Help protect children from gaming harms.

Take our survey

Please or to access all these features

Conception

When's the best time to get pregnant? Use our interactive ovulation calculator to work out when you're most fertile and most likely to conceive.

14DPO, no AF, EWCM and TMI..

31 replies

NeuroticSweetTalk · 29/09/2013 12:23

Afternoon all,

Sorry if there's already a post like this one, I haven't been able to find any in here and only short lived ones elsewhere on the net.
I'm just very confused. I have a very regular 26 day cycle and according to my calculations I OVd around day 13 which at the moment puts me at 14DPO and on CD27. My AF is due today but I have no symptoms of AF at all except mild cramps and pressure in my lower abdomen. Usually I'll start spotting the day before I'm due on with either spotting or pinky/brown tinged CM but I'm due on today and despite my best efforts I can't seem to get anything out but EW/snotty CM.
I've had two BFNs at about 12DPO and one BFN from this mornings FMU.

So far in my 2WW I've had spotting (at 3DPO that lasted for about 36 hours), frequent urination, nausea, heartburn/indigestion (that wakes me up at stupid times in the morning as well as throughout the day), breast tenderness and sensitivity, swinging from hot and cold (mostly being too hot despite normally being a very cold blooded person), cramps, pressure, backache, appetite problems (sometimes can't bare to eat and sometimes can't stop stuffing my face), tiredness and sleepiness (mostly incredibly tired during the day and going to bed at 9pmish but then can't lay-in in the mornings, instead being wide awake by 10am which never happens), and been incredibly snotty the last few days on and off but not got a cold, I've been irritable and emotional too.

Sorry about the essay and thanks in advance for any help :)

OP posts:
NeuroticSweetTalk · 29/09/2013 14:51

Yeah, I suppose, I haven't ever ovulated late it's always been on time or early but if I believe that I ovulated late it might be less of a anxious wait lol :)

Thanks for your help :)

OP posts:
RaRaZ · 29/09/2013 14:40

And you're 14dpo? If your LP is usually 13 days and you ovulate on day 13, I'd leave it another few days before testing again as you're quite early - you might have ovulated slightly late, in which case you're testing early, or you might just take longer to get a BFP. If I were you, I'd try to believe that I'd ovulated late and AF would consequently be late - that way, if you get a BFP it'll be a lovely surprise.

NeuroticSweetTalk · 29/09/2013 14:17

Cycle 1 of properly trying but cycle 4 since tracking my cycle getting ready for TTC :)

OP posts:
RaRaZ · 29/09/2013 14:08

Sorry, what cycle day are you on now?

NeuroticSweetTalk · 29/09/2013 12:40

My LP is usually 13 days, my only thing I'm confused about is since stopping my BCP in May I've been really regular. The reason I say around day 13 is I've OVd 2 days early before now so I'm not 100% sure I'm 14DPO or more like 16DPO so I covered all my bases this month by DTDing from CD 10 until CD 15 just in case :)

OP posts:
RaRaZ · 29/09/2013 12:28

Hey. How long is your luteal phase (bit between ov and AF) normally? Just if you ov'd 'around' Day 13 and it was actually a bit later than that, you might not even be late yet. Alternatively, plenty of people don't test positive straight away when they're pregnant. It's taken me till two weeks after AF missed to get a positive before. I know it's horrible waiting, but it's all you can really do atm. Fingers crossed!

Swipe left for the next trending thread