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Anyone hanging around with a bfn and no af?

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dildoos · 23/01/2014 20:26

Waiting around 3 days late bfn and awaiting the af so I can get right back on with ttc! I have a monitor to try out and can't start til it comes!! Anyone else waiting the inevitable?

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Brit1392 · 27/01/2014 17:22

my period was due on jan 24 no af so far

SquealyB · 27/01/2014 14:55

Can I leap on this bandwagon please?

Feeling very pregnant, horrible metallic taste in mouth, have gone off alcohol, even larger norks than usual and generally a bit weepy. AF due today, a couple of early BFNs, tested BFN again today but still a no show on the AF front.

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CharlieWoo · 27/01/2014 14:03

I'm due today as well and have had BFN today. All I've had for the past week is slight brown discharge and a spot of blood at 9dpo!

Gennz · 26/01/2014 22:04

oh and I'm sorry caz Onwards & upwards!!

Gennz · 26/01/2014 22:03

Good luck groove and thats

still now AF for me, and another BFN this morning. Going mad!

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dildoos · 26/01/2014 19:34

Sorry caz- that's just rubbish for you both xx

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Cazcol81 · 26/01/2014 18:21

Wait is over for me. AF came yesterday. :-(

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dildoos · 26/01/2014 17:44

Thanks groove GrinGrinGrin yes updates required Wink

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Groovester · 26/01/2014 16:05

Thanks dildoos (great name!) Will update tomorrow evening...

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dildoos · 26/01/2014 15:48

Groove and that's, I hope done bfps arrive soon!! Tough times in the wait leading up, it is normal to feel uber nervous when preg after mc but taking it easy and remembering sadly we mc for a reason and hoping that a nice complete chromosomes embryo is implanting for you xx

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Thatssofunny · 26/01/2014 14:50

Still waiting,...(although I constantly need to go to the loo...aehm,..tmi..sorry). I'll possibly wait for another week. If af still hasn't shown her ugly face, I'll do another test. Would make me about 5 weeks, if BFP. I lost my last one at 5+4, so feel rather nervous about it all.
I got my last BFP after 5 cycles. This is also my 5th month after the 'all clear' post mc.

Groovester · 26/01/2014 09:23

Always regular (28 day cycle.) AF was due on Jan 20th. On the day I had (very little) brown spotting and later on that night when I wiped (once) it was bright red. But that was it. I didn't have to wear as much as a panty liner to contain things - it was pretty non-existent. I have always had a 5 day period that follows a specific pattern so this is way out of the ordinary for me.
Anyway, I've now poas twice and got BFNs. I wouldn't be as worried about things were I not suffering hugely from symptoms (sensitive nips, random crying at random things - seriously every single day, daily squits (TMI!), tummy cramps (which I normally don't suffer with), sore lower back and (according to DH) snoring like a warthog.)
If it's not pregnancy then there's something very odd going on with my hormones. Any ideas ladies? I handed a pee sample into GP and have to call tomorrow afternoon for result. The thing is I can see it being another BFN like the HPTs I've done which would be fine. Except for the fact that I FEEL pregnant! :0/

Gennz · 26/01/2014 01:54

I am! Only a day late but I'm usually very regular. And I always getting spotting a day or 2 before too thatssofunny but nothing. Bfn this morning - I haven't been charting or anything but I think I'm 12dpo. My boobs are MASSIVE which could be AF - I feel like the prow of a ship.

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dildoos · 25/01/2014 18:37

Fx your af doesn't arrive Wink

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Thatssofunny · 25/01/2014 17:55

Sorry to hear that dildoos.
I'm on 14dpo (I only have a luteal phase of 12 days,...and I'm relatively sure about when I ov'ed), but got a bfn this morning. No sign of af. Usually, I get a few days of lightly brown discharge before af gets here. Not sure what is going on.
Quite possibly, af will arrive within the next few hours after me writing this. Hmm

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dildoos · 24/01/2014 21:50

I am out arrived today raaasaaaaasaaa!!!! However fx lovely ladies for some bfps!!!!!! X

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sizethree · 24/01/2014 21:02

I agree that Mother Nature is a bit of a bitch cookielove! Right up until I started TTC my cycle was bang on 28 days, now it just rocks up when it feels like it. Typical!
Hoping that you get BFP's cazcol and dildoos, fingers crossed.
But if the dreaded AF does show up, I hope that Feb brings you a BFP. Me too in fact! X

Bearsandtoys · 24/01/2014 17:46

AF not ever coming, you are up the duff.

atyourage · 24/01/2014 17:17

Yes I'm wating too.....

Don't know what my AF's are up to, vary from 31-37 days. On day 30 day but my monitor said I ov'd early this month.

Done 4 cheapies-ALL BFN.

So just waiting....

cookielove · 24/01/2014 17:15

Fx you are the ones that get a late BFP Smile

I had it happen to me usual cd were 28, and they two cycles in a row i got extra long ones 39 and 40! Mother nature is a bitch!

Cazcol81 · 24/01/2014 17:11

Me too! TTC#1. AF 3 days late but bfn.

Waiting And hoping for bfp!