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The Friday POAS Party Thread

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VJONES1985 · 15/10/2013 21:59

All aboard the par-tay train. Don't forget to check in and tell us what you've brought to the party. I'll start!

VJones 9dpo on Friday, brought Fondant Fancies

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allchatnicknamesgone · 17/10/2013 08:01

vj. I'm really sorry. At least it's full flow. Very sorry.

I had bfn this morning, so don't think I'll be at the party and the AF is probably gathering paces as I write.

onelifeonechance · 17/10/2013 07:49

Awh VJones, sorry to hear that, do know how gutting it all is and the constant wondering if it will ever happen, (which it will, when the time is right-and that's the frustrating part because we all want it to happen straight away) Be kind to yourself and get some treats in, sit out this crap bit in comfort, then start thinking about next month when you're ready, fx for you Flowers

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VJONES1985 · 17/10/2013 07:34

Yeah, it's full AF, complete with AF symptoms I haven't had yet since stopping the pill - spots, sore nipples, full on tears and bitch mode.

Am going to the doc for reassurance too. I know he probably won't help and it's early days etc but I just need to know it's going to get better.

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onelifeonechance · 17/10/2013 07:29

Bit of Take That? Surely Grin

onelifeonechance · 17/10/2013 07:27

Oooooo Mama i'm so excited about the party. Full preparations in swing here, bubble bath, face mask and body exfoliator lined up, followed by waxing and nails, just to leave hair and make up for the morn Grin Still deciding on outfit, trying on session planned for later.

What party tunes will we have??

jaykay987 · 17/10/2013 07:16

Sorry vj. Has it developed into full AF? I didn't want to move you til we heard? Hmm

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VJONES1985 · 17/10/2013 07:10

I shouldn't be on the list, I won't be poas tomorrow :(

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jaykay987 · 17/10/2013 07:07

VIP rsvps (if you're not on the list, you're not getting in):

Allchatnicknamesgone 15dpo
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Batman 14dpo?
Jaykay987 14dpo
Findingme 14dpo
Cottonwool4brains 13dpo
Babymamatobe 12dpo
Hislommel 12dpo
Jessieagain 12dpo
Onelifeonechance 11dpo
Eeyore2911 11dpo
Mrsb2013 10dpo
Blackberryseason 9dpo
Vjones1985 9dpo
Mama31 8dpo
Flymo79 ??
M33r?
Batmam?

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Batmam · 16/10/2013 22:00

Thanks, phew the urge to poas has passed. Did a little check to see if the tests were stil there but put them straight back. proud of myself!Smile should hate the sight of the bloody things by now after a gazillion bfns... Might go to bed early in case the urge comes back.

Blackberry it's still early! Keep the faith hun x

m33r · 16/10/2013 21:24

It's not over vj. I have everything crossed for you. Especially with things being strange for you in lp. Hang on!

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VJONES1985 · 16/10/2013 21:22

Nothing on the paper as yet but there is blood when I, err, prod about.

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BlackberrySeason · 16/10/2013 21:22

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m33r · 16/10/2013 21:20

vj has AF def got you?

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VJONES1985 · 16/10/2013 21:18

Thank you. Had a long bath and a vodka and lemonade. Managed to eat a small dinner but had no appetite at all today for some reason. Didn't eat lunch at all!

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m33r · 16/10/2013 21:18

batmam I am intervening. Don't poas!! Wait til Friday with everyone else; don't get a neg (too early) or to not be sure. Wait til Friday for a sturdy positive! Hang on!

Batmam · 16/10/2013 21:10

vj so gutted for you. Sending hugs and virtual wine.

Argh I need some intervention sharpish...thinking of testing early, please stop me!

m33r · 16/10/2013 21:06

vj gutted for you. I hate how you feel and know how you feel. I know that won't help but I'm thinking if you. It's not over of course but that doesn't help how you're feeling now.

allchatnicknamesgone · 16/10/2013 21:04

Not much of a story! Just in desperate need of another baby to complete family. Had dd 5 years ago. Lots of troubled years, but things came together and I just need this one thing!

AF due tmw and I'm dpo14 tmw too.

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VJONES1985 · 16/10/2013 19:07

Thanks :)

allchat Thanks again. Remind me again, what's your story? :)

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HisLommel · 16/10/2013 18:50

Have a good wallow tonight and then pick yourself back up in the morning. It ain't over til the fat aunt bursts into full song Wink

allchatnicknamesgone · 16/10/2013 18:49

Yep, I know what you mean. Sorry - didn't mean to be insensitive. x

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VJONES1985 · 16/10/2013 18:43

It won't happen all the bloody time my LP is seven days long, ha ha! I'll wallow in self-pity tonight.

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allchatnicknamesgone · 16/10/2013 18:41

Vjones- it can happen every month. we promise and probably when you least expect it. Snuggle up. x

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VJONES1985 · 16/10/2013 18:38

Thanks all, but I'm not holding my breath. It won't happen next month either, I just know it.

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