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About to start / Just started TTC no.2 (part 4)

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SwedeAway · 13/01/2014 04:45

So, here it is, Part 4! May it bring lots of BFP's for those of us still waiting and may it bring happy healthy pregnancies for those who are fabulously pregnant.

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Metalhead · 20/01/2014 18:23

Hurrah for smiley face Swede! Hope your DH fulfils his husbandly duty tonight! Grin

donnas how was your scan?

Better sorry you're ill now, but maybe this is a good thing as the cramps might well have been bug-related rather than a mc. Really hope you get some good news tomorrow! What time is your scan?

Welcome Hazy! Ttc does drive you mad and makes you examine every tiny little twinge...

Sorry if I've missed anyone, just trying to catch up aftadams conference day in London, which wasn't as bad as us feared thankfully.

SwedeAway · 20/01/2014 17:01

Oh yes. He knows what's expected of himSmile

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HungryHorace · 20/01/2014 17:00

:-) Even better!

Have you warned DH his services are required?!

SwedeAway · 20/01/2014 16:43

Yes quite a bit of the white stuff!

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HungryHorace · 20/01/2014 15:47

Any EWCM, Swede?

HungryHorace · 20/01/2014 15:46

Not super late then, in the scheme of things. I'm a smiley on CD15 person!

You ovulate 24-36 ish hours post smiley, I think, depending on when you get it. As you didn't test yesterday you don't know when the surge started, so it should be today - tomorrow I imagine. I always test with FMU and go with the day after the smiley (especially as I tested at 11 the night before my smiley due to OV pain and no smiley then!).

The sperm should still be there from Thursday, but definitely DTD later!

HazyShadeOfWinter · 20/01/2014 15:44

Darn

HazyShadeOfWinter · 20/01/2014 15:44

[Grin] for the Smile Swede

SwedeAway · 20/01/2014 15:42

Oh and now I have no idea how to calculate my cycle, I thought I was about cd19?

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SwedeAway · 20/01/2014 15:40

Been a bit slack the last few days (lost hope in Ov) so last time was ThursdayHmm So better get down to some serious business. Just to make sure, when the smiley appears this means that I will Ov tomorrow or the next day or does it mean I am Ov now??

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HungryHorace · 20/01/2014 15:36

Yaaaaaaaaaayyyyyy Swede!!! :-)

When did you last DTD? What cd are you on?

HungryHorace · 20/01/2014 15:35

I used My Days, Hazy. It also has a pink flower, confusingly.

SwedeAway · 20/01/2014 15:35

So sorry for all my self centered posts lately, Ov on the brain! But I just got a smileySmile I am so so relieved! Waiting for DH to come home, dtd for sure tonight!!

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HazyShadeOfWinter · 20/01/2014 15:21

Oh better hope it is all just gluten and that time passes quickly until tomorrow afternoon. Waiting and uncertainty are horrid.

Heartbeat and flutters sound so exciting toothpaste, brings it all back from dc1

So I've now got two tracking apps on phone: lady timer which I downloaded months ago only because it was not pink and Period Tracker, with a pink flower. Can anyone particularly recommend either or any other app for tracking?

HungryHorace · 20/01/2014 13:59

I'm glad you heard the heartbeat, Toothpaste. :-)

Tell us more about your MiL...sounds like you need to vent!

HungryHorace · 20/01/2014 13:57

Bloody hell, Better...if it doesn't rain! I hope you're feeling better really soon.

Swede, Fx that you now OV. Good luck POAS later on! Not sure about the nausea? Intense OV?!

Toothpastekissesno2 · 20/01/2014 13:56

Better really hope it's all bug related. Bleeds can be very common in early preg. I know what u mean bout not wanting to get hopes up though. Just want to fast forward. Though u want to get better before so take it easy.
I had tough weekend with mother in law. She is nightmare! Other than that 16 week midwife appt was good and amazing to hear heartbeat - albeit very briefly.
Think I am feeling fluttering too.
Goodluck to all on the wait and also those for the scans !

SwedeAway · 20/01/2014 12:48

Weird symptoms here... left ovary now very painful (in a good way like when I usually Ov) so maybe something is finally happening. Also feeling terribly nauseous which is not normal Ov symptom. Think I will have to do an Opk when I get home just to be on the safe side. I do not want to miss a window of opportunity (if there is one). Or maybe I am just imagining things and this all means nothing:)

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claudeekishi · 20/01/2014 11:10

better glad that you have a scan scheduled now (and also that your sis can look after dd today). You've been through the mill in the last few days :(

donna best of luck for your scan which should be happening around now I guess!

No OPKs here either. I've just been using Period Tracker for the last 2 months and it looks like my cycles are 35-6 days long, boo! The year I conceived DD I'm nearly certain they were a shade shorter (DD was happy accident too). It took a year for AF to return after DD (breastfeeding) and then I went straight into the pill for 6 months so I think my cycles are still finding their feet a bit. Can usually tell when ovulation is imminent because of CM though.

Yesterday I was in Crazyland - kept thinking I could feel very slight cramping going on, tingling/stabby pain in breast and felt a bit dizzy...then realised that I must feel like this EVERY month and just don't notice. Did somebody upthread say Ttc makes them a hypochondriac? Can really relate to that. Normally I don't pass much heed to whatever little pains go on in my body. Boo to the 2ww!

guinnessgirl · 20/01/2014 10:55

Hi Hazy, welcome!

Better - that is really horrid, poor you - as if you haven't already got enough to be putting up with. Hope you feel better soon. Praying for you for tomorrow x

we're not charting or OPKing as I think DH would find it too stressful/pressured, so I'm just trying to keep track of likely OV date and DTD regularly around that! I think I should be OV between today and Thursday, so DTD last night, and will do tomorrow and Thursday too to try to cover all possibilities. Never really ttc before, as DS was conceived almost immediately my coil was removed, so I'm trying not to get too technical too early on... we shall see!

BetterNotBitter · 20/01/2014 10:36

Good luck for the scan donna

Great that you had a decent sleep hungry and also nice and reassuring re nausea.

Just to add insult to injury here (and more confusion) I have now got an awful d&v tummy bug :( spent the night on the bathroom floor. Have awful chills/fever & aching all over. It could be that Ive been glutened (with me having coeliacs) but impossible to know. Hoping its the gluten thing as would hate dd to get it. Thankfully my sister has taken the day off work to look after dd for me as I'm in no fit state.

Bleeding and cramps have both stopped. Now unsure if cramps were re tummy bug/ glutening!! Or if it could be incomplete MC. Rang gp this morning who said they could book me for an emergency scan tomorrow morning, but just going to leave it as the afternoon as dh has the afternoom off work & my mum has taken the afternoon off to have dd.

Sorry to hear youre feeling down lucy do you feel better for telling your parents? Everything crossed for you this month. Are you using conceive plus? Have I asked you before? Sorry if I have. My scans at 3pm tomorrow.

HungryHorace · 20/01/2014 09:32

Donna, even better...I slept all night (bar loo visits!). Think I'd got to the point where I was so knackered I wasn't going to wake up!

If you need stuff, you may as well buy it, no matter what time it is! :-)

I'm not in so much pain today and I'm feeling nicely sick, so I'm a bit happier!

Swede, how frustrating for you. In a way do you think it'd have been better to not have been told about the developing follicles?

Better, have you decided to call the midwife again today or will you wait til tomorrow now? How are you doing today?

Hi to Hazy. Good luck!

Noyoucantwatchpeppapig · 20/01/2014 08:45

Hi hazy I'm similar to you, DD was a happy accident so have not TTC before. It is also our 1st month of TTC intentionally after having a random 70 day ish cycle. Not charting/doing OPKs as hoping it happens quickly.
better hope you can persuade someone to do a scan for you today. Can you self refer to EPAU where you are?
Hope everyone's scans go ok today.

donnas1984 · 20/01/2014 07:53

welcome hazy hope you get a quick bfp xx
hungry dod you have any snacks last night hehe?! I managed to refrain but instead ordered a big ball to sit on and a microwave steriliser! fml ifbhave beem better getting up and making a sandwich! twilight online shopping will bankrupt me!
Better how is you bleeding/pain this morning are you going to call epas? Xxx

SwedeAway · 20/01/2014 05:00

Morning all! Still no news here, life in limbo is starting to drive me slightly insane!!! Was in a bad mood all afternoon yesterday, tried to snap out of it but it was impossible. Still feeling a bit cr@p today, just feeling low. Anway, it sounds like most people have had a nice weekend.

Welcome Hazy!

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