds I found out at 10 dpo

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Helen87 · 06/02/2014 18:16

I'm going to wait until AF is late before testing.

I've decided I dont believe in tww symptoms. Most things you read say you don't start getting pregnancy symptoms until a good few weeks down the line and also I think symptom spotting is a massive contributor to sending you crazy!! I'm sure some women do experience some symptoms but I reckon the vast majority don't!!

I would also pee on all the sticks in the world I reckon, probably right up until my scan!!

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littlemisswine · 06/02/2014 18:09

ill wee on all 30 of them to make sure!!!!

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Thisistheyear2014 · 06/02/2014 13:50

Hi, Can I join!

I'm also hoping for a bfp on valentines day, is everyone going to wait until there due date for Af before testing? I keep thinking I'm pregnant but I did this the first month we tried and Obviously I was wrong! I think I'm about 6dop and i have only really had a few pains in my back and stomach but just think I'm over analysing everything, could this be possible? Have anyone else had any symptoms or I'm a just going mad xx

MyNameIsKenAdams · 06/02/2014 13:41

Haha. be sort of a bugger if the first one is a bfp Grin

I feel pg.

MyNameIsKenAdams · 06/02/2014 13:41

Haha. be sort of a bugger if the first one is a bfp Grin

I feel pg.

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