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The bangs turn into bfp's on the November bus! That's firework bangs you filthy lot...

966 replies

ThisIsMeNow · 09/11/2013 17:40

10 BFPs!!

coco808 ttc#1 cycle 3
Grobagsforever ttc#2 cycle 1
LH1981 ttc#3 cycle 3
Dollydaydream27 ttc#1 cycle 1
justanotherforumname, ttc#1, cycle 1
Sparky321 ttc#3 cycle 2
Englishteacher78 ttc#1 cycle 4
Sparklesandfizz ttc#3 cycle 3
nicnacnicnac ttc#1 cycle 1
Choccywoccydodah ttc#2 cycle 3

64 awaiting BFPs!

MrsCarridge Ttc #1, cycle #3 bfp due 5th Nov
Heba1025 ttc #1 for almost 3 years cycle 3 post m/c bfp due 5th Nov
Wineandchoccy ttc #1, cycle #4, bfp due 6th Nov
SarahBumBarer ttc #3 cycle 1 bfp due 7th Nov
MundayCakes85 ttc #1 cycle 4 bfp due 8th Nov
Mrswalsh ttc#1 cycle 4 bfp due 8th Nov
Crazylady2013 ttc#1 cycle#3 bfp 9th Nov
theduchesse, ttc#2, cycle 1, bfp due 10th nov
LePetitPont ttc #1 cycle 3 bfp due 10th Nov
Mumtoacub ttc #1 cycle 6 bfp due 10th Nov
DinkyMole, ttc#3 cycle 2 BFP due 10 Nov
plinkyplonks TTC#1 cycle #4 bfp due 11th Nov
SoMuchFruit ttc#1 cycle 4 bfp due 11th Nov
Findingme ttc#2 cycle 4 bfp due 11th Nov
Karmalaa ttc#1 cycle 1 after mc bfp due 11th
Laptopgirl ttc#? cycle bfp 12th nov
ThisIsMeNow ttc #2 cycle 2 bfp due 12th Nov
ScienceGeekGirl ttc #1 cycle 8 BFP 12th Nov
Lessonsintightropes ttc #1, cycle 3, bfp due 13th Nov
Howly ttc#1 cycle 1 BFP due 13th Nov
SaltySeaBird TTC#2 cycle #2 bfp due 14th nov
Onelifeonechance, ttc #1 cycle 5 BFP due 14th Nov
ImNotAFlower ttc#2 cycle 1 bfp due 15th Nov
Mama31 ttc 2, cycle 5, BFP due 15th Nov
LuckyStar1 ttc#1 cycle 1 post mmc bfp due 16th Nov
Babymamatobe ttc#1 cycle 3 bfp due 16th Nov
Nottalotta ttc#1 cycle 5 BFP due 16th Nov
MovingOnUpduffed ttc #2 cycle 1 BFP 16th Nov
cottonwool4brains Ttc# 2 Cycle 8 (2 chem, cycles 4 & 7) Bfp 17 Nov
Funkymonk ttc#1 cycle 12 (4 post m/c) bfp due 17th Nov
Pocopearl ttc #2, cycle 2, bfp dure 20th Nov
ElCranko ttc#2 Cycle 1 BFP due 20th Nov
ItsSoFluffyImGonnaDie Ttc#1 cycle 2 bfp due 22nd nov
ELR ttc#3 cycle 4 BFP due 22nd Nov
DisneyDiva87 TTC #1 cycle 8(?) bfp due 23rd Nov
ImaginaryHat, ttc#1, cycle 7, bfp 23 Nov
Flymo79, ttc #1, cycle 5, BFP due 23 Nov
HalfPintLulu ttc#2 cycle 2 BFP due 24th Nov
justhayley, ttc#2, cycle 1 after mc, bfp due 25th nov
NeuroticSweetTalk Cycle#3 BFP due 25th Nov
keeponjuggling TTC #2 cycle 11 bfp due 25th nov
sazzlehopes ttc#2 cycle 12 bfp nov 26th
Skybluegirl33 ttc#1 cycle 4 BFP due 27th Nov
AnyFuckersfrogslegs35 ttc#4 cycle1 bfp due 28-30th Nov
Gnomiegrace TTC#1 Cycle#5 BFP due 29th Nov?
TwerkingNinetoFive ttc#2 cycle 3 bfp due 29th Nov
dontsqueezetheteabag TTC #1 Cycle 3 BFP due 31st nov
Aisha18 ttc#1 cycle 1 bfp due ?
barmybunting TTC #1 Cycle 2 bfp due ?
Punkypod, ttc#2, cycle 1, bfp due 5th dec
Refoca ttc #2 cycle #3 bfp due ??
wiggleginger, ttc#2, cycle 3, bfp ?
Lucyfluff ttc #4 cycle 1 post m/c bfp due ?
Vjones1985 ttc#1 cycle 4 bfp due ?
Bohemond ttc#1 cycle 1 post m/c bfp due ?
Violetsareblu ttc#2 cycle 1 bfp due ?
DearDinah ttc#1 cycle 4/5 bfp due ?
Bloumer ttc#1 month 5/cycle ridiculous BFP ?
Flylikeabird ttc#2 cycle 1 bfp due ?
Hibou7688 ttc#1 cycle 1 bfp due ?
Newbie784 ttc#1 cycle 3 bfp due ?
Sausagesaurus lurking.....
SaraRB123 lurking.....
Littlemissy1234 lurking.....

Hopped off onto the December bus

Lime19
Owlie84
Leezl
Lifesgreatquestions
DuPainDuVinDuFromage
Kirstyd1
PinkHat1
Booisgreat
Missvaughan85
Keepswimming1
ADP007

OP posts:
SaraRB123 · 17/11/2013 12:04

Well, I'm counting this as cycle 1 until I get AF as I haven't bled since coming off the pill almost 4 weeks ago x

SaraRB123 · 17/11/2013 12:03

Aww m33r you're so lovely answering my newbie questions - thank you. My opk first thing this morning was a definite negative but will try again in a bit and see what's happening. We are dtd every other day at the moment so fingers crossed we've got everything covered. I got all excited yesterday at the prospect of ov'ing as I've not had AF yet since coming off the pill almost 4 weeks ago, so I felt things were finally starting to work and this was our first real chance at ttc but maybe it isn't time yet? Was all excited expecting to be able to join the 2ww soon, but maybe not yet Hmm

m33r · 17/11/2013 12:02

sara what cycle are you on?

m33r · 17/11/2013 11:58

Hi sara yep the opks can do that. Think about how concentrated the pee was and time of day and stuff. You should maybe also do them a couple of times a day. Not hugely convenient I know. I get that quite often and sometimes get what looks like a pos on IC then get a neg on diggie. It's not full proof. I don't suppose anything is. Just keep dtd-ing I think. Grapefruit and preseed shld help. Keep us posted on the opk sticks.

SaraRB123 · 17/11/2013 11:27

Thanks lovely, wasn't sure if like the pineapple it needs to be drunk at specific times. I like grapefruit juice and I struggle with cm hence me using preseed so I think I will give it a whirl. Was on the way to a +be opk yesterday but today it's showing up as -be which is a bit weird :-/

m33r · 17/11/2013 11:06

Hi sara I drink grapefruit to increase cm making dtd easier and helps the wee swimmers to get there ... I think! I just read it on this thread and thought 'why not?!' The extra cm. Could also be down to the dtd-ing... Anything wortha go I say but most ppl on here (like funky!says) it's just the luck of the draw but I'm playing the odds! :-)

sazzlehopes · 17/11/2013 11:00

Thanks imaginary that is nice thing to say - we all deserve it really! FX december is kind to you. x

*m33r8 - exactly, I too often feel cramps, have off days on food etc etc. Last month I SWORE I felt implantation and probably would have bet my house on it. Anyway ridiculous to guess as i didn't have any symptoms with ds. Nothing. In fact I was one of those lucky few that sailed through pregnancy without a hint of sickness, nausea, heartburn, tiredness or anything else anyone complains of! So I really don't know why I look for things this time round!
Glad the grapefruit juice has helped - I noticed a bit more, not loads though but think I started too late - will drink earlier if there is a next time. Getting used to the pineapple too - not so bad at all to eat! Oh and I think I'll give preseed a whirl next month too.

FX you ov soon! Well done on dtd as much as you can though. Yes hope we can make it a hat-trick with funky!

ImaginaryHat · 17/11/2013 10:45

Choccy I'm so sorry to hear your news, I hope you're getting lots of TLC x

Sazzle and m33r you two deserve your bfps so very much I really do hope you do make the hatrick with funky by the time the years out!

SaraRB123 · 17/11/2013 10:35

M33r, I'm using preseed too so fx. Can I ask about grapefruit juice...when do you drink it? Is it before ov?

m33r · 17/11/2013 10:34

Thanks lucy yes very frustrating but I just use opks all the time to keep me on top of it. And my luteal phase is regular so I don't waste hpts (well I do, but I know I'm doing it!! Know I'm not quite late when I do them!).

m33r · 17/11/2013 10:31

sazzle AF been gone for about a week and being dtd-ing like mad. The temping isn't really working out for me though - I had a huge peak yesterday but def negatives on opks but thinks its because I'm ill (bit coldly / flu-y) but sticking with it. Lots of extra cm - can't believe how much more but think that's the grapefruit juice a-working.... So, don't think I've ov-d yet but continue to dtd as much as I can. Also on the preseed so we'll see....

Good for you not symptom spotting. One day after AF this month I had LOADS of symptoms and as such have made a note to self for tww: I get cramps a lot; I iften feel nauseous; I am always tired; my bbs look bigger in different light! These do not make me pg! No more symptom spotting for me!!!!!

FX this is your month! funky you and me - the November / December 12 month hat trick!?! FX

skybluegirl33 · 17/11/2013 10:26

Looks like I may be hopping off the bus.

My bbt for the first time has been really high for me since ovulating, even my cheeks have been burning with the extra heat! However, I'm 12dpo and had a slight dip in bbt ths morning but still higher above cover line in comparison to last month. Did an IC POAS this morning, BFN.

AF due approximately Tuesday. If bbt temps drop again until then will probably know I'm out!

lucyfluff · 17/11/2013 10:11

Choccy so sorry it was a chemical Sad take some time out to relax and I hope we see you soon. Hugs to you x

M33r...good luck for a dec bfp it must be frustrating when your cycles are a bit crazy!!!

Sorry to those that AF got...when your ready come on over to the lucky festive bus girls Grin

spinningirl10 · 17/11/2013 10:01

Wineandchoccy....sorry af got you, all the best for next cycle Thanks

sazzlehopes · 17/11/2013 09:28

14 BFPs!!

coco808 ttc#1 cycle 3
Grobagsforever ttc#2 cycle 1
LH1981 ttc#3 cycle 3
Dollydaydream27 ttc#1 cycle 1
justanotherforumname, ttc#1, cycle 1
Sparky321 ttc#3 cycle 2
Englishteacher78 ttc#1 cycle 4
Sparklesandfizz ttc#3 cycle 3
nicnacnicnac ttc#1 cycle 1
Choccywoccydodah ttc#2 cycle 3
Babymamatobe ttc#1 cycle 3
ElCranko ttc#2 Cycle 1
MrsCarridge Ttc #1, cycle #3
Funkymonk ttc#1 cycle 12 (4 post m/c)

46 awaiting BFPs!

Heba1025 ttc #1 for almost 3 years cycle 3 post m/c bfp due 5th Nov
Wineandchoccy ttc #1, cycle #4, bfp due 6th Nov
SarahBumBarer ttc #3 cycle 1 bfp due 7th Nov
Mrswalsh ttc#1 cycle 4 bfp due 8th Nov
theduchesse, ttc#2, cycle 1, bfp due 10th nov
Mumtoacub ttc #1 cycle 6 bfp due 10th Nov
DinkyMole, ttc#3 cycle 2 BFP due 10 Nov
plinkyplonks TTC#1 cycle #4 bfp due 11th Nov
Laptopgirl ttc#? cycle bfp 12th nov
Lessonsintightropes ttc #1, cycle 3, bfp due 13th Nov
Howly ttc#1 cycle 1 BFP due 13th Nov
LuckyStar1 ttc#1 cycle 1 post mmc bfp due 16th Nov
Nottalotta ttc#1 cycle 5 BFP due 16th Nov
MovingOnUpduffed ttc #2 cycle 1 BFP 16th Nov
Skybluegirl33 ttc#1 cycle 4 BFP due 18/19th Nov
Pocopearl ttc #2, cycle 2, bfp dure 20th Nov
ItsSoFluffyImGonnaDie Ttc#1 cycle 2 bfp due 22nd nov
ELR ttc#3 cycle 4 BFP due 22nd Nov
DisneyDiva87 TTC #1 cycle 8(?) bfp due 23rd Nov
Flymo79, ttc #1, cycle 5, BFP due 23 Nov
HalfPintLulu ttc#2 cycle 2 BFP due 24th Nov
justhayley, ttc#2, cycle 1 after mc, bfp due 25th nov
NeuroticSweetTalk Cycle#3 BFP due 25th Nov
keeponjuggling TTC #2 cycle 11 bfp due 25th nov
sazzlehopes ttc#2 cycle 12 bfp nov 26th
AnyFuckersfrogslegs35 ttc#4 cycle1 bfp due 28-30th Nov
Gnomiegrace TTC#1 Cycle#5 BFP due 29th Nov?
TwerkingNinetoFive ttc#2 cycle 3 bfp due 29th Nov
dontsqueezetheteabag TTC #1 Cycle 3 BFP due 31st nov
Owlie ttc#1 cycle 7 bfp due 30th nov/1st dec
Aisha18 ttc#1 cycle 1 bfp due ?
barmybunting TTC #1 Cycle 2 bfp due ?
Punkypod, ttc#2, cycle 1, bfp due 5th dec
Refoca ttc #2 cycle #3 bfp due ??
wiggleginger, ttc#2, cycle 3, bfp ?
Bohemond ttc#1 cycle 1 post m/c bfp due ?
Violetsareblu ttc#2 cycle 1 bfp due ?
DearDinah ttc#1 cycle 4/5 bfp due ?
Bloumer ttc#1 month 5/cycle ridiculous BFP ?
Flylikeabird ttc#2 cycle 1 bfp due ?
Hibou7688 ttc#1 cycle 1 bfp due ?
Newbie784 ttc#1 cycle 3 bfp due ?
Lifehasafunnywayofhelpingout ttc#2 cycle? bfp?
Jennyallan86 ttc#? cycle 4 bfp due ?
Sausagesaurus lurking.....
SaraRB123 lurking.....
Littlemissy1234 lurking.....

Hopped off onto the December bus

Lime19
Owlie84
Leezl
Lifesgreatquestions
DuPainDuVinDuFromage
Kirstyd1
PinkHat1
Booisgreat
Missvaughan85
Keepswimming1
ADP007
Thisismenow
Crazylady2013
ImNotAFlower
SoMuchFruit
ScienceGeekGirl
Vjones
MrsWalsh
Onelifeonechance
Chubbykitty
Karmalaa
Findingme
LePetitPont
moffit
Lucyfluff
Mama31
Vjones1985
MundayCakes85
ImaginaryHat,
cottonwool4brains
SaltySeaBird

sazzlehopes · 17/11/2013 09:27

choccy and imaginary i'm so very sorry to hear your news. i hope you are both being well looked after in RL. Choccy do you want me to take you off the list? I'm not sure on correct etiquette round here...

m33r i'm in the 2ww right now. About 3dpo. I peaked on my cbfm on day 16 which is about 2 days later than normal so I hope that isn't a problem with shortening my lp. I'm not sympton spotting this month - i did loads last month and it all amounted to nothing. I am eating pineapple, but have a busy working week ahead so hoping to distract myself until next week when I will test.
How you doing? AF gone yet? xx

funky the fact that you did nothing different feels better to hear than you did this, ate that. It has made me relax a lot more and just think I'll get there in the end. Thank you!!!!!

Wineandchoccy · 17/11/2013 09:26

AF arrived this morning Sad I had got my hopes up because I was so late.

I'm going to get a ticket for the December bus my DH is not going to know what's hit him Grin

Good luck to everyone left and Sorry for those that AF got.

Howly · 17/11/2013 08:39

If your worried about wasting money POAS you can get 3 tests for 79p in home bargains! They don't have the plastic casing on them, just the strips but that's what I've been using!! Gonna go get a frer and digi today to confirm my faint line on the cheap one!

spinningirl10 · 17/11/2013 08:37

MorningGrin

Yes Howly, go and get a cb Digi now!!!Grin

Salty a bfp on Xmas eve would be amazing, fx for you!

DinkyMole · 17/11/2013 08:10

Sounds good Howly! Go and get a digi!!

Salty - so sorry to hear AF got you Sad A Christmas Eve BFP would be lovely wouldn't it Smile Fx for you!

SaltySeaBird · 17/11/2013 07:55

I'm definitely out and onto the December bus. AF arrived with full vengeance. When will I learn to stop wasting pregnancy tests before I'm late?

Feeling really despondent about it all this morning, looking at DD and seeing the age gap between her and a sibling growing. Even though it was technically cycle 2 it's been much longer than a few months as I had my first pre-conception meeting with the consultants / changed medication ready for TTC in May.

Good luck to everyone still waiting this month.

Now let's hope Santa gives me a BFP for Christmas. My next potential test day will be 24th December ...

Howly · 17/11/2013 07:40

Another line this morning, darker line than yesterday on the IC but still faint! DH still in denial!

DinkyMole · 17/11/2013 06:41

Still full of tonsillitis, no BFP, no AF but temp is right down this morning so AF probably on her way.

funkymonk · 16/11/2013 20:12

So sorry to hear that choccy Sad

Hahaha m33r! I also thought I would have a baby by now or be due any day! Hang in there indeed! All the best for your current cycle!

DinkyMole · 16/11/2013 20:01

Oh Choccy, I'm so sorry Sad taking a break sounds like a good idea until you're ready to try again. Thanks

Sara - boots, superdrug, most places like that sell them now.

I've lost count of how many dpo I am. Have started getting shadowy lines on my tests so hopes are up but I've woken up with tonsillitis so think maybe the virus/fever might result in a BFN.