The bangs turn into bfp's on the November bus! That's firework bangs you filthy lot...

And skyblue I'm 7dpo and not feeling anything specific re symptoms :/ if I could have any symptoms I would like sore nipples...as I've never had those.. had every other symptom then af came!! :/ so just sore nipples followed by a BFP would be lovely!!!

munday What is your cycle like now, may I ask?

mama I think that will have to be my approach for this month now. Not sure how to train myself not to think about it though.

VJones I'm so sorry AF got you- thought we were going to be BFP buddies- I'm also 4 cycles lost pill and still waiting for cycle to regulate. Go get a big bar of chocolate and a winter Pimms and hibernate for a while x

Skyblue if you have time to check in here on Friday! Then you have time to poas ;)

VJ it's so upsetting I know....i had that so many times when I truly believed I was pregnant....im not even entertaining the idea anymore as it's so soul destroying....im just hoping it happens but feel prepared (kind of) if it doesnt...I know that doesn't make you feel any better right now....i hope you will feel a bit better in a few days though x

Elcranko I hope you have a FRER for tomorrow morn??? How many dpo are you?

What's your plan, m33r?

I'm pleased you at least know the feeling, dinky. But of course it's a shame that we both had to experience it!!

vj it's awful when you're so sure. I find making a plan helped me but only after a few days of being really low inc having a cry in my office at work. That was a low point.

I felt like that last month vj. I was absolutely convinced, so many symptoms but then AF arrived 11dpo. It was awful when AF arrived so I'm sorry that you are going through it too. It took me a couple of days but you will get past this feeling.

Sazzle- just noticed that my BFP should be due 18/19th of this month,not sure why I said the 27th?? Sorry, must be going mad! Please could you change it at some point when you get a chance. Thanks x

Thanks. I think it hurts so much because I thought I might be pregnant. Even my friend told her dh she thought I was yesterday :-(

Ok just looked elcranko....the lines look quite far down on the stick....im not sure if they are reliable!!!! Can you see my pics...its an old one which shows an evap line and thats a negative if it helps??!!

Try a diff test tmrw because your symptoms sound likr you are!!!!!

Elcranko Looks like a bfp to me!! :)

But I agree with Mama....you need to poas....a pg test! Do you have one for the morning?

Mrswalsh and VJ, so sorry too,fx for December for you both x

Mama - You are a bad influence on me!!!! I have loads of IC but I'm away at a conference end of the week so doubt I will test then. Will be checking you all Friday morning though.
Symptoms so far include one random day of bleeding gums after flossing (even though I do this every day) and tender/sore breasts. My BBT has remained high so far (only my second month of temping so only have the previous month to compare to). Therefore, I will only POAS on Sunday if my temps do not drop! Will I resist the temptation before????

Oh vj I'm so sorry You sound like you're feeling pretty hopeless and I can understand that. Let yourself just be sad for a couple of days and then pick yourself back up again. 11 days is better than before, it's moving in the right direction. Big hugs and gin

Sorry mrsW and VJones that af got you

VJones, I know it's hard.....maybe take some time out eat chocolate and drink fx you get your bfp soon

Elcranko....I'll get on the laptop and have a look at your pics

Elcranko I've looked at your pics alot! I did get a lot of evaps with those tests but none would have been seen in a photo (as I did try to take pics and convince myself :/) so I'd say it's very promising but I'd love to see a line on another test as I don't trust the IC's too much! I do think it's most likely a BFP though :)

Oh VJ sorry it arrived. I kept waiting for you to post esp with lp getting longer. Its getting better though isnt it...I know thats no consolation but hugs too x

Sorry to mrsw too, hope you have better luck next month

Elcranko did you buy a fr for tmrw???

Yeah mama its so exciting thinking about xmas we cant wait to get the tree up lol.

At the moment I don't think it will but thank you xxx

vj I don't have much wisdom to offer but I am devastated for you. You're not alone though and it will happen ...

I am pleased it's longer but in my head, 11 days was still long enough to conceive and so I'm just feeling even more shit now.

Come on girls! el needs to know and so do I! We need a BFP here - lots of AF around.

Sorry missv! Try to keep upbeat and try to believe December is for you. I know you're gutted. I'm sorry!

MrsW and vj so sorry that AF got you. Fx December is better for you both x
And vj glad that your lp is a but longer, hope you can take that positive with you.
Treat yourself ladies, lots of and I reckon!

I'm not sure m33r... If anyone hasn't looked at my test photos, would you mind doing so and telling me what you think - evap or BFP? TIA x

Thank you but I don't think it will happen!