Posifrickentivity all round, with a good healthy dash of project desperate. New thread, new luck, new BFPs and Summer 2014 babies all round please! TTC after MC

It does mean that I can have several large glasses of wine though! How about that for a bit of posifrickintivity?

Sorry about temp nose dive suzy - that forewarning is always so depressing.

Any poasers today?

Welcome handsfull

I know it is terrible that I have to wait so long. The other alternative I was given was to ring before 9 everyday and see if there is anything available on that day. Can't really do that with work.

Aly my cycle has gone manic too. Cd 16 and no positive on opk but temp still rising ! I have a feeling ff will mark ov soon if the temp rises for another day. V. Odd.

Congratulations on the bfps! Hopefully we'll see some more today. Not for me though, my temp is nosediving so just waiting for AF now.
Welcome to handsfull.

May I join you please? I've got a 2 year old, a 4 year old and have lost two pregnancies since DS. I'm wondering what he did up there. The most recent was at 11 weeks, erpc, retained products, infection, iv antibiotics, hideous treatment by hospital, body sorted itself out finally 2 weeks ago yesterday. We have decided the "wait til you have a period rule" was making us even sadder, so we are rather enjoying a patch of having no idea whether I'm ovulating and just going with the flow. It's a bit liberating! So not TTC actively until I get AF, but who knows? Just debating doing a test to check it is negative, do we think this is a good idea? I'm still very wibbly sad and not sure I really want to see a negative. And when I suggested it to DH he went all bereft and lost looking.

I am wishing you all ooooodles of good luck. We all deserve a bit.

Triple I'm really sorry about your appointment, they really shouldn't make you make wait :-(

I'm doing ok, have been having bleeding since last week. However it's light and old brown blood which midwife is unhothered about. slso i had a private scan on Friday ( for thexsake of sanity) since showed dot was all ok. So trying to stay calm and positive.

Also congratulations to wriggle :-)

triple that's awful. they should be able to squeeze you in earlier since it's their fault that you've missed the appt

Congratulations nerdy and wiggle, hoping you both have sticky beans! Excellent news, we were starting to look a bit low on bfp's!!

I'm still waiting for af to appear, never have I so much actually wanted it to arrive. It's been over 3 weeks since the mc, so I appreciate not a massively long time, but Ive taken a pg test to make sure and it was neg...which in this case is a good thing.

triple, that's awful that you have to wait so long again, you'd think they would work a bit of overtime to squeeze patients in that have lost out on appointments.

Hi everyone

Thanks for all the lovely messages, and congratulations to wiggle too!

I hope you don't mind if I hang around for a bit longer, nervous of being over confident that everything is fine. Last time I found out about the MMC only a couple of weeks after the BFP, so I'm aware this could be short lived.

Yesterday I bought a two-pack of First Response as you can use those anytime. Got positives yesterday arvo and again this morning. If I'm still getting positives by Monday I'll ring the Dr. I'll have to let my line manager know, as last time I just had to rush off suddenly with no explanation when I needed a scan. She is lovely and would be fine about it anyway.

At the moment I am assuming all is ok and that it's only a few weeks, given all the negatives I had, but some people do take a while to show on tests so I don't really know how far along I am.

Right, we are off out now, will try and check in later. Hope you all have a good day!

Took time off to see gp about spotting and request progesterone test. But gp's car broke down and appointment got cancelled. So upset. Need to wait a few more weeks now for the next appointment.

based on temping i'm only 4 dpo tomorrow. normally i'd be about 10 dpo tomorrow. i'm not going to poas. waste of a stick.
If i make it to next friday without a temp drop i'll poas then

cosmic hope all is going well with you!

aly eek good that you were temping. Though maybe like nerdy we should think that strange cycles may lead to a bfp!! So how many dpo are you now based on temping? Will you poas tomorrow? Seems like I cant give up temping quite yet. It's becoming a bit of a struggle though now.

Congrats to wicked !

oh wickedwiggle that's great news, but I completely understand your anxiety, esp with some spotting. Fingers and everything else crossed that this one hangs around for you.

triple yep, i'm still temping. everything has been wonderfully consistent plus or minus 1 day until suddenly not this month. i've either ov'd 6 days late or ov'd at the normal time without any much of a temp rise . This has happened just when, like you, i had been thinking of giving up temping - now i'm swinging the other way and thinking of adding ov sticks back into the mix next month!
So frustrating. If it is late ov, i'm glad for the temping because otherwise in a few days i'd be getting all excited about af being late, when actually she'll probably come right on time (you can tell i am feeling incredibly optimistic about this cycle )

Nerdy that's lovely lovely news x

Congrats nerdy was just thinking it seemed like ages since we'd had a bfp!

I'm 5dpo but not hopeful, pretty much given up at the moment! It's been a year since I got my bfp and over 2 years of ttc its just all such an effort!! Not much I can do at the moment just sit out the 2ww.

Glad your tests were ok sal and fingers crossed the dream comes true alyant

congrats newly pregnant ladies! hope the new beans stick xx it's great to hear some good news.

Hey sorry have been gone for a while, seems I have missed a lot! Well done nerdy, am so happy for you and have my fingers tightly crossed for a sticky bean :)

I have also found out that I am pregnant but felt like a bit of a fraud as was only here for a month after ectopic; hence the lack of announcement. a complete fluke I think, seemed too good to be true so haven't told a soul until now! Am now just over 6 weeks but have been spotting on and off for nearly week so not feeling too positive atm, can I stay here with you guys for a bit longer? Am utterly terrified of moving on in case it all goes wrong again :(

Congratulations nerdy will keep my fingers crossed for you :)

Ooh dreams sound promising!! So is this another hurdle (I.e to have a dream) before getting pg irl?

Thanks aly holiday was wonderful and now back to temping. I have decided that I will not temp after this month if my chart is identical to the last two. It would suggest the pattern is fairly stable then. Are you still temping?

over I know what you mean. I think we burn out too early this way. Tomorrow is cd15 for me which us when I usually get my opk positive, but lets see. So far no sign of ewcm either. Maybe should buy some cough syrup!

Congratulations Nerdy. Hope the line gets darker and the bean sticks.

Just seen nerdy's news. Congratulations! I've got my fingers crossed for you.

AF is definitely here. Feeling a bit crappy. It doesn't help that I've been interviewing all day so now I'm exhausted and a little tearful.

I mean hols triple, not hold

good nerdy i'm glad that you didn't do anything special. i can't muster the enthusiasm to go all out, so it's gotta work one of these days, right??

ooooh over maybe this will be our month - dreams never lie

hope your hold was good triple

Triple - I am also trying the strategy of waiting to dtd until my first positive opk/high reading. I feel what's the point in trying earlier its not done me any good so far and I always feel like we start too early and then 'burn out'. I'm currently on cd13.

Nerdy - that's great news, congrats fingers crossed for you.

Welcome to the new people x

Aly I also had a dream last night that I was pregnant and gave birth to a girl...premonition or just pure delusion!

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Hello all

I have been away on yet another holiday and then was lurking - being low on posifrickentivity.

just seeing nerdy's news ! many congrats. That is wonderful, especially after your fears of PCOS and incredibly long cycle. So many cycles post MC has it taken for your BFP? However long, I can imagine it must have felt like eternity.

hopefully we will get some more good news like this on Friday !

I am awaiting positive opk - currently on cd 14. Not commencing shagathon yet until we have a positive on opk - this is the strategy for this month !

welcome to all the newbies.